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Husbands & Wives (A Must Read) I Love You Both... 

Praise God my brothers and sisters, I felt so compelled to write this. He/She that has an ear to hear, please hear what the Spirit of God is saying, Amen?

Remember that God has given both men and women equal dominion. This is something that is in both of us. He gave us dominion. The dominion or authority is innate. What we as women have to do is learn to submit once we get married.  This is not innate. God is such an awesome God that He set things in order in such a way that when you husband are loving her as Christ loved the church, and loving her as you love your own body, and you are truly forsaking all others for her, submission would not be a problem for her. You can not force her to submit. This is an act of her will and obedience to God that she will choose to submit and you make it easier for her to do just that by dwelling with her according to knowledge (understanding your wife), giving honor to her as the weaker vessel. Men you really need to get a revelation about this. Rise up and stop being ignorant of the devil's devices...

The same way when you meet your wife's need for affection sex will not be a problem, the same way when she knows that you are truly committed and submitted to God and her that she will be able to submit easier. Don't put obstacles in her way.

Men understand that God sent your wife as a help necessary for you, not to help you in one area but in whatever area you need help so stop designating certain areas for her to help you in when she is equip to help you across the board. Don't forsake your own mercy and help that God has sent you in the form of your wife.

Please men don't dare tell your wife about how wonderful sister so and so is and you haven't dared to compliment, and lift her up. Remember that you are to nourish your wife first. Learn how to tell her that she is appreciated in her language, learn that she just might be holding the answer to that dilemma you are now facing. God gave her to you as a gift to be loved, cherished, honored, and respected, please do this.

Men know that you are not getting that building until your heart is right toward your wife. Your prayers will be hindered if you are putting the ministry before your wife. Wives you know that anything that is causing division between you and your husband is not God. You are to submit to your husband as unto God and take the matter to God in prayer and be praying and lifting your husband up before God, pray in the Spirit and let God fix the situation. In the meantime just continue to exhort, speak God's Word in the midst of the situation, don't speak what you see in the natural, speak the Word only and you will see how God will turn it around.

This my brothers and sisters is operating the kingom way the way that God wants us to operate. Stop being ignorant of the devil's devices. In John 8:32 we are told that we will know the truth and the truth will set us free, actually it is the truth that we know, that will set us free. So repent if you must, ask your spouse to forgive you and you all join together and take a united stand against the devil in the Name of Jesus and let God restore what the enemy stole through the disagreements, etc.,  and don't let the enemy back in.

Remember to keep one another covered tightly in prayer and love and support, don't take one another for granted. Let's learn from the other marriages that have fallen by the way side. Don't take it lightly.

Remember my brothers and sisters that faith only works by love. You need your faith to speak to the mountain and watch it move, to be pleasing to God, to see results Amen, so we must keep our hearts from resentment, anger, bitterness, unforgiveness, etc. because it will stop the anointing from flowing because again, faith works only by love.

Men set the correct atmosphere for your wife she needs to know that you value her opinion, that her opinion matters to you. That after God she is first not the ministry and not Bishop so and so, Amen. She is the one that is one flesh with you and she will be there until the end so she should have a voice and you should respect it. If she is having a problem with a particular sister in your face that is worth heeding, don't be so spiritual that you find yourself in adultery because you didn't listen to your wife. Because we don't want to hear I'm sorry afterwards so let's be forewarned and as such forearmed.

Let our marriages truly Glorify God, let the spectators look on and want the love that they see radiating from us to one another even when we are apart Amen, let's be faithful.

In Christ,
Lady Renee
Women Destined For Greatness, Inc.
www.womendestined4greatness.org