Nature’s Tit-for-Tat, Keeping Score and the Importance of Creating Frequent Foreplay Miles

What would happen if every couple accumulated Frequent Foreplay Miles™ with the same enthusiasm as travelers collect frequent flier miles? It is an interesting question in that we all at some level, perhaps even sub-consciously keep score in our relationships. A kind of "Let's Make a Deal" Russian roulette in which the odds are ultimately stacked in the divorce lawyers favor. Given the fact that 50% of all marriages end in divorce, Shela Dean's bestselling book "Frequent Foreplay Miles: Your Ticket to Total Intimacy" channels what she refers to as "the human proclivity to keep score" in a "positive direction," by providing couples with a "common language with which to communicate." Joining me on today's show to discuss her book, and delve a little deeper into the key principles upon which the Frequent Foreplay Miles concept has been based is Shela Dean.