• 02:03

    Sex: Safe -Condoms...) or Celibate- No Sex ?

    in Romance

    How to Live a Life of Celibacy


    Whether you are entering the priesthood or doing it for personal reasons, remaining celibate can be a difficult thing to do. With these instructions and support from those around you (and perhaps a guide from above), you can lead a celibate life. Taking a vow to a life of celibacy is very challenging, and it is not an easy choice to make if the ones that are close to you are not supportive. There are benefits to a life of celibacy. If you find interesting things to do you can avoid the temptation to break your vow.


    1.Make sure this is something you are very serious about. It can be a great thing if you are doing it for the right reasons.


    2.Find a friend or mentor that has gone through this period in life and ask questions about his or her reason for making their choice.


    3.Avoid listening to others' feelings about your decision, if they do not agree with yours. It is your choice and yours alone. Instead, talk to friends and people that will not judge you, or this choice you have made.


    4.Get involved in different hobbies; better not to be around many people you may be sexually attracted to for a while if this can be avoided. You could become involved with some more spiritual or personal activities instead.


    5.Try to find people who you think will understand you and your choices. Doing this alone can be very challenging. Tell them you need some moral support.


    6.Avoid temptation, especially at the start of this lifestyle. Do not put yourself in situations that might lead to sexual activity, such as close quarters with someone to whom you are physically attracted. Don't spend time alone and secluded together unless you absolutely know that you can control of yourself in that situation.


     

  • 00:31

    Living for God: Single and Celibate

    in Self Help

    It is a blessing to be able to live for God. The peace, wisdom, healing that comes along with the walk is amazing. However, christians go through life trials as anyone else does. This is more challenging when God calls us to a higher standard and guideline to walk in purity and holiness set apart from the world through faith in him.The enemy knows this and he definitely makes it that much harder because if he is an emeny of God, then what are christians considered to him as well?


    Therefore, living single can be a major challenge as a christian especially these days. We are called to live celibate until marriage (or until death if we do not marry), but that is not a popular lifestyle these days. Being a christian does not exempt you from having desires to be physically intimate as some might assume. On the other hand, through experience I can tell you that nothing is impossible with the strength of God. Even though I did not follow what I was told growing up in church (for many reasons I have mentioned throughout shows), that does not mean that I am still not expected to walk in celibacy or that I cannot. So I hope that is hope for those who have walked astray in the past.


    This show is for virgins and nonvirgins (teens and adults) because if you are single and a christian we are walking in this together. Yes, experiences vary from person person based on past experience with sex or lack there of, level of relationship with God, gender, age, culture, how one was raised, parental guidance and experience, whether never married/married before, whether it is a major struggle or it isn't, and more.


    Philippians 2:15 "That ye may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation, among whom ye shine as lights in the world;"


    Show with: @king__Joshua (He's my age and he will be brining a male's perspective to the show)

  • 00:30

    CELIBATE Ladies: "How to NOT Have Sex With Your Man"

    in Relationships

    If you are a Christian woman (a Woman of God) trying to navigate the dating scene, it can be difficult!  This seminar is for women who are practicing celibacy but are (or want to be) in a relationship and want to do it RIGHT.  Uncut & uncensored - adults only!!!


    CELIBATE Ladies:  "How to NOT Have Sex With Your Man"


    Monday, November 10, 2014


    6:30PM


    Trying to navigate the dating scene without falling into bed?  Finally seeing someone with real potential but afraid to get too close?  Wondering HOW to date successfully without getting too physical?  Join us for this talk on dating and being celibate.  The Matchmaker & Dating Coach will discuss how to be in an exclusive relationship with a guy and NOT have sex but be on your way to engagement then marriage!


    #topmatchmaker


    #kikistrickland


    #marriedin2yearsorless

  • 00:37

    The Benefits of Being Celibate

    in Youth

    Today's teens have a tremdous amout of stress to deal with because of all the pressures from home, school, and peers. For many it is the source of a life of problems that ends up setting them up for failures in relationships, jobs and being able to be productive and thriving adults. On todays show we will explore being celibate, and not getting caught up having sex before it's right. Learning to say no to sex and yes to waiting.

  • 01:51

    BEDazzled! It's About Sexx Baby??? Or Is It...

    in Christianity

    “Beware of letting your natural desires hinder your walk in love before God. One of the cruelest ways to kill natural love is through the rejection that results from having built the love on natural desires. But the one true desire of a saint is the Lord Jesus. Love for God is not something sentimental or emotional— for a saint to love as God loves is the most practical thing imaginable.” ~ Oswald Chambers


    "A.C.E." Abstain?  Celibate? Entertain? We all have “been there done that” testimonies. We have all had to face this at one time or another, especially if you are 25+ - 60+++, been married before or hasn’t been “born again.” And if we’re single and were looking to be married, during that 40 year period, this dilemma has followed us into and out of many, if not all of our relationship attempts at pursuing matrimony.


    Sometimes we do, sometimes we don’t. Sometimes we will, sometimes we won’t. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t! I have said many times that premarital sex is a no-no. I have to because it is in The Word of God. God will forgive us if we falter; but how do YOU feel after you’ve “given your all”, they ‘took it’, and it didn’t work out? Disappointed? Brokenhearted? Betrayed? Guilty? Abandoned and lonely again? So now what? SMH You do it all over again, expecting a different outcome? #Insanity


    Join The Kernal & Ms. T on March 5th, 2015 @ 7:00pm EST/6:00PM CST at www.blogtalkradio.com/twelvekings Or dial in at 323-642-1768

  • Sincere Singles

    in Family

    Sincere Singles is a discussion forum of life-enriching topics that pertain to family, singles in particular. God concerns Himself with three things: (1) your relationship / fellowship with Him, (2) your relationship / fellowship within ourselves, and (3) your relationship / fellowship with others. This discussion among "sincere singles" will enables you to enjoy the most compassionately committed relationship / fellowship possible. Indeed it is true, a better you begins with a grace view of God! 

  • 00:20

    Sincere Singles

    in Family

    Sincere Singles is a discussion forum of life-enriching topics that pertain to family, singles in particular. God concerns Himself with three things: (1) your relationship / fellowship with Him, (2) your relationship / fellowship within ourselves, and (3) your relationship / fellowship with others. This discussion among "sincere singles" will enables you to enjoy the most compassionately committed relationship / fellowship possible. Indeed it is true, a better you begins with a grace view of God! 

  • 01:01

    Sincere Singles

    in Family

    Sincere Singles is a discussion forum of life-enriching topics that pertain to family, singles in particular. God concerns Himself with three things: (1) your relationship / fellowship with Him, (2) your relationship / fellowship within ourselves, and (3) your relationship / fellowship with others. This discussion among "sincere singles" will enables you to enjoy the most compassionately committed relationship / fellowship possible. Indeed it is true, a better you begins with a grace view of God! 

  • 01:29

    The VCard Show : y is being a celibate adult such a joke ?

    in Pop Culture

    sex its everywhere. Ive had so many different letters in about sex so i chose to make this show a viewers choice episode. to me sex is a choice. No one says u have to do it at all! i feel if u choose to be abstinent or celibate thats your own personal reason no one should judge you by that. Eeryone timing is different. Sex doesnt make a person at all!. They could be great sexually but mentally fail!.

  • 02:08

    Urban Therapy with Sun #114 Ain't Doing It To Nobody (Celibacy)

    in Psychology

    This week's show will be about celibacy. Let's break it on down a bit.
    Celibacy:
    Ever practice it?
    Ever think about it?
    Know someone who is celibate?
    Considering doing it for the new year?
    Fed up with feeling used for sex and need time to reevaluate?
    Celibate for religious or spiritual reasons?
    Celibate not by choice but because of a situation?
    Man/woman in jail or not within range for sexual contact?
    Celibate for physical reasons? ED or something related?
    Celibate for reasons relating to depression?
    Sick and tired of dating and celibate until the right one proves himself/herself?
    Celibate just to see if you could do it for a certain amount of time?
    Is celibacy as healthy as it appears?
    Are you celibate if you masturbate?
    Are you celibate if still kiss and hug and play around a little?
    What about people who become celibate while in a relationship that wasn't celibate before?
    What are the defined rules of celibacy and does everyone practice celibacy the same way?


    Is that enough for now? Probably. For now


    Don't miss this one.

  • 02:02

    OT Show With Guest Author Monica Cater and Actor Ciera Payton

    in Entertainment

    MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER MONICA CARTER DEBUTS BOOK “CELIBATE FABULOUS & FEARLESS”


    Evoking thought and promoting positivity 


    actress/director/author/philanthropist, Ciera Payton. Ciera's first film "Flight of Fury" in 2007 with Steven Seagal has lead to a plethora of other film and television opportunities. Ciera was in "Jump Out Boys" in 2008, Tyler Perry's "Madea Goes to Jail" in 2009, "Oldboy" in 2013 and "Dear White People" (VO) this year. Ciera has made guest starred in television shows like "All My Children, "The Closer, "Californication," "The Mentalist," "Days Of Our Lives," "NCIS: LA," "Graceland" and "Bad Teacher" to name a few

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