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Extract from "There is a Spiritual Solution to Every
Problem"

Dr. Wayne Dyer

Here are seven suggestions to help you transcend ingrained
ideas of self-importance. All of these are designed to help
prevent you from falsely identifying with the self-important
ego.

1. Stop being offended. The behavior of others isn't a
reason to be immobilized. That which offends you only
weakens you. If you're looking for occasions to be offended,
you'll find them at every turn. This is your ego at work
convincing you that the world shouldn't be the way it is.
But you can become an appreciator of life and match up with
the universal Spirit of Creation. You can't reach the power
of intention by being offended. By all means, act to
eradicate the horrors of the world, which emanate from
massive ego identification, but stay in peace. As A Course
in Miracles reminds us: Peace is of God, you who are part
of God are not at home except in his peace. Being is of God,
you who are part of God are not at home except in his peace
Being offended creates the same destructive energy that
offended you in the first place and leads to attack,
counterattack, and war.

2. Let go of your need to win. Ego loves to divide us up into
winners and losers. The pursuit of winning is a surefire
means to avoid conscious contact with intention. Why? Because
ultimately, winning is impossible all of the time. Someone out
there will be faster, luckier, younger, stronger, and smarter-
and back you'll go to feeling worthless and insignificant.

You're not your winnings or your victories. You may enjoy
competing, and have fun in a world where winning is
everything, but you don't have to be there in your thoughts.
There are no losers in a world where we all share the same
energy source. All you can say on a given day is that you
performed at a certain level in comparison to the levels of
others on that day. But today is another day, with other
competitors and new circumstances to consider You're still
the infinite presence in a body that's another day
(or decade) older. Let go of needing to win by not agreeing
that the opposite of winning is losing. That's ego's fear.
If your body isn't performing in a winning fashion on this
day, it simply doesn't matter when you aren't identifying
exclusively with your ego. Be the observer, noticing and
enjoying it all without needing to win a trophy. Be at peace,
and match up with the energy of intention. And ironically,
although you'll hardly notice it, more of those victories
will show up in your life as you pursue them less.

3. Let go of your need to be right. Ego is the source of a
lot of conflict and dissension because it pushes you in the
direction of making other people wrong. When you're hostile,
you've disconnected from the power of intention. The
creative Spirit is kind, loving, and receptive; and free of
anger, resentment, or bitterness. Letting go of your need
to be right in your discussions and relationships is like
saying to ego, I'm not a slave to you. I want to embrace
kindness, and I reject your need to be right. In fact, I'm
going to offer this person a chance to feel better by saying
that she's right, and thank her for pointing me in the
direction of truth.

When you let go of the need to be right, you're able to
strengthen your connection to the power of intention. But
keep in mind that ego is a determined combatant. I've seen
people end otherwise beautiful relationships by sticking to
their need to be right. I urge you to let go of this
ego-driven need to be right by stopping yourself in the
middle of an argument and asking yourself, Do I want to be
right or be happy? When you choose the happy, loving,
spiritual mood, your connection to intention is
strengthened. These moments ultimately expand your new
connection to the power of intention. The universal Source
will begin to collaborate with you in creating the life
you were intended to live.

4. Let go of your need to be superior. True nobility isn't
about being better than someone else. It's about being
better than you used to be. Stay focused on your growth,
with a constant awareness that no one on this planet is
any better than anyone else. We all emanate from the same
creative life force. We all have a mission to realize our
intended essence; all that we need to fulfill our destiny
is available to us. None of this is possible when you see
yourself as superior to others. It's an old saw, but
nonetheless true: we are all equal in the eyes of God. Let
go of your need to feel superior by seeing the unfolding
of God in everyone. Don't assess others on the basis of
their appearance, achievements, possessions, and other
indices of ego. When you project feelings of superiority
that's what you get back, leading to resentments and
ultimately hostile feelings. These feelings become the
vehicle that takes you farther away from intention. A
Course in Miracles addresses this need to be special and
superior: Special ness always makes comparisons. It is
established by a lack seen in another, and maintained by
searching for, and keeping clear in sight, all lacks it
can perceive.

5. Let go of your need to have more. The mantra of ego
is more. It's never satisfied. No matter how much you
achieve or acquire, your ego will insist that it isn't
enough. You'll find yourself in a perpetual state of
striving, and eliminate the possibility of ever arriving.
Yet in reality you've already arrived, and how you choose
to use this present moment of your life is your choice.
Ironically, when you stop needing more, more of what you
desire seems to arrive in your life. Since you're
detached from the need for it, you find it easier to pass
it along to others, because you realize how little you need
in order to be satisfied and at peace.

The universal Source is content with itself, constantly
expanding and creating new life, never trying to hold on to
its creations for its own selfish means. It creates and lets
go. As you let go of ego's need to have more, you unify with
that Source. You create, attract to yourself, and let it go,
never demanding that more come your way. As an appreciator
of all that shows up, you learn the powerful lesson St.
Francis of Assisi taught:"…it is in giving that we receive."
By allowing abundance to flow to and through you, you match
up with your Source and guarantee that this energy will
continue to flow.

6. Let go of identifying yourself on the basis of your
achievements. This may be a difficult concept if you think
you are your achievements. God writes all the music, God
sings all the songs, God builds all the buildings, God is
the source of all your achievements. I can hear your ego
loudly protesting. Nevertheless, stay tuned to this idea.
All emanates from Source! You and that Source are one!
You're not this body and its accomplishments. You are
the observer. Notice it all; and be grateful for the
abilities you've accumulated. But give all the credit
to the power of intention, which brought you into
existence and which you're a materialized part of. The
less you need to take credit for your achievements and
the more connected you stay to the seven faces of
intention, the more you're free to achieve, and the more
will show up for you. It's when you attach yourself to
those achievements and believe that you alone are doing
all of those things that you leave the peace and the
gratitude of your Source.

7. Let go of your reputation. Your reputation is not
located in you. It resides in the minds of others.
Therefore, you have no control over it at all. If you
speak to 30 people, you will have 30 reputations.
Connecting to intention means listening to your
heart and conducting yourself based on what your inner
voice tells you is your purpose here. If you're overly
concerned with how you're going to be perceived by
everyone, then you've disconnected yourself from
intention and allowed the opinions of others to guide you.
This is your ego at work. It's an illusion that stands
between you and the power of intention. There's nothing
you can't do, unless you disconnect from the power source
and become convinced that your purpose is to prove
to others how masterful and superior you are and spend
your energy attempting to win a giant reputation among
other egos. Do what you do because your inner voice always
connected to and grateful to your Source-so directs you.
Stay on purpose, detach from outcome, and take
responsibility for what does reside in you: your character.
Leave your reputation for others to debate;
it has nothing to do with you. Or as a book title says:
What You Think of Me Is None of My Business!

I hope you enjoyed this article from Dr. Wayne Dyer.

With my unconditional love,

Lea Yekutiel
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