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Everyone Wants A Medal, Even Your Kids!!!
Had a conversation with my daughter the other week about games being meant to Win
Then I come home today and my kids are doing a coloring contest
My wife is buying some time for herself so she can get dinner ready
The timer goes off and my wife tells me Im the judge
I immediately go from everyone doesnt get a medal mentality
To naturally wanting to tell all three that they did great and they all deserve to win
Very weird feeling for me, I am in the boat of you earn what you get
Hard work, discipline and dedication reaps the rewards that you want and achieve for
My 3 kids are 8, 6, 3.5
When it comes to coloring there are 3 obvious ability levels, so the field is not exactly fair
But what in life is exactly fair, right?
So, as I had these weird feelings going through me
I didnt just hand out a participation medal to everyone, even though I kind of wanted to
I declared a Winner, gave some tips and pointers to the Losers on what they can do to improve
A hug, and a kiss and told them to keep it up and continue work at it
Interesting lesson for myself and the kids and they responded great
Lt - Nate Bailey
Leader Of The Legacy Lifestyle