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We put price tags on so many things in life.. and we say we don't have the money for this or for that "thing" we really really want.
The realty is that we never look at the price tag we have on the words we use.
All words are free.. the reality is that to use them is free.. it's what it cost us after we use them.. some words add to our bank account, and others are a withdrawl... do you know the differene?
It's good to talk.