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Consensual non-monogamy is often perceived as a couples activity. However, there are a good number of single men and women who participate in it. A single person participating in the swinging or polyamorous lifestyle faces many challenges that are unique to their un-coupled status.
Join Dr. T and Devin Kent in welcoming a special guest who will discuss her journey as a single woman in the swinging lifestyle. In this episode, we will learn what she ultimately seeks in her consensual non-monogamous life and hear about some of the trials, tribulations, and pitfalls she, and other single people face when choosing this path. This is sure to be a thought provoking discussion for couples and singles alike!
“Long term monogamy with a partner of either sex tends to destabilize bisexual identity narratives” - Eadie (1996).
Bisexuality has an interesting place in society. Bisexual individuals get a lot of pressure to live heterosexual lives or homosexual lives, both groups not valuing the bisexual (or queer for that matter) identity. Individuals in the consensual non-monogamous world often see themselves as more accepting of diverse individuals. However, is this true? Is being bisexual in the consensual non-monogamous community "accepted" Join Dr. T and Devin Kent as they discuss bisexuality and the consensual non-monogamous world.
In the early 80s, Neil Sedaka sung "Breaking Up Is Hard To Do". His song was primarily about monogamous relationships, but his words are no less true for those who practice consensual non-monogamy. As a matter of fact, many feel a failed consensual non-mog relationship implies a failure in consensual non-monogamy. A failed relationship does not mean that a consensual non-monogamous lifestyle must end too. Join Devin Kent and Dr. T as they explore the difficulties and opportunities created by ending a consensual non-monogamous relationship.
Join Devin Kent and Dr.T as they discuss fear being the death of our consensual non-monogamous live. Fear is an important emotion and can warn us of some very real dangers. However, it can also stop us from living through change. This is very true in consensual non-monogamy. If we can learn to handlle our greatest fears, our consensual non-monogamous lives can improve beyond our wildest dreams. Let's talk about how we can get over our greatest fears in consensual non-monogmy
Sometimes it may seem hard to exercise your no in your consensual non-monogamous life. At times, we may have taken one for the team, expecting that our lovers will do the same for us. Other times, we do not know how express our desire for friendship without sex in consensual non-monogamy. Just because we live consensual non-monogamous lives does not mean we have to fuck everyone. Join Devin Kent and Dr. T as we take about exercising our no in our consensual non-monogamous lives. Should you miss this one? No!
As humans, we often neglect a large source of knowledge in our lives. We are taught to pay attention to our thoughts and behaviors, sometimes our emotions. However we often forget that our spirits, thoughts, emotions, and behaviors are all housed in our bodies. Often, if we were to listen to the various sensations of our bodies, we would be able to understand our spirits, thoughts, emotions, and behaviors in a much more profound way. We may even have a better chance at changing our unwanted thoughts, emotions, and behaviors if we would only listen to our bodies’ knowledge. Ironically, in our sexual worlds, where we use our bodies often, we neglect to reflect on all of the knowledge our bodies have to offer. Join Devin Kent and Dr. T as we talk about embodied consensual non-monogamy.
Falling in love can be complicated in any relationship;
however, falling in love in consensual non-monogamy can be tricky, unexpected, beautiful, and trying at the very same time. Whether you are looking for love in consensual non-monogamy or not, love is possible in consensual non-monogamy unless you consciously put practices in place to avoid love (Even then, love can sneak up on you.). Join Devin Kent and Dr. T as they discuss navigating love in consensual non-monogamy. Like always, they tackle the topic with humor, some personal and professional experience, and research.
Like evey life, consensual non-monogamy has its pros and cons. The pros and cons of non-monogamy can teach you much about life in ways that nothing else can. When reflecting on the pros and cons of non-monogamy, you can find the information that will help you create a consensual non-mongamous life you can truly enjoy. Join Devin Kent and Dr.T take a fairly light-hearted look at the pros and cons of consensual non-monogamy in our own lives and the pros and cons others have shared with us.
Welcome to the first episode of Well-Being and Consensual Non-Monogamy. Really, This is a rebranded show with new hosts: Devin Kent and Dr.T Sexcoach. Our focus is first on personal well-being: physical, mental, and spiritual. However, we hope to provide a sex positive environment for listners, particularly the consensual non-monogamous community. With that being said, all sex positive people who want to look at different aspects of their sexuality and themselves are welcome.
Well-Being and Consensual Non-Monogamy is a good place to come for sexual healing and exploration. It is a good place to learn something new, begin again, and become someone new.
Join me @ noon, Eastern Time, as I discuss the Personal Codes of Ethics for Monogamy and Consensual Non-Monogamy
The term ethics refers to the rules, traditions, and laws of a given society, created to help humans co-exist within a society. There is no society that has a code of ethics that accounts for everyone and protects all individuals equally.
Most societies create codes of ethics pertaining to “proper” sex and sexuality. Historically, this has been very important to the health of a society because sex and sexuality can be such divisive subjects that they can contribute to great turmoil in society. The erotic is more openly diverse now than it has ever been.
To maintain our families, friends, sexual relationships, and peace of mind we should think about our personal code of erotic ethics. Whether you are in monogamous or consensual non-monogamous relationships, your code of ethics is a reflection of the balance between your self love and compassion for others.
Dr. Nwachi Tafari,
Director of the Consensual Non-Monogamy Community, Inc.
Call in (347) 633-9786 live, follow link to chat room, or catch me in the archive. After the show, call me @ 336.662.7777 or email me at email@example.com for more information or a free 1hour coaching session.
Our Individual self-love, mentally, physically, and spiritually, ultimately affects how we deal with love and jealousy in our non-monogamous live. How can we love ourselves more, the good, the bad, and the ugly, so we can handle love and jealousy? In many ways, we feel that jealousy and love stem from the same place, desire; Moreover, it is acceptance of our own desires that helps accept the desires of others. It sounds easy when we say it, but we must find ways to live it. Join Devin and Dr.T explore the consensual non-mongamous life.
Join Dr. T and Devin Kent as they discuss the reflection process they went through to decide to live or not live a consensual non-monogamous life. There are many sexy reasons why we might try a consensual non-monogamous life; however, do we think about what the lifestyle will do to what we thought life was? Do think about who we are ourselves to see if our personalities are actually well suited for the consensual non-mog life? Join us as we explore and learn.
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