10 Reasons Why Black Men Won't Date/Marry Black Women

doncalypso

6/24/2009 11:18 PM UTC

That was an interesting show...

keitha10

3/22/2009 12:24 AM UTC

I dont know y black men dont like black women but i on the other hand being white i have to say all i preferr is a black woman i think they are the most beautiful women and i have a black girl friend & love her very much

Rev. Majadi Baruti

3/11/2009 2:41 PM UTC

I will not run from the Afrikan Goddess, I am praising her, I do not fear loving her, I live her worship. Our men must understand that it is ours to worship her Divine Feminine and Her Sacred Role in the universe. Praise The Afrikan Goddess, I bow in submission to your grace. She does not verify my manhood but complements it with her feminine vibration and I complement her power with my power. If you are not man enough to be man by yourself then you are not man at all!

paul lamon

1/29/2009 4:56 PM UTC

great show - i believe when we reach a point in our lives where we start to see ourselves as God sees us, we will become free from the destructive personal and cultural influences that can sabotage relationships

MotherWill

1/16/2009 9:48 PM UTC

Who? Blackwomen emcompasses alot of women, Lol! If the brothers want the other go ahead it just want be no mo US!

Mandika

1/16/2009 1:44 PM UTC

continued...queens of our own race anymore. White women ya'll win again. Add this to the list of everything you have the mastery over...we don't have anybody standing up for us now but us. This is quite disturbing.

Mandika

1/16/2009 1:39 PM UTC

So this is really true...black men for the most part do not want to be with black women anymore. The female of choice is white women now...hmmm. I suspected this but wasn't certain but this seems to be the trend (or the norm-rather). I just kinda stumbled up on this and of course it caught my attention because this appears to be visibly clear to me. I guess white women are the most desired in the minds of men of all races. Well, sistahs i guess we better shape up huh. We're not even the quee

Ms. Mel

1/1/2009 5:44 PM UTC

ALL I CAN SAY IS VERY INTERESTING!

JSharpCurtis

12/16/2008 4:58 PM UTC

Great Show!! I agree a lot with what the author was saying!

DomHar13

12/13/2008 6:22 PM UTC

I LOLed at reason eight. That sounded so ridiculous. Those reasons seem more stereotypical than an actual reality. Then again, I am only 20 so dating isn't high on my list of things to do but I do not think that list of reason would deviate me from dating a black woman. Then again, I do not really discriminate when it comes to race. I cannot really say much on the subject because I'm clueless about it. However, I found Hasani's analysis about how this falls in television shows was on point

EdLips

12/12/2008 11:44 AM UTC

5

kendrick08

12/10/2008 5:17 AM UTC

i feel men dont want to date black women because sometimes black women can be controlling no disrespect, they come in and try to take over and that can be there down fall. i honestly dont have a problem with dating black women white or whatever. i dont discriminate, feel both black men and women should be 50/50 and sometimes its not like that

missfreshman

12/5/2008 4:45 AM UTC

Also I am a christian and I firmly believe that the man should be the head of the household but they things it that women should also be asked what they feel and what they think. Sometimes men go overboard and they forget that they are in a partnership and they still have to take into consideration the other person.

missfreshman

12/5/2008 4:43 AM UTC

I believe that sometimes black men are afraid so marry black women because of their inability to let a man be man so to speak. Sometimes black women are so used to have to step up and do everything and then when they finally get with someone who is able to help them out with everything they dont know how to handle it. However men can be faulted as well because they are sometimes unrealiable and just when women put their trust in them they leave. So yes it is sometimes hard to let down your gaurd

patricl clements

12/4/2008 5:13 AM UTC

I disagree with you BigBee I really feel that black women look for way more than just security and love they also want someone to give them money who will basically baby them.. Be mindful that yes I do make my girl feel secure and I do give her whatever she wants from me, but she knows that I am not controlling and try to make her feel like she is not a women with her own mind.

BigBee

12/2/2008 3:06 AM UTC

continued.. these sistas feel secure bescause at the end of the day most not all black women want security and love. Secondly once sistas get these man I think that they need to let these men to be the men that God called them to be. The bottomlineis that no man is going to stay anywhere where he doesn't feel like a man...

BigBee

12/2/2008 3:00 AM UTC

I loved the show.I agree with Mr. Pettiford whole heartly with his assessment. I think that ultimately that black women have lost the know have to function in a heatlhly relationship. I think that this like many other isssue that haunt the black community there is no simple answer on quick resolution. I do think that black people can start by trying to identify their role in their relationship and, draw clear lines in the relationship. furthermore I think that more brothers need to step and make