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Greetings,

Welcome back to another installment from Juice Radio. Join us on Sunday, February 22^nd at 6:00PM EST as we chit chat about “Men and the Nudie Bar” does frequent visitation to the “Nudie Bar” equal cheating or are women just too sensitive. This is going to be quite interesting!

I remember as a young girl, coming up the older women would always say  “…men are visual” or “men like variety”. This always intrigued me, because I am “visual” too. I like attractive men, who are fit and good looking – but that is not the most important aspect of a man. Men, however, often times find the need to “act” on their need for new visual stimulation or variety of women.

I guess in the mind of a man, looking is not cheating. Surfing the internet for erotic websites, girlie magazines, nudie bars are justified because there is no physical intimacy, they do not want to pursue a relationship with these other women, they are just “looking”.

What, however, is crossing the line? What constitutes “cheating” or obsession? In my opinion, if a man has to go the the nudie bar every weekend, than I believe he probably has a problem with his own ego or the relationship. Perhaps he is dissatisfied with the physical appearance of his mate, or he needs outside stimulation to get “worked up” for his mate; or maybe he is just misogynistic, selfish idiot!! When the lines between his personal, fulfilling relationship and his fantasies with exotic dancers, are blurred, this is where the problem lies.

Men have been socialized to fulfill their sexual fantasies without facing backlash or stigma. Women, however, face that good ole’ double standard. Men can enjoy their fantasies of enjoying the sexual pleasures or stimulation from exotic dancers, online sex sites, magazines, and etc. and the still have a fulfilling life with a humble, obedient, “good-girl” mate.

Join the discussion, on Sunday February 22^nd at 6:00PM EST, as we further explore this racy topic. BE THERE!!

Until than, be good and take care!

Peace & Blessings,

Miz D! Juice Radio