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Time and Life is so very precious...take nothing or no one for granted...tell EVERYONE who means something to you...THAT YOU CARE! Please remember to pass kindness onto all who may cross your path, be it family, friends, loved ones or strangers.....for you may not know just how much of a difference you can make in someones life...please do that for me! A SMILE costs you nothing, but creates much with it's lasting effects. It enriches those who receive it, without impoverishing those who give it. Also Check out BIGGREDD11 on blackplanet.com leave a comment please!

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    Trust

    Trust, in a practical sense, means that you place confidence in someone to be honest with you, faithful to you, keep promises, vows and confidences and not abandon you. Trusting another person requires a realistic perspective about people and an expectation of failure. Trust needs to be combined with a willingness to forgive and grows best in an environment of acceptance and love. Trusting grows in relationships over time because as you spend time together with someone you build knowledge, understanding and authenticity. You gain insight into another person's character, needs, motivations and fears.
     
    Trust is the foundation for intimate, secure and successful relationships. It must be earned and maintained with consistent actions. But building trust and feeling like your family, friend or partner is trustworthy is not always easy for those who have had their trust betrayed. Once your trust has been violated, it’s difficult to make it viable in any relationship again. Trust has to be a living, breathing entity in order for a relationship to survive. This applies to romantic relationships, family relationships and friendships. So when your trust is violated, how do you overcome that and restore trust in a relationship?
     
    Sometimes you can’t tell if you truly trust someone, trust isn’t an emotion. It’s a learned behavior that we gain from past experiences. It is hope and dependability, and putting confidence in someone. Trust is a risk and it's the one quality that any relationship simply can't survive without. The components of love, forgiveness and commitment are as necessary to trust in a relationship as is honesty. Forgiveness gives you the chance to start over and trust another fallible human being again.
    Love helps to nourish trust. Commitment and honesty provide accountability to one another.
     
    People are human, frail, and sinful and sometimes people simply can’t trust anymore – they’ve been too badly hurt and they can’t bear to be that vulnerable again. Denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance are the five stages that can occur when you lose trust in someone.  Don’t fight any of these stages. You will get through all of them – with time. Forgiveness can even be added as a sixth stage in regards to trust. If you can find it in your heart to forgive, then you’ll be able to release anger and hurt.  When someone has broken their vows and been unfaithful, has lied or been dishonest in the relationship, we say "they need to change". But we also need to take a look at ourself as well. We will never be perfect and therefore, we will probably disappoint our loved ones as well at one point or time.
     
    If you don’t trust yourself, meaning your ability to have good judgment and to make good choices, how can you trust someone else? Having confidence in yourself will help you make better choices because you feel more capable and can discern what the best outcome would be for your well-being. Pay closer attention to your instincts and keep working on building trust in yourself. Stop labeling yourself as the victim because at some point in all of our lives, we all will have our trust tested or violated. Avoid situations that share the same pattern of circumstance where your trust was violated. examining your own thoughts, feelings and issues from the past that have yet to be healed first before looking outward to blame someone else, for the foundation of any relationship is emotional safety and trust. This means that physical safety is a given and you feel emotionally safe enough to be who you really are and be able to express yourself freely.
     
    If you don't heal the trust issues, they eat away at the very core of your relationship and then sucks the life out of what could have been a good or even great relationship.  It takes a willingness to work on both yourself and your betrayer, but trust can be won back. And when trust in a relationship is regained, it is truly healing. Losing trust in someone can have a devastating effect on your relationship, as well as your sense of self-worth, but building trust in a relationship again. 
     
    Unconditional love is patient and kind, it is not self-seeking. It does not keep a record of wrongs. When love is not patient or enduring; when love is unforgiving and always disappointed or looking for something to go wrong, it generates fear and looks for imperfections in the other person. Fear-based love is conditional creating an atmosphere of distrust, dishonesty and instability. Seeing the positive side of things doesn’t mean you’re ignoring what happened. Instead, it’s a healthy way to work through the experience to allow room for positive growth and forgiveness. The ability to forgive is rooted in being forgiven ourselves. 
     
    We as people have the capacity and the ability to change and to grow in trust and truthfulness. We can rebuild trust in broken relationships when we make a choice to do so with the supernatural help of God/Jehovah/Allah or whomever you worship.  We all need to seek God and ask Him for strength to change for every human relationship will suffer hurt we all need to become better forgivers and confessors. Remember that when you give someone the best, you deserve the best in return.
     
    Don’t settle for anything or anyone less than you deserve!
     
    In the Bible it says that God loves the world so much that he sent his only son so that we could be forgiven.  As people we all make mistakes, not one of us can live up to the standard God set on our own.  But God promises that if we accept what Jesus did for us, we can be forgiven. The slate can be wiped clean no matter what has happened in the past.  God promises us strength for today and bright hope for the future.  Whatever happened in your yesterdays God can take care of all of your tomorrows, so just simply talk to GOD.  God knows your heart and is not so concerned with your words as He is with the attitude of your heart.

    Here is a Prayer for you to say:

    Lord Jesus, I want to know you personally. Thank you for dying on the cross for my sins. I open the door of my life to you and ask you to come in as my Saviour and Lord. Take control of my life. Thank you for forgiving my sins and giving me eternal life. Please Father I ask you to make me the kind of person you want me to be. Deliver, Heal and Strengthen me by helping me to make a decision today and to bury anything/anyone that has pulled me down, held me back, kept me in dispair, limited me, decieved me, or made me vulnerable.  Please straighten the crooked places in my heart and make me completely whole. Lord I commit these things to you once and for all for I know you are the All-Seeing/All-Knowing One.  Thank you Father for not asking me to explain what I can scarcely express. AMEN

     Please remember to pass kindness onto all who may cross your path, be it family, friends, loved ones or strangers.....for you may not know just how much of a difference you can make in someones life...please do that for me! A SMILE costs you nothing, but creates much with it's lasting effects. It enriches those who receive it, without impoverishing those who give it. Be a friend to all and a stranger to none!

    In my life EVERYONE is Important to my heart!
    Your friendships are the blessings that binds our hearts together as ONE for a lifetime!
    I am Honored and Blessed to call you Sister, Brother, Friend, Family!
    From my heart to yours, I want to say "I Love You just as you are and  I Appreciate You"
    Be the Master of Your Own Destiny!
     
    In the search for me, I discovered truth.
    In the search for truth, I discovered love.
    In the search for love, I discovered God.
    And in God, I have found EVERYTHING!
    Again Pass the Love and Kindness on!
     
    Amor est vitae essentia (means)
    Love is the Essence of Life
     
    Much Love & Big Hugs
    Mz.Gloria ©

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