"MENTAL SEX........ it has nothing to do with the Physical"

SEX is probably one of the most intense activities attached to sensation, almost sharper than the fulfillment of eating to a food deprived stomach. For many, our understanding of sex is surface and we  automatically make a conjunction to the physical aspect. I find that too many of us are centered with the misconception that attraction is based soulfully on one's looks instead of the  exchange of energy----not touch-----energy. As a man, I find it interesting when women don’t have the skill set to understand the psyche of a man. Instead, believing that all men can be controlled by sex. Real men get tired of mundane  physical-interactions that only act as temporary fixes to a need for something bigger and deeper. Too often we get consumed by the physical aspect of Sex, neglecting the other dimensions of pleasure.