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VALIDATION - a forgotten need

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Jef Gazley, Family & Marriage Therapist, will continue being with us talking about techniques we can use to help us with our own validation challenges. He will discuss one method he employs called Emotional Freedom Technique and Energy Psychology. When children don’t have validation, the emotional scarring starts taking place and problems begin. Lack of validation is responsible for most problems youth are having today. They have a spirit inside that is needing attention so badly that their spirit compels them to act out hoping someone out here will hear the real need inside. It is the parents’ responsibility to provide constant validation. Parents need to know and recognize the spirit inside the child; talk to it; tell the spirit that you love it. Their spirit or soul is very important to the child and should be important to the caring parent. Their spirit belongs to them, is special to them, is unique to them and should be respected by anyone who is in their personal environment. Their soul should be honored and respected by both the child and the parent. The parent should support and encourage the child to honor their spirit within.