Lea Yekutiel  

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Coming at Conflict with an Open Heart

Conflict is an unavoidable part of our lives because
our beliefs and modes of being often contrast
powerfully with those of our loved ones, acquaintances,
and associates. Yet for all the grief disagreements can
cause, we can learn much from them. The manner in which
we handle ourselves when confronted with anger or
argument demonstrates our overall level of patience and
the quality of our energetic states. To resolve conflict,
no matter how exasperating the disagreement at hand, we
should approach our adversary with an open heart laden
with compassion. Judgments and blame must be cast aside
and replaced with mutual respect. Conflict is frequently
motivated by unspoken needs that are masked by
confrontational attitudes or aggressive behavior. When we
come at conflict with love and acceptance in our hearts,
we empower ourselves to discover a means to attaining
collective resolution.

The key to finding the wisdom concealed in conflict is to
ask yourself why you clash with a particular person or
situation. Your inner self or the universe may be trying
to point you to a specific life lesson, so try to keep
your ears and eyes open. Once you have explored the
internal and external roots of your disagreement, make a
conscious effort to release any anger or resentment you
feel. As you do so, the energy between you and your
adversary with change perceptibly, even if they are still
operating from a more limited energy state. Consider that
each of you likely has compelling reasons for thinking
and feeling as you do, and accept that you have no power
to change your adversary’s mind. This can help you
approach your disagreement rationally, with a steady
voice and a willingness to compromise.

If you listen thoughtfully and with an empathetic ear
during conflict, you can transform clashes into
opportunities to compromise. Examine your thoughts and
feelings carefully. You may discover stubbornness within
yourself that is causing resistance or that you are
unwittingly feeding yourself negative messages about your
adversary. As your part in disagreements becomes gradually
more clear, each new conflict becomes another chance to
further hone your empathy, compassion, and tolerance.

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With unconditional love,

Lea yekutiel
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