The Three Date Rule

doncalypso

6/19/2009 3:21 AM UTC

Adrienne, I would venture to say that when a man is ready to settle down in a serious relationship he will look for someone with the qualities for commitment from jump. I seriously doubt most men will consider settling down with a woman that started off as a booty call because we look for much more than just a pretty face and a nice derrière when we're looking for a wife.

diva362636

6/18/2009 1:16 AM UTC

doncalypso --I am very disappointed. Not one time during the show did you hear me diss casual sex. My line of questioning was trying to understand 2 things: 1) at what point does it change from casual sex to a relationship. 2) a what point does a man determine that a woman is in the casual sex category. At some point a man wants more than casual sex. I kept asking the question but neither the guest, nor the caller answered the question. So, no I was not trying to impose nor sham anyone. I

doncalypso

6/17/2009 1:31 PM UTC

Women need to understand that when a man is just looking for punani he doesn't give a damn about a woman's intelligence or whether she has virtuous qualities. All he cares about is who good she looks with her face in his pillows and her a$$ up in the air. Six-Nine was being upfront and straightforward about his view on the matter and while I may not agree with him 100% on everything I uphold his right to his opinion and applaud his candor. MOOOODE ONE!!!!!

doncalypso

6/17/2009 1:29 PM UTC

Excellent show, Alan... Your girl Adrienne was tripping though. This show was about CASUAL SEX, not relationships. It really irks me when women try to use shaming tactics on men for being honest about their true feelings and motives on casual sex.

Athirson

6/9/2009 10:00 PM UTC

The Three Date Rule is a very good rule. It exists for a very good reason. If it isn't happening by the third date, the likelihood that it ever will is very small. Sure, the woman might string the guy along for awhile if she is getting lots of freebies. But for the guy, he is better off cutting his losses and moving on, and taking his chances. He has a better chance with a randomly chosen available female than continuing to put good time and money after bad.

metalhaze

5/29/2009 2:25 AM UTC

funny but women under 25 will not continue dating men who don't sleep with them after the 3rd date! I mean in montréal and northern europe.