Young Widow: When Can I Start Dating?

When you exchange the marriage vows, "till death do us part" I don't think folks are really thinking on how those words can actually come true. If they do think on those words, what is the reality of life for them? 

No one hopes or prays for the death of a spouse but we do havea question to this effect: 

"My husband died 3 months ago in a ghastly car accident. I'm 32, now a widow. I would love to remarry. I'm wondering how long I have to wait before I can start dating again. Is 3 months sufficient? "

So..... Come this Tuesday at 8pm, lets swap tales! Y'all's opinions are very much needed. We all could learn a thing or 2!!