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  • 00:31

    Does Friend Advice Work for You?

    in Friends

    How often does friend advice work for you? Do you like getting friend advice? We're talking about the kind of advice you offer, rather than what your friend asks for.

    Often friend advice can be confusing, especially if you don't really trust your friend. Often you may confuse what you consider as advice with your opinions - what they “should” do. When a friend hears “should” it often shuts down their capacity to hear you. It's a brain thing.

    This’s what we’re tackling in today's show. The balance between when a friend gives you great insights and when a friend brings you down.

    CALL - 347-324-3200 and join in the conversation!!

    In Friend Advice: Good, Bad, Ugly, there’s a section on how to figure out if your advice comes from your heart or ego. We'll discuss this too!

    Ego – what you think they should do.

    We investigate tips so that you can hear your friend and what they need from you to move forward.

    Communication is vital in your friendships and what you often need is as simple as comfort, understanding and love.

    Remember… a great friend starts with you!

    Image courtesy: Lips image by Wiki Roxor; & Cup by epSos.de both Wikimedia Commons.

    Music by: The 4onthefloor, MN

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  • 00:29

    Friend Sabotages

    in Comedy

    I have a great one this week about being captive with only potatoes to eat for a week by a high school best friend and my gas grill being emptied of its briquettes and used as a BBQ pit by another. And Bad Girl 2 letting her child run through my house and break a family heirloom in my bedroom.


  • 00:27

    The Friend Zone

    in Friends

    Can a person be in love wtih two people at the same time and keep one of them in the friend zone?

    What is the Friend Zone?  Urban Dictionary defines the Friend Zone as: 

    What you attain after you fail to impress a woman/man you're attracted to. Usually initiated by the woman/man saying, "You're such a good friend". Usually associated with long days of suffering and watching your love interest hop from one bad relationship to another. 

    Google defines it as: 

    A situation in which a friendship exists between two people, one of whom has an unreciprocated romantic or sexual interest in the other.

    How do you define  Friend Zone?   Are you in the Friend Zone?  

  • 02:03

    "The BEST of Ask Dedan Advice Hour"

    in Radio


    "The BEST of Ask Dedan Advice Hour"

  • 01:34

    AmongstFriends: Friend Zone

    in Entertainment

    Amongst Friends is a group of friends who get together to discuss the everyday nuances of life.  We talk about it all.  Love, Sex, Politics, TV, Movies, Education, Church!  Nothing is too taboo for this crew. This show will make you laugh, scream, gasp, think, wonder, and respond.  Come chat with us for a spell and LET IT ALL HANG OUT. Join us every Wednesday night @8pm and be Amongst Friends!!!

  • 00:55

    Online Dating: Valentine's Day Advice

    in Romance

    Julie Spira is a bestselling author and go-to person for online dating and mobile dating advice who will be teaching us how to master online dating and also sharing her own fairytale love story that resulted in a newly released epilogue to her best-selling book, The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online . As a Los Angeles based celebrity-dating coach, Julie has clients from New York to San Francisco and from London to Sydney.

    Julie was a very early adopter of online dating and was on the Internet before people even knew there was an Internet. With over 20 years of online dating experience, she coaches singles from college-age to the large population of baby-boomers who are looking for a chance at true love. Through a combination of online dating, mobile dating apps, email etiquette, and social media sites such as Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram, Julie helps singles shorten their search to find their dream dates.

    Julie’s the author of two books; the bestselling online dating book, The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online and the social media manners book, The Rules of Netiquette: How to Mind Your Digital Manners.  She’s the creator of Mobile Dating BootCamp, Online Dating BootCamp, and Facebook Love Stories. Julie is the Online Dating Expert on Dating Advice.com, where she tops the rank as one of the “Top 10 Best Online Dating Experts.”  For more information about Julie go to https://cyberdatingexpert.com/


  • 01:05


    in Prayer

    The principle of friendship is found in Amos. "Can two walk together, except they be agreed?" (Amos 3:3 KJV). Friends are of like mind. The truth that comes from all of this is a friendship is a relationship that is entered into by individuals, and it is only as good or as close as those individuals choose to make it. Someone has said that if you can count your true friends on the fingers of one hand, you are blessed. A friend is one whom you can be yourself with and never fear that he or she will judge you. A friend is someone that you can confide in with complete trust. A friend is someone you respect and that respects you, not based upon worthiness but based upon a likeness of mind. Join us today for live prayer. Dial 714.459.3963

  • 00:30

    01/19/2016 A Friend loveth at All Times

    in Christianity

    Join Bro. Josh Sparks at 11:00 PM(EST) as he preaches a message titled, " A Friend Loveth at All Times." Someone once said some people make enemies instead of friends because it is less trouble, but being made in the image and likeness of God, we too love like God loves. God is love and His loves desires love and so do we. True friends love each other and are always there for their friends. Jesus is a friend who sticks clo to demonstartser then a brother. He died on Calvary to show us just how much God really loved each of us. Join us for this powerful Word from God

  • 02:01

    "The LIVE Return of Ask Dedan Advice Mondays"!

    in Radio


    “The Dedan Tolbert Show” returns LIVE TONIGHT at 9:00pm EST with “Ask Dedan Advice Mondays”! To hear us discuss many topics including: the Flint Water Crisis, Donald Trump’s decision to boycott the most recent Fox News debate, Creflo Dollar’s jet, the real reasons for the rise in cases of police brutality, Fox’s new show Lucifer and the increase in demonic/satanic imagery in Hollywood, Ask Dedan Advice Hour, plus MANY other topics, listen LIVE by calling 646 200 0366 or online worldwide at www.dedantolbertshow.com.... “REAL Radio that Matters” #rrtm


  • 00:26

    Valentine's Day Relationship Advice

    in Relationships

    February has arrived, and everywhere you look you see hearts, flowers and the word love, reminding us that Valentine’s Day is near. So what if you are single?  Find out how to survive and thirive this Valentine's Day.

    For the couples out there, find out what your partner really wants? Love is a great thing and coupled with chocolate, it is even better. Gift giving on holidays is usually appreciated by your partner but today we are going to dig a little deeper and talk about what men and women really want, not just on special occasions.

    This will be a great show you do not want to miss.