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Tonight on Set it Off Desiree and Jane once again will be putting on a show and getting down to the nitty gritty of things with grudges and forgiving.
Do you hold grudges? Are they healthy? Have a grudge you'd like to share with us on air? Or you could forgive the person. But is forgiving hard to do? How can you forgive? Isthere a such thing is forgving and gforgetting? Let it out on air 9/8C (646)716-5840 and press 1 to talk
Desiree and Janee are at it again calling people out! We can't stand a liar! what's the point when you can be honest from the beginning. What about grudges? Why have them? Are they even healthy? These lovely ladies will dish out the Do's and Dont's and give you the 411 on tonight!
Should I hold a grudge or let it go?
Grudge:to be unwilling to give or admit:give or reluctantly or resentlfully.
Grudges we all have them or carried them, but why?! To me a grudge is a "judgement" towards someone. A grudge tells me that you are "god" you are the most "holy one". When you hold a grudge you hold to a persons mistake. In other words you are "better than". Well sit down take a deep breathe I have some news to tell you...YOU ARE NOT THE JUDGE OF SOMEONE!! We all make mistakes take responsibility for yourself! so,what if they didnt apology to you.So your gonna hold on to someones mistakes because they didnt apologize! How do you know that they didnt attempt to do so!! Some of you are so darn mean and evil that even if someone does apologize you wouldnt except, so wdh are you holding the grudge for?!! Its just no pleasing some of you. Take responsibility for yourself!!! Decide what can I do, whats my part in the situation and hold on to that and make it right!!
Is it easy ot forgive HEEECCCKK NO!! BUT just like anything else forgiveness is a decision once you make up in your mind that you will forgive, forgivenss will come!! You may say"o thats easier said than done" well think about the last time you made up your mind about something. Didnt you accomplish what you set out do achieve, so forgiveness is the same way!! Is it a fight with your mind and emotions at times YEP!! When you choose not to forgive remember you are not perfect you WILL make a mistake. Youll want the same forgiveness, you wouldnt want someone holding on to what you did to them. I believe in karma, what goes around comes around. Now if you had a tramamtic situation in your life,you made need to seek therapy before you can begin to heal and forgive.YOU CANT CHANGE WHAT SOMEONE HAS DONE BUT YOU HAVE THE POWER TO DECIDE HOW TO HANDLE IT! DIS-EASE dont cause DISEASE in your life because of unforgiveness.
in Self Help
Join us for our gripping and tell it like it is series; "Life Isn't A Dress Rehearsal."
On This episode we will discuss how individuals hold grudges.
Everyone knows that when someone hurts you, you should deal with it and keep it moving. However, everyone isn't wired that way. Some folks "hold grudges." These are the people who can't seem to get around what was done to them. They will say they have forgiven the individual but in reality they aren't trying to get over the issue they have with that individual.
Grudges can be cancerous, toxic, stressful, and down right tiresome. When you hold a grudge you aren't "winning", or coming out as the bigger person. You are saying, that you can't get over it, so therefore, holding a grudge is your only option.
Well, it isn't your only option.
We all know that, if folks take the time to talk with people and work on themselves then holding a grudge wouldn't even be an option. They would simply just face it and keep it moving.
Tune in as we tackle why people choose holding a grudge over facing their issues and keeping it moving.
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in Pop Culture
many of us have been hurt or done wrong by someone at some point in our lives. At what point do u forgive them ? is there a time limit to forgiving people ? is it fair for someone to get away with hurting you ? are u able to trust them again ? if love is patient love is kind shouldnt we forgive automatically ? seems contradicting..does sex and time heal all wounds ?
BITTERNESS (Anger, Hatred, Joylessness)
DANGERS OF BITTERNESS
Why is it important to resist bitterness?
Bitterness will affect others. Like a small root that grows into a great tree, bitterness springs up in our heart and overshadows even our deepest Christian relationships. A “bitter root” comes when we allow disappointment to grow into resentment, or when we nurse grudges over past hurts. Bitterness brings with it jealousy, dissension, and immorality. When the Holy Spirit fills us, however, he can heal the hurt that causes bitterness.
EMOTIONS (Affections, Feelings, Reactions)
How should we handle our emotions?
Uncontrolled emotions can lead to bad decisions. When the chorus of despair went up, everyone joined in. Their greatest fears were being realized. Losing their perspective, the people were caught up in the emotion of the moment, forgetting what they knew about God’s character. What if the people had spent as much energy moving forward as they did moving back? They could have enjoyed their land—instead, they never even entered it. When a cry of despair goes up around you, consider the larger perspective before you join in. You have better ways to use your energy than to complain
I discuss my abhorrence of white peoples' insensitivity on racial issues. I also criticize society's push to make men less expressive of their emotions. It is not feminine to be emotional. It is human. A man should not be ashamed to sit back and cry as a result of his affliction. Only when a person sits back and reflects, and acknowledges to himself the true depth of the horror that has been perpetrated on him can he pick up the pieces and go take revenge on his oppressor.
Liberation is a philosophical concept of relieving oneself of negative energy that's built up. This release is done through healthy cleansing channels. It is unhealthy to go year after year holding grudges, walking around with all of that baggage. The only way to liberation is by punishing the people who have wronged you, both individuals and groups. To liberate oneself of the weight of grudges, one must punish those who have violated him. Then and only then will he find inner peace.
We discuss the defection of Derek Black and of Lynx and Lamb Gaede. These tragedies contain lessons the movement can learn. April Gaede's heroism is also discussed.
I bring to attention the need for white racial soldiers.
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