Experienced BlackMan  

I have to ask the question Do women really know what they want from a man?  I ask this question because most men know what we want from a woman here is what I mean.  I don't like women that smoke cigarettes period so I would never date a women that smokes them and unless she lies about it and that is on her.  I have pulled up to the stop light and seen a very nice looking female but if she is smoking I'll turn my head like damn.  As I stated I don't like them and I wouldn't date a women that smokes them period. 

Now women not all but most would date a man that does or has qualities that she really doesn't like but she believes 1 of 2 things either he'll change or she isn't trippin (at least not right now) and she can deal with it.  Bottom line no one can see into the future but I believe most women aren't really look pass year one which is a completely different topic that I discuss in another Blog called "Year One The Do's and Don't's". 

A Concerned Gentlemen