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When Passion is Present, Don't Get Pulled into the Past (Passion2PurposeNow)

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Hurt people hurt people. And as much as we don't desire to think those who assert they've known us the longest are capable of using snippets of our pasts against us, we know or know someone else who should have thought again. Invasive parents of adult children were allowed to feel privileged and deserving of delving into their adult child's nuclear family's personal matters. And if the adult child is married, it can get painfully messy. Thwarted emotional and spiritual growth is in jeopardy of stagnating as emotional blackmail continues. Breaking away to pursue individual purpose and so as to build healthy familial relationships so soon out of a nest occupied too long complicates the "Gift Of Letting Go" gracefully. Let's talk about how fear within a family pretends to portray itself as love. It is regressively fear-based and often occurs when the parents could not or would not become 'as one' and the identity wrapped up in the parental purpose becomes threatened. Know what the danger signs are to help yourself or another not only with a smotherly-loving mother, but any off balance behaviors emerge within life's differing relationships. Guilt and shame is the game and how do we make distance without guilt being huge in the distance needed to regain perspective?

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