Size.....Size, yes, it does in fact matter.Even in writing, if we wrote too small, the reader would'nt be able to read what was written well.....If music was too low, we couldn't hear it well, and if It's too small, that too could be detremental for the receiver. Since we can't change what we are given, we might as well work with what we have; enhance what we can just for the pleasure of the partner. Enhancing your mind for the sake of love, will motivate your partner's ego. The size of your heart will supercede any size. The ability to understand your partner, and be open minded will always enhance and perfect what is at hand. Love,Rehyn