Psychic Insights  

1.  Some secrets are best left unsaid.  I realize they say, "The truth shall set you free", but if there's something in your past you aren't happy about and you've put it behind you, why drag it out and tell your best friend or partner?  Sometimes all this serves is to reopen old wounds or cause a slight shift between you and your friend or partner...usually not a good one!  If this secret had at one time burdened you, it may add burden to the person you tell it to.  Think before you divulge your "secrets."  Granted, there are some things we need to talk about, and some things our partner should know, but some things are better left unsaid.  You are who you are in the here and now, you are no longer that person of the past, though that person has helped you to become who you are today.  If something is better left in the closet, leave it there. 

2.  The next step you take in life, and where you ultimately end up, is your choice.  That's right.  Life is about making choices.  Even no choice is a choice!  In each moment try to choose what will lift you up in life instead of holding you back.  Before each decision you make, ask yourself if this is for your highest good, if it will benefit you or potentially harm you.  Do you really need that purse that's on sale?  Do you really need that piece of cake?  Do you really want to put off something you know you should do?  Every single day we are faced with one choice after another, be certain to make the wisest ones possible. 

3.  Get enough sleep.  This is one I need to follow myself!  I don't do well on anything less than 8 hours.  Also, I need get to bed at a decent time.  If I go to bed too late, even with 8 hours of sleep, I feel pretty run down the next day.  The old saying, "Early to bed and early to rise" is fitting.  I recently read that the most successful people wake up at 5 or 6am.  If you aren't tired at a decent "bed time" then feel exhausted the next day, avoid taking a nap.  Napping will just perpetuate the off-balance sleep cycle.  It may take awhile to get on the most beneficial sleep schedule, but it's worth it.  Nobody can think or function well on too little sleep.

4.  Face each day with wonder and excitement.  Pretty hard to do at times, isn't it?  I like the saying, "Each day is a gift and that's why it's called the present."  When we have bills, housework, kids, a job, and other stress factors facing us it's hard to muster up any energy to face it, yet alone feeling any amount of wonder and excitement!  In fact, when was the last time you experienced those two things?  You can't remember?  Join the club!  When I wake up in the morning there are times when the burdens of the day slam into me before I even have my eyes open.  It's enough to want to run off to a deserted island and stay there!  Then determination sets in.  Here I am an adult and no longer a child, and I have this wondrous life to live!  And yet I'm complaining and groaning about this, that, and everything else.  It makes me feel pretty ungrateful.  That has me turning around my thinking quick!  I realize that I'm only one person and can only do so much.  I make a list of what needs to be done.  Anything else accomplished is a bonus!  Also, I try to view all of my problems as something that I can and will overcome.  I look at them as lessons in disguise.  I take the problem, such as lack of money, and instead of repeating the worry over and over again in my mind--which gets me nowhere!--I ask my guides to send me some ideas to help bring in more money.  Then I go about my day.  Sure enough, I always receive ideas and guidance on how to bring in more money.   Now, whether I follow their advice or not is up to me, but it's there for the taking.  And I have nobody else to blame except myself if I don't grab the information my guides sent and actually do something with it!  Knowing that I will always be taken care of, that each day brings new discoveries and growth opportunities, allows me to enjoy the wonder and excitement of simply being alive.

5.  Let go of ideas that are no longer helpful to you.  As we grow in spirit, we outgrow old ideas.  Some people feel guilty when they question their long-held beliefs.  Instead, rejoice and see this is a sign that your soul is growing and becoming wiser.  Find new teachings and thoughts that seem to resonate with you at this point in time.  Maybe a week, a year, or a decade from now you will outgrow this current belief system and will move on to something else.  That's as it should be.  Be respectful of others' beliefs.  Just because they think differently doesn't make them wrong.  It just makes them different.  No way of thinking is "the way."  I believe we all have tiny pieces of a huge puzzle.  By gathering as much information as we can and remaining open to new ideas, the more of the "big picture" we can see.

Dr. Kelly
www.ThePsychicSoul.com

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