Say' Tell Us (what we need to hear & know)

Today's show, Monday, March 19, 2012, dealt with the lack of intimacy in a marriage. The wife doesn't have any sexual drive after having a child due to being overwhelmed with juggling a career and a 4yr old. The husband seeks fulfillment by hanging out w/his friends to receive some type of fulfillment elsewhere since he isn't being sexually satisfied by his wife. The wife complains the husband is never home and the husband doesn't want to be home to be reminded how unsatisfied he is and the cycle continues to repeat itself.  Too often couples get bogged down with the every day stresses of life; raising children, paying bills and stress on the job and or being too involved with friends and extended family problems. Men truly are visual and initially were sexually attracted towards their wife or they wouldn't have pursued her in the first place. And women truly enjoy being sought after - wined - dined and spoiled. Unfortunately couples have a tendency to forget how they began-initiated and held a 'spark' for the loving desire they once had when they gazed into each others eyes! Couples must realize however they began the relationship needs to be maintained in order to not fall into the trap of neglect of each other. Couples MUST make "US" time their constant priority; via date night-weekend getaways-send each other flowers-write poems to each other-go to a spa together-have the child(ren) spend the weekend away with relatives or beyond trusted friends. Too often couples seek out extra marital affairs due to not being satisfied or receiving ANY sexual intimacy from their spouse. CALL 323-580-5709 MONDAYS 6pm eastern time to discuss your challenges or dilemmas :-)