Surviving a Broken Heart

ICcy™

4/4/2008 4:00 PM UTC

Cafe, you did make the right decision but for the wrong reason. You want to walk away from a relationship because you can't trust him not because you think he's cheating. I think there's a difference. If you don't trust your man, you don't have any grounds to be in a relationship. If you do trust him you can move past simple things like "thinking he's cheating."

8 M O TALK

10/28/2007 8:59 PM UTC

Anyway, I hope I can catch your next show and call in to join the conversation. Thankx for hearing me out -

8 M O TALK

10/28/2007 8:58 PM UTC

right thing and came to you and said it’s over rather then stringing you along and subjecting you to pain or humiliation because they don’t want to be with you. I’m happy with my own company and I think you have to get to that place first before you can be with anybody. If you can’t deal with yourself then how is anybody else going to deal with you? On top of that I like being by myself too sometimes, even in a relationship, to just have time for me that way I can do whatever I want to do.

8 M O TALK

10/28/2007 8:57 PM UTC

line ready to buy. Not that I’m all that but I am a good damn meal. Then I analyze the relationship going over different things that happened and if the bad out weighs the good, I don’t shed anymore tears. I just went through a break just this past week and I miss having that person in my life because I still wanted the relationship but I’m actually ok. I think you can’t really be mad at that person if they give you the kiss off, at least they did the

8 M O TALK

10/28/2007 8:56 PM UTC

I’m not all broken up about it. I look in the mirror each day, I am an attractive, sexy woman, and I got good sex, people tell me all the time. Maybe they forgot why they came to me in the first place and then take a second look after the fact and then want to come back. Who knows? Sometimes I tear up right after the fact but it’s only for a short while, not even a day because I realize, why the hell I am crying. I don’t sit on the shelf that long anyway there is always someone else standing in

8 M O TALK

10/28/2007 8:54 PM UTC

Hey Ladies, I like the concept of your show – for me surviving a break up wasn’t as hard this time around. I can’t really say it’s been hard for me anytime. I think you just have to get to a place with yourself and realize that hey it’s your lose. I know who I am as a woman and I’m a good woman, I’m a keeper. In my experience I’ve always been the one to get the kiss off but they have always come back. I guess it’s because they realize what they lost after the fact or maybe it’s because they see