The perfect plan to live on the outside together

Not Really! I don't think that it matters how hard and long you plan for release, your plans may never be perfect and you may have to struggle financially and even emotionally when he first comes home. If you are in China for 10-15 years and you come back to the US, you have to get used to how things are in the US, the same applies to our husbands. Because they were in prison for so long the atmosphere changes their whole thought process, they are used to certain ways and rules and how to get around them to live a little comfortable, so they have to adjust, get a job, learn to share a life etc. This can all be challenging so let's see what some of our plans are so far and if any wives have gone through a homecoming after a long sentence share your thoughts with us.