Dealing with unresolved pain due to the death of a loved one

Recently I was hit with a ton of bricks when I found out that a really good friend of mine shared a striking similarity...we both have not healed from the death of a mate from many years ago. This is an impromptu show. I need to get some things off my chest. There is some pain I have been walking around with for many years that has resurfaced and has changed my life. If you can relate please call in and share your stories.