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  • 00:31

    Friend Management: Flaky Friend or Friend in Stress?

    in Friends

    Do you have a flaky friend who’s always late, misses dates? Maybe it’s time to go beyond what you perceive and find out if your friend’s behavior is fueled by their ego or if they're unable to cope with their life. We’re often quick to judge, complain… but if you have a friend with this repeat behavior it’s time to go further into the why.
    Do you really know what’s going on in your friend’s life? Go to blog.
    The “Flaky Friend” Deconstruct Generally absent minded. I have a friend who loves to hang out with me when I’m around, but forgets me when I’m not in her immediate vicinity. I realize that’s just who she is. Now, I manage my expectations in this friendship. Find out how!
    Overactive sense of self. Years ago, I realized that a friend only calls when she needs something. My ego-driven friend’s value outweighs what I consider annoying behavior, find out what to do to manage these friendships...
    Friends who are truly suffering Friends who suffers; inability to cope, mental disorder and depression. I have friends who find it difficult to cope and they usually keep their suffering secret for a long time. Standing me up, breaking a date at the last minute is nothing compared to the days they spend trying to get out of bed.
    Joining us today is Dr. Jonathan Brady - www.bradyesque.com. Go to www.superfriendgroups.com for more information. Always remember…. A great friend starts with you.  
    CALL LIVE 347-324-3200.
    Images by psyberartist, Borya – Wikimedia; and Seul.

  • 00:31

    Are you a loyal friend?

    in Friends

    On this show we discuss what it takes to be a loyal friend. We all look for a loyal friend but are we loyal to our friends? Being a loyal friend is vital to a healthy friendship.

    While doing research I found a fabulous friendship site Lifeboat and discovered their Lifeboat’s friend survey on “What Do Friends Really Want in Friends?”

    "Loyalty" came out a whopping #1 in the survey at 81%.

    Often being there for a friend is hard to maintain in this crazy, busy world; we’re all rushing around dealing with demanding families or bosses. Even in your busy life strive to be a loyal friend.

    Learn how to manage a busy life and be a great friend on this show. Listen to the discussion and call in! (347) 324-3200 - we want to hear from you!

    Take the "Are you a loyal friend?" quiz at Super Friend Groups.

    Studies show that women sharing loving experiences with friends produce oxytocin – the hugging drug – in the brain which improves your well-being and connectedness.“Why Girlfriends are Good for a Woman’s Health“ by Suzanne Braun Levine, Nextavenue.com, June 19 2012.

    Image by Nelson de Witt via Wikimedia Commons; Music by 4ontheFloor.

    Go to Super Friend Groups and discover how to make better friends.


  • 00:31

    Would you lie for a friend?

    in Friends

    Today, were talking about lying for a friend. We discuss ripped from the headline crime stories to personal stories. Is it ever OK? Co-host Angelica Holiday joins in the conversation as we discuss this compelling and controversial topic.   Would you lie for a friend? Would you cover up a crime for a friend? The accused Boston Marathon bomber's three college friends have just pleaded not guilty to charges that they helped cover up Dzhokhar Tsarnaev's tracks. Would you cover up a crime for a friend? Your circle of friends is your social wealth and well being. So would you cover for your friend who is cheating on her husband... even though her husband's your friend too? Is it ever OK to lie for a friend? What if your friend's parents ask you if their daughter's gay - and she is? But she doesn't want them to know... Or, your friend has an illness and they want to downplay its severity? Often, you feel trapped. We discuss ways in which to deal with these situations. However, please note: This is based on our opinions only and should not be considered counseling or therapeutic advice. Remember... a great friend starts with you!! Please feel free to comment at www.superfriendgroups.com. Image by: Courtesy of By RexImperialNL (Own work) [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons ("hear, see, speak no evil")

  • 00:31

    Does Friend Advice Work for You?

    in Friends

    How often does friend advice work for you? Do you like getting friend advice? We're talking about the kind of advice you offer, rather than what your friend asks for.

    Often friend advice can be confusing, especially if you don't really trust your friend. Often you may confuse what you consider as advice with your opinions - what they “should” do. When a friend hears “should” it often shuts down their capacity to hear you. It's a brain thing.

    This’s what we’re tackling in today's show. The balance between when a friend gives you great insights and when a friend brings you down.

    CALL - 347-324-3200 and join in the conversation!!

    In Friend Advice: Good, Bad, Ugly, there’s a section on how to figure out if your advice comes from your heart or ego. We'll discuss this too!

    Ego – what you think they should do.

    We investigate tips so that you can hear your friend and what they need from you to move forward.

    Communication is vital in your friendships and what you often need is as simple as comfort, understanding and love.

    Remember… a great friend starts with you!

    Image courtesy: Lips image by Wiki Roxor; & Cup by epSos.de both Wikimedia Commons.

    Music by: The 4onthefloor, MN

  • 01:46

    Funeral for a Friend Session 4

    in Spirituality


  • 00:32

    Confessions of an Envious Friend

    in Friends

    Who hijacked your brain?
    Often, as friends, you have to confess that you are (ahem) sometimes envious of your friends. She nailed a terrific promotion you wanted; he was your buddy but got into a loving relationship and now you're the third wheel. Your friend's teenager received top honors or landed a key position on the school's soccer team while your child struck out on both.
    These people are your allies so why, why, why are you upset or snotty when they do well?
    Envy is a Great Teacher.
    Think about this: if your old school friend is doing well as a chef in Switzerland - do you care? No, you'd probably send them a congrats comment on Facebook. Or, you don't have children so if little Milly is excelling in nuclear physics you'd send her a personal email.
    So why are you more competitive with your friends than with strangers?
    Mixing personal stories with real science TUNE IN to find out more about the Confessions of an Envious Friends...
    We'd love your comments, questions and insights about friends anytime - go to www.superfriendgroups.com. 
    Thank yous for the show:
    Image of lady drinking tea (who we're sure is probably more envied than envious) provided by BitchBuzz (Flickr: Laura Silver @ "Tea in the Piazza") [CC-BY-2.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/2.0)], via Wikimedia Commons.
    SFGs Talk Radio music provided by: "Tumblin Down (cdk Mix)" by cdk (feat. Kirkoid) http://ccmixter.org/files/cdk/35847 is licensed under a Creative Commons license: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/nc-sampling+/1.0/

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  • 01:59

    There's Not A Friend Like Jesus

    in Christianity

    Jesus savior of those who believe and those don't believe. Friend ( one who favors another person, support, and comforts.) Jesus is a support that is closer than family members. He want leave or forsake his friends he goes all the way to the end. He supplies what no one else can supply and he gives to those who appear undeserving.Many may not believe or may never believe he is the sone of the True and Living yet he is God. However it does not change the fact of who he really is and what he has done for all of the human race.

  • 00:27

    Reviewing "Friend of the Bridegroom"

    in Christianity

    [Jhn 15:13-16 KJV] 13 Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. 14 Ye are my friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you. 15 Henceforth I call you not servants; for the servant knoweth not what his lord doeth: but I have called you friends; for all things that I have heard of my Father I have made known unto you. 16 Ye have not chosen me, but I have chosen you, and ordained you, that ye should go and bring forth fruit, and [that] your fruit should remain: that whatsoever ye shall ask of the Father in my name, he may give it you.

    [Gal 2:20 KJV] 20 I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me.

    [Rom 12:2 KJV] 2 And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what [is] that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.

    [Jhn 3:29 KJV] 29 He that hath the bride is the bridegroom: but the friend of the bridegroom, which standeth and heareth him, rejoiceth greatly because of the bridegroom's voice: this my joy therefore is fulfilled.



  • 00:27

    Friend or Foe

    in Education

    Friend, Friend or Foe, Foe

    Sometimes it is hard to tell the difference that is until the smoke clears.

     a friend or an enemy. I can't tell whether Jim is friend or foe. "Who goes there? Friend or foe?" asked the sentry.

    Do you know?

    Let's Talk


  • 02:41

    "How to Avoid Being Placed in the Friend Zone"

    in Radio


    Did you miss our classic special on “How to Avoid Being Put into the Friend Zone”?  If so, tune into "The Dedan Tolbert Show" TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST for a special rebroadcast. Listen 7 nights a week by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com... "REAL Radio that Matters for Over 10 Years".