is dating an athlete or musician a set up for failure ?

lately ive been getting letters frm wives and some boyfriends that they get tired of the fans and unwanted attention.To me u cant control who u fall in love with. If you are scure in your relationship and you know ur place, then why does the occupation of your partner bother u so much ? dating an thlete doesnt have to be negative so what there are stereo types doesnt mean u should base ur happiness off that. What do you guys think