Young man, older woman

doncalypso

9/22/2009 1:55 PM UTC

I agree with you 100% that a man asking a woman for her number is a clear sign of interest. This being said, waiting a few days to call is not about playing games. When a man is infatuated with a woman's looks he too often gets stupid and can't think straight. Waiting 5 to 9 days gives him enough time to cool his head and hormones down so he doesn't end up being a babbling fool on the phone thus looking like a chump. I hope this is sufficient clarification.

PowerPlayRadio

9/20/2009 8:20 PM UTC

Doncalypso, you don't know what you are talking about brother. Your first comment here has negated all of the other comments you've made because you admit that you are into playing games. Why would do you think waiting more than 2 days to call someone makes you NOT look like a chump? If you've asked for the number, you've already displayed that you are interested. WHy play the game of waiting to call her? How silly. How crazy. Also, people are entitled to their preferences.

doncalypso

9/18/2009 4:45 PM UTC

When you marry someone you take the wedding vows to be with them "for better or worse" and "in sickness and in health." You're being hypocritical for telling women to avoid marrying older men for fear of erectile dysfunction later in life or to avoid taking care of them when they get later in age. A man in your age group could easily fall ill or have an accident that requires you to take care of them.

doncalypso

9/18/2009 4:43 PM UTC

Where the hell did you come up with the crazy idea that marriage-minded men want 4 or more kids?

doncalypso

9/18/2009 2:57 PM UTC

Again, I hear you accusing young men of getting with older women in order to be "taken care of," but I suspect the truth to be that YOU seek to have a man take care of you financially despite the fact that you consistently claim to be strong and independent and financially secure and successful. I sense a lot of hypocrisy on your part regarding this topic.

doncalypso

9/18/2009 2:55 PM UTC

Did you even talk to men about why they date older women, or at least did you check in magazines and on the web for reasons MEN have stated for dating older women? Sounds to me like you're just speaking your assumptions on the subject rather than firsthand or secondhand facts.

doncalypso

9/18/2009 2:54 PM UTC

You two are really projecting YOUR issues onto the men when you claim younger men seek older women to ride the gravy train---YOU are the ones consistently harping on the importance of a man's financial success so it's no wonder you assume a younger man is looking for the same thing in an older woman's finances that you look in a man's finances.

doncalypso

9/18/2009 2:52 PM UTC

A younger man who's seeking an older woman because sh's more sexually experienced is only seeking SEX, not a relationship. You're totally off-base in your claim that sex is a reason why younger men seek to date older women.

doncalypso

9/18/2009 2:51 PM UTC

You ladies (the two hosts) complained in previous shows about successful black men going for white women, but yet here you are quick to drop a man like soiled panties simply for being a few years younger than you despite the fact that you were stongly attracted physically and found the conversation appealing. If you have such stringent standards than don't complain if you're single because you KNOW it will be hard to find someone who meets your criteria and whose criteria you meet too.

doncalypso

9/18/2009 2:48 PM UTC

Once again the BS is piling high, ladies: if a man calls a woman within 24 to 48 hours of getting her number it WILL stroke her ego, but on the same token she will perceive him as a desperate chump and will have ZERO RESPECT for him.