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Intimacy conjures ideas of a private cozy atmosphere and is defined as an affinity for; a rapport,affection and confidence in an interaction. Empathy, understanding, and compassion are at the heart of intimacy. Researchers are beginning of understand the relationship of depression among people due to the absence of intimacy in their lives. The need to feel part of a bonded community is universal; a desire for “ being at home” emotionally. This is reflected in a common Southern congenial expression, “Make yourself at home”.
Current expectations in relationships are conditioned by previous experiences. Often we are expecting something in a relationship and not realizing this until we are not getting it. Relationships can be sabotaged by hidden expectations and lingering disappointments. Emotional memory exists outside of time. We must be aware of our own expectations (and how they are affected by our history) for there to be hope of developing intimate relationships Distrust is a feeling that someone or something is not honest and cannot be trusted and is regarded with suspicion thereby eliminating confidence in the success of new circumstances.
Mistrust is a general sense of unease toward someone or something not necessarily based on experience but on instinctive. Mistrust can evoke “Mind Reading” which is often related to a past disappointing relationship experience. We tend to expect what we previously had the opportunity to learn; we make assumptions based on our history. Then an action in the present, that is similar to a previous experience, triggers an intense negative explosive emotional reaction.
It is imperative to learn how to change the hidden expectations that work to distort a relationship, because we transfer hidden expectations from our history to present day.
Why do people mistrust one another?
Do black people mistrust each other more than other people?
Herman Melville wrote in his book the Whale or Moby Dick:
“Ignorance is the parent of fear.”
But... is mistrust the child of fear?
Mistrust used as a noun means: lack of trust or confidence; distrust.
Mistrust used as a verb to regard with mistrust, suspicion, or doubt; distrust.
But, where does the initial mistrust come from?
“Knowing only a portion of a person, nation, state or world, misinterpretation of a person, or a situation or circumstance.”
Can mistrust be manufactured?
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Last week we called on friends to include 2.1 billion Christians to touch and agree that Black Lives Matter. From our 2014 Christmas narrative we learned that lynching was a widely acknowledged practice in the United States until the middle of the 20th century. The U.S. Senate resolved to apologize for its own failure to enact anti-lynching legislation. As Ebenezer Scrooge might observe, that should be behind us as our ghost of Christmas past.
For demonstrators taking to the streets protesting, proclaiming and declaring equal justice, it’s a new season! The injustice is called by another name, but the results are still the same. The numbers add up to an increase in dead folk and an ever-widening Gulf of Mistrust.
The President’s assessment of events on the streets and in the courtroom accurately portrait the problem America faces this week of Christmas present. You can ask any of 2.1 billion Christians on earth about the jacked up arrest, trials and lynching of Jesus the Christ 2000 years ago, to get your sense of what needs to be done.
In Christmas present, WE THE PEOPLE will need to realize WE ARE THE WORLD. Our friends are watching, hoping for a brighter day. So, let’s start living like Christmas future is a goal worth sharing by coming together to bridge what the president has termed, a Gulf of Mistrust.
What will you do to make a change? What will you do to save our own lives? You can tweet us @YouthUSA, like us on Facebook.com/YouthAchieversUSA or call in during our live show 657-383-1405 Saturday, 12 noon ET, 11 am CT, 9 am PT.
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Continuing our discussion on the state of the Black family...Women's roles in relationships and a household are major. They are the bearers of life, the nurturers, the soft balance in a hard situation, and in essence...the first link to love for all of the people in their lives. When a woman is not at her best, balance is thrown off, because of the many hats she wears, love is always at the base. In today's society, women are harder, "independent", misfocused, and on another path. Parental love and intimate love are addressed as companionship and hook-ups, as women's resourcefulness and perserverance abilities have been beaten down by the many beasts of the modern world. Why do you think Black women have a problem trusting love? Join in tonight by calling 347-32-9967 at 10:30 pm EST.
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Tonight we conclude our State of the Black Family series by focusing on the most delicate part of the family--the children. Weve covered the roles in the mistrust of love from both men's and women's points of view, and it's time to address the manifestations of that problem that has developed in our children today. With the absence of the village and a division in the Black couple, our children are left to their own vices to tackle not only the regular universal issues of growing up--but growing up Black in America. The results have erupted in viral developments of too-young relationships, teen pregnancy, effeminazation of our boys, masculinization of our girls, teen domestic violence, STD's, and other preventable issues. What role does our damaged mindsets play in our children's behavior toward relationships, platonic and intimate alike? Join in tonight at 10:30 PM EST by calling 347-327-9967.
God Bless you; on this New Day of September of your New World! Thank youfor joining your's truly for It's a WONDERFUL WEDNESDAY! for the newest birthing of Time Released 2015! Behold;The Bridegroom Cometh! Paternal Holy Orders of The Knight's of Christ.In this sharing i will minister how and why it's important to wait & choose the ONE meant for you.
2 Corinthians 6:13-18 (MSG) Dear, dear Corinthians, I can’t tell you how much I long for you to enter this wide-open, spacious life. We didn’t fence you in. The smallness you feel comes from within you. Your lives aren’t small, but you’re living them in a small way. I’m speaking as plainly as I can and with great affection. Open up your lives. Live openly and expansively!
Don’t become partners with those who reject God. How can you make a partnership out of right and wrong? That’s not partnership; that’s war. Is light best friends with dark? Does Christ go strolling with the Devil? Do trust and mistrust hold hands? Who would think of setting up pagan idols in God’s holy Temple? But that is exactly what we are, each of us a temple in whom God lives. God himself put it this way:“I’ll live in them, move into them;
I’ll be their God and they’ll be my people.So leave the corruption and compromise; leave it for good,” says God.
“Don’t link up with those who will pollute you. I want you all for myself. I’ll be a Father to you; you’ll be sons and daughters to me.”The Word of the Master, God.
Be Blessed as you tune in.
Inspiration~ Empowerment & BREAKTHROUGH! w/ Dr. Beverly L. Swanson A LIVE Radio Broadcast Real People Sharing Real Stories Of Great Trials, Victory & Great Faith
We live in times of great challenges Nationwide and Abroad. Many countries are facing economic downturns, catastophic damages, global unrest, confusion and mistrust are at an all time high. More than ever people of Faith are being challenged in the area of Faith and in the midst of the clinging & clanging noise, and confusion they are in need of a simple understanding of how to develop or grow ones faith. JOHN H. LUCAS JR; a simple, gentle yet powerful man of God talks about the Faithfulness of God in his book entitled just that;"THE FAITHFULNESS OF GOD, OUTSIDE THE BOX" sharing when he nearly drowned as a child of twelve, the signs and wonders of healing while abroad in his missionary works in Hong Kong and the Philippines and nuggets that will aid in your Faith walk. JOHN H. LUCAS, is passionate about the Body of Christ functioning in their God given Authority and Power with a Demonstration of God's Glory. He is the Senior Pastor of Gloryland Revival Center International Ministries in Sacramento California, a Non-Denominational Ministry, and known as Papa to many in the Philippines and Hong Kong. JOIN ME AND MY GUEST PASTOR JOHN H. LUCAS, See you On The AIR!
Dr. Beverly L. Swanson, CEO & Founder of EAGLE WINGS, Public Speaker, Spiritual Advisor, Womens Ministry
Joining Audrey for this week's REELTalk - there's a well-funded effort...aimed at creating hatred and mistrust of the Jewish people and Israel...and it's being paid for by both the US & the EU. Sound unreal? Well it's the truth and it's well documented in the new book Catch The Jew!, by best-selling author & journalist TUVIA TENENBOM! PLUS, we've heard what analysts in the West have said about the disaster that Obama's Iran Deal is, but now hear a former Muslim & author IQ al RASSOOLI has to say about this agreement...it's stunning!! AND, co-host of TheRightMics Radio show, MICHAEL HAUSAM will join me to breakdown the lunacy that the Left has created including Planned Parenthood's selling baby body parts, Hillary's technology problem...and the mad rush of European companies to sell the Iranian regime tools that are a double-edged sword against the West! In the words of Benjamin Franklin, "If we do not hang together, we shall surely hang separately." Come hang with us...
According to a recent study in the journal MIS Quarterly, Craigslist’s entry into a market results in a 15.9 percent increase in reported HIV cases. The author of the study, Jason Chan, PhD, Assistant Professor ofInformation & Decision Sciences at the Carlson School of Management, University of Minnesota joined me on the show Sunday to discuss the research in more detail.
Of course, vaccines are the hot topic of the day and my second guest looked at the H1N1, or swine flu vaccine from the 2009-2010 pandemic and Americans’ views on a then-new vaccine. Ohio State University Sociology professor, Dr Kent Schwirian, the coauthor of a paper published in the journal Health Promotion International joined me to talk about it.
Today we're continuing our discussion on why the phrase "Black Lives Matter" means so much in a society in which being Black often times means being assaulted on different levels from all aspects.
From facing the persistent realities of institutionalized racism and pressures outside of our communities, to dealing with the myriad pressures within our communites, the constant stress of navigating these minefields takes a noticable toll on most Black people in America.
Hypertension, diabetes, obesity, emotional stress, psychological vulnerability, social isolation, excessive mistrust of authority, repressed anger, dysfunctional interrelationships, negative self-image, growing hopelessness....today we'll talk about the many ways that this contstant fight to assert the value of our lives manifests itself in the very lives we're fighting for.
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Tonight we will hear from Dr. Amos Wilson lecturing on the relationships of the black family, children and the necessary relationship between the black man and woman. He asks the question;
"What's love got to do with it?"
This is a 2 hour podcast that is on the heels of last weeks show concerning mistrust in the black community.
Dr. Amos Wilson, our ancestor was the primier psychologist with relevant insight to the black psyche.
Do we need to be in love to raise a healthy family?
Listen in this Friday to find out!
The Minneapolis Public School Board held a meeting on Tuesday, June 9 to vote on removing police from Minneapolis Public Schools. On a vote of 7-1-1, (seven for keeping police in the schools), the Minnepaolis Police Federation crushed representatives from the Minneapolis NAACP, and #BlackLivesMatter.
There was several missteps my those who didn't want police in schools. Members of these group have cast a vail of hate and mistrust over all law enforcement. As a product of the Minneapolis Public Schools in the late 1970s, the school police are friends to all learners K-12.
Join the team of Ron and Don as we give the play-by-play of why this did not work as we are joined by special guests for this program.
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