Parental Love Bond ~ How your Child's True Self Can Flourish

Do you know how important YOUR Love is a biological and spiritual nutrient for your child's whole health - body, heart and mind?

Love is our innate nature. It is a universal birthright to feel loveable, and to give and receive love with ease and confidence in our lifelong relationships. Consistent and dependable love is essential for developing self worth and lasting emotional intimacy. This primal bond is ideally established in the womb, and neuroscience indicates that by the second year of life, it is deeply wired into one's neurological and psychological attachment system. According to the research on how early life attachment experiences affect adult intimacy dynamics, about 50% of the population experiences secure attachment, while the other half experiences insecure attachment, sometimes compounded by physical or emotional trauma from a parent. This reveals many people don’t know how to love. It is valuable to understand what you can do to "rewire" yourself back to healthy love and bonding if you are a parent who is showing behaviors of insecure attachment with your child, with your spouse/partner or they with you.

Children, who are blessed with a feeling of healthy love that they can trust with consistency, are more able to innately know what it takes to be loved and to love another. Their relationships carry great potential to not only survive, but more importantly, to thrive, if their parents role model secure attachment as their expression of love.

Even "wounded" parents can rewire their conditioning and that of their child if both people want to do so.  What is required is a mutual interest to be in a committed relationship with each other to practice secure attachment as a shared priority, what I call “dependable love".