young folks and the church as a whole

often young adults stray away frm the word because they havent been through enough to build that relationship with god we often get caught up in wordly things and dont take it too serious..then again there are some very annointed young christians out there who do know god an want tht worship but theyre held back...why is it so many of the young adults in todays black church culture stray away an stay ? why do we leave the churches we grew up in ?