WANTED: Black Women

doncalypso

9/22/2009 1:59 PM UTC

I did NOT say that only black of the lower socioeconomic classes are reproducing... what I said is that those who are economically more well-off tend to not have as many children as those down the social ladder.

doncalypso

9/22/2009 1:57 PM UTC

My pockets are not lint-filled and I'm not broke. True I don't make much money working in academia, but I manage well enough that my bills are paid and I do not get hounded by debt collectors. This being said, I will reiterate my point that how well a man manages his money is more important than how much he makes. If a man lovs to spend his money too much and can't manage it well can you really trust that he will not blow it all off if he lands a job where his salary is doubled or tripled?

PowerPlayRadio

9/20/2009 8:24 PM UTC

Doncalypso, you keep saying that we are overly concerned about a man's salary, but you are wrong. You are projecting your own failings with your own lint-filled pockets. You haven't listened to anythign we've said because you are so angry that you are broke. Also, if only the blacks of lower socieconomic classes are reproducing, what the hell does that offer to the true sustainability and success of the race? How old are you? You can't be more than 24 or 25 years old with such silly comme

doncalypso

9/18/2009 2:46 PM UTC

You ladies are LYING out the wazoo---if all you really wanted was to be loved, cherished, and respected, then you would not put so much more of an emphasis on a man's salary and degrees as opposed to his CHARACTER and his skills at MANAGING his financial resources in his possession (however small those may be).

doncalypso

9/18/2009 2:44 PM UTC

When most black American women date in their teens and 20s they're NOT looking for a man with good husband and father potential---if they want to someday be wives they need to look for men with husbandly qualities rather than focus on how much money he makes, how much "swagger" he has, and how good his pipe-laying skills are.

doncalypso

9/18/2009 2:42 PM UTC

You women on the line are focused way too much on those black men in the public eye when complaining about successful black men marrying non-black women. I bet you totally ignore tons of black men of CHARACTER and INTEGRITY who are good stewards of their financial resources even if they don't make a big yearly salary---you just do NOT want those men, so stop lamenting that they aren't marrying you when they finally do make it big in financially.

doncalypso

9/18/2009 2:40 PM UTC

Forbidding a young black boy to marry outside the race IS brainwashing---such mother is casrating her son and robbing him of the choice to date/marry based on whether the woman makes him happy and treats him right. If you want young black boys to marry black women then teach young black girls to develop the qualities necessary to make good wives.

doncalypso

9/18/2009 2:38 PM UTC

You lament that there are black men being taken care of and supported by black American women, but you totally overlook the fact that those successful and educated black women deliberately CHOOSE to be with those men and take on that motherly role. These same women dismiss responsible mature black men of character and integrity as being "boring" and "lame" so they can't expect to be picked as a wives when they spent their prime years dissing them in favor of jocks and thugs

doncalypso

9/18/2009 2:34 PM UTC

The claim that black men who reach a certain status want a white trophy wife is bogus---if successful black men of character and integrity don't end up with black wives it's because black women didn't give them the time of day when they were coming up.

doncalypso

9/18/2009 2:32 PM UTC

Second, your complaint about men such as Henry Louis Gates and Clarence Thomas are bocus because most black American women (including yourselves) would NOT have ever shown any interest in those men when they were coming up in their teens and 20s---black American women are upset at these men now because they've achieved some success and have married white women, but they quickly forget they would've never given those men a chance before that success was attained.

doncalypso

9/18/2009 2:27 PM UTC

First off, the black race is NOT dying. Let's be honest, black Americans are reproducing quite profusely, but the thing is that the educated and economically well-off black Americans are the ones who aren't having as many children as those of the lower socioeconomic classes.

PowerPlayRadio

9/1/2009 2:14 AM UTC

camera101, thanks for the comment. We are not closed to the idea of dating a man of another race, but it is at near epidemic levels of black men deciding to find a white woman instead of looking into his own race first. I'd marry a decent white guy or a guy of some other race, but my preference is a black man. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Are you black or white?

camera101

8/28/2009 7:21 AM UTC

LADIES STOP THE HATE TALK! PLEASE do not put out in the universe that we need to only be with Black women and men. When we as black folks hear white folks say this we call them racist. Go find those skin heads that say the same thing, the Klu Klux Klan says the same thing. I am engaged to a beautiful brownskin sista she is a Doctor here in LA. Ladies women need to re learn how to treat a man as a man, and take us with all of our faults, the older generation of women know this. We as men need to