I LOVE these forums. Leave it to FlyLady to keep thinking of new ways for us to be motivated and for us to feel like we are not alone. Also, I am afraid that these forums will be my new addiction. All day I have been sneaking looks at the computer to see if someone posted anything new to my post. It's funny, but it's not really funny. I don't want these forums to turn into something that I feel guilty about turning to. That is why I want to suppress my urge to obsess here. This is really important to me. Each Flybaby here is going through what I am going through in one fashion or another. We are all trying to be the best we can be, to live in peace and to love our families to the best of our ablilities. That is why my rule for myself will be to only open my computer after all my routines are done for the day and the kids are in bed. Yes the computer is a problem for me!!