http://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4menTo continuously build up the men within our global communities by providing them with the necessary resources to help them get past their hurts in order for them to be able to propel into their divine purpose.enCopyright Mr. Martin Jongu'e' (C/O Blogtalkradio)Sun, 16 Jun 2019 00:45:00 GMTThu, 21 Mar 2019 23:00:00 GMTFamilyBlogTalkRadio Feed v2.0https://dasg7xwmldix6.cloudfront.net/hostpics/6d895ddf-39a4-4b77-a20f-9568288c2047_photo.jpghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4menTo continuously build up the men within our global communities by providing them with the necessary resources to help them get past their hurts in order for them to be able to propel into their divine purpose.feeds@blogtalkradio.comBlogTalkRadio.comfamily,martin jongue,chritianity,self-help,topical,every tuesday,relationships,god,parenting,christHelp4men RadionoTo continuously build up the men within our global communities by providing them with the necessary resources to help them get past their hurts in order for theepisodichttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/03/21/get-your-sexy-backLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/03/21/get-your-sexy-back/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/03/21/get-your-sexy-backThu, 21 Mar 2019 23:00:00 GMTGet Your Sexy BackSexy is power, confidence and ownership. It’s that feeling when you walk into a space/room and know you are perfectly poised, polished and absolute about your personal ‘brand’ and that is the best feeling. Owning the sexy is everything for women, especially sisters. If your sexy isn’t right, the game is O-F-F. 02:02:00Help4men RadionoAppearanced81977ad-b315-4663-a2f4-b57a71055b911156fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/03/08/laughter-is-the-best-medicineHealthhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/03/08/laughter-is-the-best-medicine/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/03/08/laughter-is-the-best-medicineFri, 08 Mar 2019 00:00:00 GMTLaughter is the Best MedicineSure, it’s fun to share a good laugh. But did you know it can actually improve your health? It’s true: laughter is strong medicine. It draws people together in ways that trigger healthy physical and emotional changes in the body. Laughter strengthens your immune system, boosts mood, diminishes pain, and protects you from the damaging effects of stress. As children, we used to laugh hundreds of times a day, but as adults, life tends to be more serious and laughter more infrequent. But by seeking out more opportunities for humor and laughter, you can improve your emotional health, strengthen your relationships, find greater happiness—and even add years to your life.   Why is laughter the sweetest medicine for the mind and body? Laughter is a powerful antidote to stress, pain, and conflict. Nothing works faster or more dependably to bring your mind and body back into balance than a good laugh. Humor lightens your burdens, inspires hope, connects you to others, and keeps you grounded, focused, and alert. It also helps you release anger and forgive sooner. With so much power to heal and renew, the ability to laugh easily and frequently is a tremendous resource for surmounting problems, enhancing your relationships, and supporting both physical and emotional health. Best of all, this priceless medicine is fun, free, and easy to use. 02:00:00Help4men RadionoStrength6c343d22-be35-4ce0-a2f4-e30e8e384ad11155fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/02/22/suffering-from-depression-and-anxietyFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/02/22/suffering-from-depression-and-anxiety/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/02/22/suffering-from-depression-and-anxietyFri, 22 Feb 2019 00:00:00 GMTSuffering from Depression and AnxietyWhat happens though when the stress doesn’t stop. When it continues, relentless, day after day, not only come from one source but from many, seemingly in direction. Surely, that takes its toll on a person – and when it does, a nervous breakdown is normally the result. 02:00:00Help4men RadionoLife4da9561a-d31f-41fc-8615-a7f5f4ac0eb81154fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/02/15/college-financial-aidSchoolhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/02/15/college-financial-aid/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/02/15/college-financial-aidFri, 15 Feb 2019 00:00:00 GMTCollege Financial AidThe best way to impress a financial aid counselor is to be prepared and do as much research as you can before meeting with them. You want to build a positive relationship with them as they are the ones who will ultimately be able to help you receive the most financial aid as possible, including helping you apply for scholarships and grants. Here are some must things to know and do: Know the school’s financial aid application deadlineMeet with the school financial aid counselor sooner rather than laterKeep copies of everything you use to complete your college financial aid application formsCheck with the financial aid office to make sure your file is completeSpeak with the financial aid office about any scholarships you receive, whether they are from the school itself or from outside of the schoolBe on time for appointmentsNever be late to an appointment and call to cancel if need bePrepare an appeal letter, if necessary, that details your need with copies of federal tax documents or medical bills02:03:00Help4men RadionoFinance4a2fa3b0-96b9-492a-aea7-4244d51465271153fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/02/08/sexual-healingRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/02/08/sexual-healing/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/02/08/sexual-healingFri, 08 Feb 2019 00:00:00 GMTSexual HealingPart of Living your BEST Life is knowing your wants, needs, and desires in the bedroom. ?? ??We are going to find out why people can't have the big O... Yup Orgasm. ???? ?STOP wasting time being unhappy sexually, learn some tricks by an expert... No not a star, become educated by a licensed sex coach? ?why aren't you being completely honest with your partner? It's easier to be honest... It's how to say it... Showing them how you liked to be touched.  02:00:00Help4men RadionoIntimacy1815302e-9c3f-472f-8f3f-7ea1bc3396381152fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/26/conversations-that-build-intimacyRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/26/conversations-that-build-intimacy/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/26/conversations-that-build-intimacySat, 26 Jan 2019 01:00:00 GMTConversations That Build Intimacy"Nothing builds intimacy between a couple more than to open up and share with each other that moment of surrender, when each of them knew that they had fallen in love with each other," 01:54:00Help4men RadionoIntimacy377acc1c-77e6-48d9-bf6b-d8830c0c5c2b1151fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/25/the-undercover-loverSocial Networkinghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/25/the-undercover-lover/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/25/the-undercover-loverFri, 25 Jan 2019 00:00:00 GMTThe Undercover LoverA show you do not want to miss 02:00:00Help4men RadionoCheating1fddefdb-a710-49f1-9194-adfb30cfe5531150fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/23/the-effects-lack-of-communication-can-cause-in-a-relationshipRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/23/the-effects-lack-of-communication-can-cause-in-a-relationship/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/23/the-effects-lack-of-communication-can-cause-in-a-relationshipWed, 23 Jan 2019 00:00:00 GMTThe Effects Lack of Communication Can Cause in a Relationship Do you find that communicating with your significant other causes more problems than it solves? If so, your relationship may be suffering from a lack of communication. Healthy communication patterns include both specific skills and a connection with your partner. This includes staying positive, limiting anger and engaging in active listening. An adequate communication style is important for the longevity and quality of your relationship, and you and your spouse should resolve to communicate effectively.   01:50:00Help4men RadionoDo you find that communicating with your significant other causes more problems than it solves? If so, your relationship may be suffering from a lack of communb05ecdec-4194-4046-8285-ac404c5d56591149fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/19/intimacy-through-transparencyRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/19/intimacy-through-transparency/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/19/intimacy-through-transparencySat, 19 Jan 2019 01:00:00 GMTIntimacy Through TransparencyTransparency. What a tricky, dangerous word. The truth is transparency is the key to an intimate marriage or relationship. In fact, I would argue, you simply cannot have intimacy without it. If you are not your authentic, transparent self, then there is a wall dividing you from your spouse or sugnificant other. You are building a false intimacy based on a lie. But what is transparency? Is it expressing every feeling I have every moment that I have it? No, because feelings and emotions are fleeting things, based on a wide variety of elements. Hormones, overdue bills, clingy kids, a hard day at work, can all effect our emotions. No, instead, transparency is showing your spouse your true, authentic self, sharing your deepest secrets, darkest fears, and riskiest dreams. This kind of transparency, when shared between two people who keep one another’s sacred trust, leads to the greatest kind of intimacy. Knowing deeply and being deeply known. Not only that, as marriage partners we then have the singular privilege of walking hand in hand with one another through all the triumphs and failures of life, of being our partner’s biggest fan, shoulder to cry on and voice of reason. Sadly, many marriages, even after years, never reach this level of transparency, or if they once did, this knowledge gets lost in the minutiae of life. 00:52:00Help4men RadionoIntimacy95251da1-824e-4e9a-91c5-6cf1b6f1fd991148fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/16/how-to-rebuild-a-broken-relationshipRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/16/how-to-rebuild-a-broken-relationship/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/16/how-to-rebuild-a-broken-relationshipWed, 16 Jan 2019 00:00:00 GMTHow To Rebuild A Broken RelationshipSometimes, one partner has the role of the injured party and the other is remorseful and humiliated. At other times, they are two people who have been building up relationship conflicts that have never been resolved and have now become emotional cancers out of control, now finding a voice because of a current crisis. They have an exaggerated and helpless style of battling and they are not able to hear the other in the din of their own pain. Other couples are in a war of silence; the first to speak with any attachment to connect loses power. 01:50:00Help4men RadionoSometimes, one partner has the role of the injured party and the other is remorseful and humiliated. At other times, they are two people who have been buildingc9375248-605e-4632-a2cd-de3b778c470a1146fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/15/what-are-the-behaviors-or-attitudes-that-are-hurting-our-menFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/15/what-are-the-behaviors-or-attitudes-that-are-hurting-our-men/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/15/what-are-the-behaviors-or-attitudes-that-are-hurting-our-menTue, 15 Jan 2019 00:00:00 GMTWhat Are The Behaviors OR Attitudes That Are Hurting Our Men?Humans engage in a host of behaviors that are destructive to our own kind and to ourselves. We lie, cheat and steal, carve ornamentations into our own bodies, stress out and kill ourselves, and of course kill others. Science has provided much insight into why an intelligent species seems so nasty, spiteful, self-destructive and hurtful. Inside you'll learn what researchers know about some of our most destructive behaviors. 02:05:00Help4men RadionoMenc6e9a069-0121-4455-969e-889bd38005431145fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/13/why-some-black-owned-businesses-failEntrepreneurhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/13/why-some-black-owned-businesses-fail/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/13/why-some-black-owned-businesses-failSun, 13 Jan 2019 00:00:00 GMTWHY SOME BLACK-OWNED BUSINESSES FAILBLACK-OWNED BUSINESS OWNERS ARE SOMETIMES THEIR OWN WORST ENEMY.  Legalize Your Business: Running a legitimate business is a competitive advantage. A business of any kind should adhere to local laws and regulations. Conduct due diligence on what is required for you to be in business legitimately. Seek the help of a business attorney and speak with insurers for your industry.Find an Established Partner: If you are unable to obtain proper licensing, insurances, etc., seek out a strategic partner or consider merging with another established business with the setup you need.Network: Join industry professional associations and/or attend networking events offered by chambers of commerce and business associations for referrals and to meet potential partners across other industries.01:38:00Help4men RadionoBlack Businessesae4c720e-1978-4d66-a4d9-1ff0c890ee721142fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/12/good-sex-starts-outside-the-bedroomRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/12/good-sex-starts-outside-the-bedroom/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/12/good-sex-starts-outside-the-bedroomSat, 12 Jan 2019 01:00:00 GMTGood Sex Starts Outside the BedroomOutside the bedroom" means the rest of your relationship. If that is poor, lacking respect or affection, then your SEX life is likely to reflect this. Most people in a relationship say they want “good” sex.  But what does that mean?  What’s good for one person may not suit another.  Therefore, communication is absolutely up there on my list for ensuring a satisfactory sex life.  Your partner is not telepathic and is very unlikely to become so.  Many people think that if their partner loves them they should magically be able to read their mind – this is the stuff of fantasy.  Let your partner know what you like.  Ask your partner what they like.  Get chatty in a non-confrontational way – “I like it when you…”  “XXXXX doesn’t really work for me but when you XXX it does – you’re so good at that.”  Everyone likes to be praised, no one likes to be told their technique isn’t working.  We need to leave our egos outside the bedroom and realise that everyone is different and therefore each partner will have different needs and requirements and indeed require a different tempo or approach.  A desire to please your partner will start you on the right track. 01:59:00Help4men RadionoIntimacy2b0ee755-5605-4856-966f-c1464cc11b251141fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/11/the-blended-unblended-familyFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/11/the-blended-unblended-family/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/11/the-blended-unblended-familyFri, 11 Jan 2019 00:00:00 GMTThe Blended / Unblended FamilyWelcome to blended family life. Many times we go into the next marriage thinking it would be much like the first marriage, except, you really are in love with this new person and you get along with them perfectly. So, you jump in feet first not realizing you are going to hit some of the same “walls” you hit in the first marriage. Then, you realize there are some invisible boundaries already in place … “this is the way we do holidays;” “these are my kids, and only I discipline them;” etc. Well, you have just entered the blended family twilight zone and you are going to need a bit of help. There are some basic rules about joining together and creating the “His, Hers and Ours” home. I’d like to share a few of these rules from the “road rash” I have received along my blended family journey. Hopefully it will save you from some painful skid marks along the way! 02:00:00Help4men RadionoFamilyfb5ce2fa-a122-44d0-ba4d-96a95e819c8d1144fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/09/why-forgiveness-is-one-of-the-most-important-parts-of-our-relationshipFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/09/why-forgiveness-is-one-of-the-most-important-parts-of-our-relationship/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/09/why-forgiveness-is-one-of-the-most-important-parts-of-our-relationshipWed, 09 Jan 2019 00:00:00 GMTWhy Forgiveness Is One of The Most Important Parts of Our RelationshipForgiveness is a skill. Try to learn to build it into your relationship on a day to day basis. By learning to let go of the little things, you'll be able to avoid the kinds of petty conflicts that, over time, can begin to erode away at a relationship. That doesn't mean simply letting your partner walk all over you. It can, in many cases, mean letting them know that they've upset you, but not dwelling on the issue for long. But it does mean, when appropriate, deciding to not make mountains out of molehills. Every relationship requires a bit of give and take. Learning to forgive can make that whole process a lot easier.  00:07:00Help4men RadionoLove653160d9-8230-4533-acc7-513b084509891139fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/08/men-whats-holding-you-back-from-achieving-your-dreams-in-2019Familyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/08/men-whats-holding-you-back-from-achieving-your-dreams-in-2019/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/08/men-whats-holding-you-back-from-achieving-your-dreams-in-2019Tue, 08 Jan 2019 00:00:00 GMTMen! What's Holding You Back From Achieving Your Dreams In 2019YOU DON’T GET WHAT YOU WANT, OR WHAT YOU THINK YOU DESERVE. YOU GET EXACTLY WHAT YOU WORK FOR, WHAT YOU FOCUS ON , WHAT YOU TAKE ACTION UPON EVERY SINGLE DAY. 02:09:00Help4men RadionoMena5422b6d-5f2f-45c4-b652-fb3294d08f6d1138fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/04/where-are-the-good-black-menFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/04/where-are-the-good-black-men/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2019/01/04/where-are-the-good-black-menFri, 04 Jan 2019 00:00:00 GMTWhere Are The GOOD "Black Men?" I have heard it all.... They are gay They date other races They are in jail They are already married Is all that really true... The single ladies want to know where are all the good black men at... Dial in to listen live 818 394 8573 as we really talk about this, and we will also talk about what is it that single black men are looking for out of a woman. Their QUEEN....and why do some of them date out side of their race. 02:02:00Help4men RadionoMen58581f39-65f6-40dc-8428-9bdb7c776ca61137fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/12/28/to-hell-backFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/12/28/to-hell-back/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/12/28/to-hell-backFri, 28 Dec 2018 00:00:00 GMTTo Hell & Back.You can come back from it..bounce back.. Regain your sense of identity..dignity.. Self control..and bring love and healing back into your life. 01:56:00Help4men RadionoLife13226565-e231-435a-9780-49a3854273941136fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/12/21/vision-planning-relationship-money-love-and-liesLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/12/21/vision-planning-relationship-money-love-and-lies/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/12/21/vision-planning-relationship-money-love-and-liesFri, 21 Dec 2018 00:00:00 GMTVision Planning: Relationship, Money, Love and LiesRelationships- Love & Lies... We've all been there, you love someone so much that even when they lie; you choose to ignore it or you don't see it... The person can do no wrong in your eyes. When do you finally get to the point where you WAKE UP? When is ENOUGH actually ENOUGH? A stash of money in the bottom of a cookie jar probably isn't going to destroy your marriage. But realizing that your spouse cheats on you financially could be the beginning of the end of your marriage. In an already troubled marriage, financial infidelity could be what makes you decide to call it quits 01:59:00Help4men RadionoRelationshipc47fe891-b8d0-48b8-8591-aab823f73fcd1135fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/12/18/are-you-being-a-good-father-what-about-blended-householdsFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/12/18/are-you-being-a-good-father-what-about-blended-households/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/12/18/are-you-being-a-good-father-what-about-blended-householdsTue, 18 Dec 2018 00:00:00 GMTAre You Being A Good Father? What About Blended Households?In its most basic sense, a blended family is one where the parents have children from previous relationships but all the members come together as one unit. However, as blended families become increasingly common, the definition of a blended family is changing. Understanding the basics of a blended family can be essential for ensuring your family can embrace its strengths to work through its differences. What Is a Blended Family? The simple definition of a blended family, also called a step family, reconstituted family, or a complex family, is a family unit where one or both parents have children from a previous relationship, but they have combined to form a new family. The parents may or may not then have children with each other. Traditionally, the parents of a blended family would be married, often after a divorce or death of a previous spouse, but modern blended families may not have married parents; cohabitant parents can both serve as role models for the children without a marriage ceremony. 01:59:00Help4men RadionoFathersc3bb3221-96fb-40bc-b427-69e1e7e681e81134fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/12/14/the-reality-of-raising-african-american-boys-in-america-single-mothersFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/12/14/the-reality-of-raising-african-american-boys-in-america-single-mothers/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/12/14/the-reality-of-raising-african-american-boys-in-america-single-mothersFri, 14 Dec 2018 00:00:00 GMTThe Reality of Raising African-American Boys in America (Single Mothers)Every family must deal with some unfairness that parents, despite our best intentions, cannot set aside for our children. Fathers must send their daughters into the gaze of a world of uncouth men. Parents of children with special needs deal with the harsh realities of a world not built for their children. Often, children facing such unfairness grow up and become promoters of real justice. Perhaps there's a solace there. For now, we watch the news and struggle to find the right words to explain what it all means to our sons and to ourselves. 01:59:00Help4men RadionoBoysc7bef77f-5d47-4717-838e-5966196cec801133fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/12/11/do-we-make-our-women-feel-valuedFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/12/11/do-we-make-our-women-feel-valued/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/12/11/do-we-make-our-women-feel-valuedTue, 11 Dec 2018 00:00:00 GMTDo We Make Our Women Feel Valued?The truth of the matter, and this is to all men, you stopped making her feel like a woman. Be it in deed, action, or words. Your wife does not feel like a woman, so in short, she will not do or act as a woman should by giving herself to her husband. No matter how much stuff you buy, how many times you clean house, walk the dog, do dishes; it’s all about how she feels next to your side. Does she truly feel like a woman? “There is no medical reason for this, never mind what experts say. The fact is this and only this. She does not feel like a woman. No woman is attracted to any man who makes her feel like a child or that she is incompetent. Hear me clearly, no woman is attracted, no matter how much stuff you do for her —you can bring her the moon, but if you have lost how to make her feel like a woman again, nothing will work. Try it and see if she will not resume intimacy within a week of changing how you see your wife. I bet you she will. But sadly too many men are too self-centered to attempt this.” 01:55:00Help4men RadionoMencdc950bc-3c46-4b96-bbab-30d26dab0bd51132fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/12/07/personal-safety-the-laws-and-how-it-affects-everyoneFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/12/07/personal-safety-the-laws-and-how-it-affects-everyone/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/12/07/personal-safety-the-laws-and-how-it-affects-everyoneFri, 07 Dec 2018 00:00:00 GMTPersonal Safety, The Laws, and how it affects everyoneMost domestic violence, date rape, and other relationship assaults can be prevented or stopped through knowing and using relationship safety strategies and skills. Personal safety skills will not solve the social causes of  domestic and dating violence, and they will not work all the time – but these skills can help people avoid getting into a destructive relationship, make the best of a bad situation, preserve their sense of self-worth, and keep looking for a way to get help. 02:00:00Help4men RadionoLaws44e92181-3f8e-4931-ab75-54fa3a1ba1e51131fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/12/04/are-you-a-good-money-managerFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/12/04/are-you-a-good-money-manager/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/12/04/are-you-a-good-money-managerTue, 04 Dec 2018 00:00:00 GMTAre You A Good Money Manager?Men see money differently. There are a number of ways that men and women see money differently and here are some of them. *Men are encouraged to learn how to invest and make money grow while women are socialized to save money “just in case” something happens. *Men tend to use money to keep score, women use it to take care of others *Men use money to prepare for the future while women use it to create a lifestyle right now *Men take investment risks but women are cautious about investing money *Men ask for what they want while women ask for what they believe they deserve *Men view money objectively; women view it in terms of relationships *Men learn how to be savvy investors while women expect other people to know more than they do   01:55:00Help4men RadionoMen716ecdb7-e3bf-407a-9a1a-97d724d25dbe1130fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/11/20/who-has-the-power-in-your-relationshipFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/11/20/who-has-the-power-in-your-relationship/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/11/20/who-has-the-power-in-your-relationshipTue, 20 Nov 2018 00:00:00 GMTWho has the power in your relationshipThere are always subtle power dialogues in every relationship?—?ways in which decisions are made, who has final say and when, how a difference in libido is handled, etc. But there are two types of people who actively think about and vie for “power” in their relationships more than most: Those preoccupied with having (or worrying about not having) it, andThose who are mistreated or manipulated as a result; sometimes scrambling to reassure the other of their position for fear of being screwed over or left. To a large extent, “power” to these people means something more like: having the upper hand, having final say, never being made to feel “shamed” by the other, “wearing the pants,” etc. Very often, they throw around and demand big words like “respect.” For them, power is finite, scarce, and transactional: having it requires taking it from someone else. And in order to win what they want, their partner has to lose. 01:58:00Help4men RadionoMendcb298d4-79d6-4acd-8204-79f00fc538371129fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/11/16/how-different-christian-dating-vs-worldly-datingRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/11/16/how-different-christian-dating-vs-worldly-dating/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/11/16/how-different-christian-dating-vs-worldly-datingFri, 16 Nov 2018 00:00:00 GMTHow Different? Christian Dating vs. Worldly DatingA recent survey conducted by Christian Mingle, a popular Christian dating organization, revealed that a majority of Christians who attend church and believe in God in fact go through premarital sex. Only around 10 percent of the participants stated that they are waiting until marriage, while the rest said that they either have intercourse before marriage or even if they are not in a relationship. 01:59:00Help4men RadionoDating3f753a94-125e-4520-9468-eccf7cdb2a5c1128fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/11/03/why-theres-intimacy-missing-in-your-relationshipRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/11/03/why-theres-intimacy-missing-in-your-relationship/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/11/03/why-theres-intimacy-missing-in-your-relationshipSat, 03 Nov 2018 00:00:00 GMTWhy There's Intimacy Missing in Your RelationshipThings are not always what they seem. Intimacy missing in relationships and marriages can stem from many things. Avoid jumping to conclusions and have a frank discussion with your partner without being accusatory.  01:04:00Help4men RadionoIntimacy6bb87218-9650-4edb-bfb3-6a00ef99bd7f1125fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/11/01/the-representativeRadiohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/11/01/the-representative/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/11/01/the-representativeThu, 01 Nov 2018 23:00:00 GMTThe RepresentativeWho you are when you first meet the person, women hiding their insecurties, and faking the funk when they really don't wan't sex just because we want the man. 01:50:00Help4men RadionoLadies Nighte659a150-2276-4276-9307-1342802cbf981124fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/10/29/why-am-i-so-madFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/10/29/why-am-i-so-mad/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/10/29/why-am-i-so-madMon, 29 Oct 2018 23:00:00 GMTWhy Am I So MadWhy am I so angry? Anger tells us we need to take action to put something right. It gives us strength and energy, and motivates us to act. But for some people, anger can get out of control and cause problems with relationships, work and even the law. Long-term, unresolved anger is linked to health conditions such as high blood pressure, depression, anxiety and heart disease. It's important to deal with anger in a healthy way that doesn't harm you or anyone else. 01:55:00Help4men RadionoMen9bfadb7f-21a9-4150-a352-5f4957d9e89e1123fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/10/20/the-difference-between-having-sex-and-making-loveRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/10/20/the-difference-between-having-sex-and-making-love/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/10/20/the-difference-between-having-sex-and-making-loveSat, 20 Oct 2018 00:00:00 GMTThe Difference Between Having Sex and Making LoveMany men I speak to and coach still have no idea what the difference is, because the majority use as an educational tool. For a man becoming a great love – maker is about having the proper attitude and knowing how to use your erection as an instrument of romantic expression. To become a great lover, you must first understand the difference between ordinary sex and making love. 02:00:00Help4men RadionoMany men I speak to and coach still have no idea what the difference is, because the majority use as an educational tool. For a man becoming a great love – makc33c5a04-9d7c-48e2-99b5-87a203ea02ce1122fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/10/15/do-men-tell-their-sons-to-man-upcut-the-cordstop-being-softFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/10/15/do-men-tell-their-sons-to-man-upcut-the-cordstop-being-soft/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/10/15/do-men-tell-their-sons-to-man-upcut-the-cordstop-being-softMon, 15 Oct 2018 23:00:00 GMTDo Men Tell Their Son's To Man Up/Cut The Cord/Stop Being Soft?Do men need to man up? There is more complexity to these questions than meets the eye. Summing up the solution as men needing to “man up” bypasses this complexity and implies that there is no knowledge to be gained here – only a return to the manhood ideal of the 1950s. But going down that route will not lead to a transformation of men, nor a transformation of society. We all make our own choices, and we all have to live with our own choices. Few people would disagree with such a statement. However, no decision is made in a vacuum. Depending on the context some choices may seem overwhelmingly easy to make, while others require jumping through hoops and going against the flow. So what is the context of young men making choices today? Why has the choice of ignoring manhood (and marriage) become so much more common? Understanding young men’s view of the society they find themselves in is vital, if we want to help more young men to actually enter a form of mature manhood. 01:56:00Help4men RadionoMen7e5327c3-b36f-4d88-8a81-25bc6efc596d1120fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/10/13/bad-sex-or-wrong-partnerRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/10/13/bad-sex-or-wrong-partner/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/10/13/bad-sex-or-wrong-partnerSat, 13 Oct 2018 00:00:00 GMTBad Sex OR Wrong PartnerSome relationships can have almost everything going for them – mutual attraction, good communication, well-matched personalities – but somehow still manage to be duds in the bedroom. How well partners are matched sexually relies on a various factors and those can change constantly for no real reason. Some mismatches are easier to address than others but, for couples who are having issues clicking carnally, the professional consensus is that there is almost always hope.  02:00:00Help4men RadionoSexa2204ec2-2fae-4607-bffc-ca3bd7f275a91119fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/10/09/after-the-breakupRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/10/09/after-the-breakup/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/10/09/after-the-breakupTue, 09 Oct 2018 23:00:00 GMTAfter The BreakUpWhen a relationship is over, feelings of rejection can numb your sense of self and wreck your balance. For many jilted lovers, the first impulse is to try to fix what’s broken or recover what was lost. But often, the beloved has moved on and reconciliation is not possible. And still you persist. How can you ever move on? 01:56:00Help4men RadionoRelationshipae7c7398-b65c-4c0f-986e-5b60a6d6c2231118fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/10/08/men-are-you-concern-about-health-and-what-you-eatFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/10/08/men-are-you-concern-about-health-and-what-you-eat/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/10/08/men-are-you-concern-about-health-and-what-you-eatMon, 08 Oct 2018 23:00:00 GMTMen Are You Concern about Health and What You Eat?As men get older they get into this pattern of reactive care. They don’t understand about proactive health care. They don’t understand that that’s their body for life, that they have to be in tune with their body and take care of it, and if they do, the quality of their life experience will be dramatically improved. When men do abusive things, when they drink too much, take drugs, are overweight, then that has an impact on them. They don’t realize that that “never happening to me,” changes to “it will happen”, and then it’s just around the corner. By then it’s often too late. 01:54:00Help4men RadionoMene62e10d5-acc6-439b-9476-a90025f67ced1117fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/10/01/how-do-i-trust-a-womanFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/10/01/how-do-i-trust-a-woman/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/10/01/how-do-i-trust-a-womanMon, 01 Oct 2018 23:00:00 GMTHow Do I Trust A WomanIn relationships, one of the fundamental factors required for long-term success and happiness is trust. If you are in a new relationship with a woman and want to build an atmosphere of genuine trust and caring, you need to be prepared to put in a lot of patience, dedication and effort, as the process requires a lot of time. Without trust, most relationships cannot survive. It is never too early to start developing a climate of trust. 01:55:00Help4men RadionoTrustee8fba76-5263-4f8b-bb0b-21837d77e4ab1116fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/22/does-size-really-matterRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/22/does-size-really-matter/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/22/does-size-really-matterSat, 22 Sep 2018 00:00:00 GMTDoes Size Really Matter?When it comes down to it, it’s not about actual inches, how big he is or how tight you are, but what you both do with the equipment you’ve got and how it all feels when you’re together. 01:36:00Help4men RadionoSex7d8a7e4e-e1e5-4be7-8815-e9ea86774bb51115fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/18/how-do-you-know-when-enough-is-enoughRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/18/how-do-you-know-when-enough-is-enough/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/18/how-do-you-know-when-enough-is-enoughTue, 18 Sep 2018 23:00:00 GMTHow Do You Know When Enough Is Enough? When deciding on ending a relationship, the first question we ask ourselves is: How do I know when enough is enough? Problems in significant relationships effect our anxiety and depression more than any other factor in our life because our relationships and their success define us. These are huge decisions. The heaviness of making the right one, can be immobilizing. One can either open to reconnecting, nor can they step away to relieve themselves. Above all, they lose all trust in themselves, staying in misery and passing it back and forth between them. 01:59:00Help4men RadionoWhen deciding on ending a relationship, the first question we ask ourselves is: How do I know when enough is enough? Problems in significant relationships effec447c33d-2d5e-4632-826d-0cf63c5c88481114fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/17/are-you-a-victim-or-villain-what-are-your-motivesFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/17/are-you-a-victim-or-villain-what-are-your-motives/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/17/are-you-a-victim-or-villain-what-are-your-motivesMon, 17 Sep 2018 23:00:00 GMTAre You A Victim or Villain? What Are Your Motives?Individuals who habitually indulge in self-victimization (also known as playing the victim) do so for various reasons: to control or influence other people’s thoughts, feelings and actions; to justify their abuse of others; to seek attention; or, as a way of coping with situations. Although they can actually change circumstances to avoid being victimized, they won’t seize the opportunity because they want to play the role and appear as victims to others and themselves. 01:59:00Help4men RadionoMen341087ec-870a-4756-955f-26189a312a661113fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/15/things-getting-boring-in-the-bedroomRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/15/things-getting-boring-in-the-bedroom/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/15/things-getting-boring-in-the-bedroomSat, 15 Sep 2018 00:00:00 GMTThings Getting Boring in the Bedroom? Sex isn’t the only way to come by intimacy, but it is an effective means of maintaining a connection to the one you’re with, and the one you want to stay with. 01:46:00Help4men RadionoSex isn’t the only way to come by intimacy, but it is an effective means of maintaining a connection to the one you’re with, and the one you want to stay with.7de2e7a2-b61c-4902-9a2b-d47acc6215e11112fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/11/love-when-youre-ready-not-when-youre-lonelyRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/11/love-when-youre-ready-not-when-youre-lonely/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/11/love-when-youre-ready-not-when-youre-lonelyTue, 11 Sep 2018 23:00:00 GMTLove When You're Ready, Not When You're LonelyWhen you love someone out of loneliness, you're just using them to fill this emptiness inside. You lost someone that meant a lot to you, which is always hard to get over quickly. HOWEVER, it's never fair to that next person you're "loving". You don't mean to but you are using them to help recover with the pain you're feeling. It will never last because they're just a temporary lover, not a forever lover.   01:59:00Help4men RadionoLove9160bb92-fa2c-4059-8a32-0df75836d0c81111fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/10/why-do-men-avoid-conflict-at-all-costFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/10/why-do-men-avoid-conflict-at-all-cost/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/10/why-do-men-avoid-conflict-at-all-costMon, 10 Sep 2018 23:00:00 GMTWhy Do Men Avoid Conflict At All Cost?On the surface it may seem than men like to fight. The majority of boxers are men. Hockey players are men. Football players are men. If it has to do with physical aggression, a man is usually involved. But stick that same man in a discussion with his wife and once the conversation gets a little heated, he’s shutting down and running to his room like a little baby. The very same man who will smash heads with full force on the football field suddenly turns into a coward when verbal conflict arises. 01:58:00Help4men RadionoMen Issuesaedc5f2c-9b3d-4eac-a41f-5b31f594ae2e1110fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/04/love-when-youre-ready-not-when-youre-lonelyRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/04/love-when-youre-ready-not-when-youre-lonely/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/04/love-when-youre-ready-not-when-youre-lonelyTue, 04 Sep 2018 23:00:00 GMTLove When You're Ready, Not When You're LonelyWhen you love someone out of loneliness, you're just using them to fill this emptiness inside. You lost someone that meant a lot to you, which is always hard to get over quickly. However, it's never fair to that next person you're "loving". You don't mean to but you are using them to help recover with the pain you're feeling.  It will never last because they're just a temporary lover, not a forever lover. 01:22:00Help4men RadionoLove663b1cb5-8718-4cef-8257-d15cf8382e791109fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/01/how-can-you-keep-things-interesting-in-the-bedroomRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/01/how-can-you-keep-things-interesting-in-the-bedroom/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/09/01/how-can-you-keep-things-interesting-in-the-bedroomSat, 01 Sep 2018 00:00:00 GMTHow Can You Keep Things Interesting In The Bedroom?Regardless of whether you're in a relationship or just dating at the moment, sex tips are something to implement into your sex life. Many of us forget about the little things that we loved about each other when we first met, causing us to become complacent within our relationships. This isn't something to take lightly; in fact, nurturing your love with your S.O. should be a top priority in both of your lives. 02:00:00Help4men RadionoSex415c70cf-087f-4fe7-a4ab-0c67f39072811108fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/28/how-to-transition-from-dating-to-relationshipRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/28/how-to-transition-from-dating-to-relationship/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/28/how-to-transition-from-dating-to-relationshipTue, 28 Aug 2018 23:00:00 GMTHow to Transition from Dating to RelationshipThere can come a time in your relationship where you want to make the transition from just dating to officially being in a relationship. If you feel like you and your partner are going in a great direction, you may want to take it to the next level. This situation is not necessarily easy to handle, but there are methods you can use to turn dating into a relationship. 01:21:00Help4men RadionoThere can come a time in your relationship where you want to make the transition from just dating to officially being in a relationship. If you feel like you an3921a67f-1776-4af0-9778-1c212fff43351107fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/27/how-critical-is-it-for-a-man-to-lead-his-family-in-the-right-directionFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/27/how-critical-is-it-for-a-man-to-lead-his-family-in-the-right-direction/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/27/how-critical-is-it-for-a-man-to-lead-his-family-in-the-right-directionMon, 27 Aug 2018 23:00:00 GMTHow Critical Is It For A Man To Lead His Family In The Right Direction?If a man do not lead his family, someone else will; someone else will have to.  01:59:00Help4men RadionoMen769e7327-6e36-465a-8f5a-0793f127e3271106fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/25/why-theres-intimacy-missing-in-your-relationshipRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/25/why-theres-intimacy-missing-in-your-relationship/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/25/why-theres-intimacy-missing-in-your-relationshipSat, 25 Aug 2018 00:00:00 GMTWhy There's Intimacy Missing in Your RelationshipThings are not always what they seem. Intimacy missing in marriage can stem from many things. Avoid jumping to conclusions and have a frank discussion with your partner without being accusatory. 01:54:00Help4men RadionoSex86d59df7-33d6-4d49-9d24-72bbd60611501105fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/21/when-good-relationships-go-wrongRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/21/when-good-relationships-go-wrong/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/21/when-good-relationships-go-wrongTue, 21 Aug 2018 23:00:00 GMTWhen Good Relationships Go WrongHow good relationships turn into bad relationships, seemingly out of nowhere. Whether that’s with fights that ensue endlessly, or one partner suddenly betrays the other partner – this kind of behavior can make you feel mystified, angry, and stuck. So I want to shed a bit of light on a potential reason behind these changes – if you once had a healthy and mutually rewarding relationship, this might give you a starting place for the work that has to be done.  02:00:00Help4men RadionoRelationships82ee5393-eeb6-464d-b9f7-433cc933e44f1104fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/20/are-black-men-prepared-for-marriageFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/20/are-black-men-prepared-for-marriage/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/20/are-black-men-prepared-for-marriageMon, 20 Aug 2018 23:00:00 GMTAre Black Men Prepared For Marriage?It’s no secret that over the years the collective opinion on marriage and it’s perceived value within the Black community has shifted tremendously. Various factors played into this phenomenon which has yet to be identified in any other ethnic group. One being the crack epidemic of the ’80s that shifted many households from dual to single, another being the mass incarceration epidemic that followed shortly thereafter. Whatever we attribute this to, many Black millennial men do not consider marriage to be a personal milestone. This sounds something like, “Sure I’ll get married, if I ever come across the right woman” or “Marriage ain’t for everybody” or my personal favorite, “Marriage is just a piece of paper.” 01:56:00Help4men RadionoMarriage3c73a270-568b-4b60-934d-4042a73277a91103fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/18/comfortable-positions-for-the-most-satisfying-sex-of-your-lifeRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/18/comfortable-positions-for-the-most-satisfying-sex-of-your-life/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/18/comfortable-positions-for-the-most-satisfying-sex-of-your-lifeSat, 18 Aug 2018 00:00:00 GMTComfortable Positions for the Most Satisfying Sex of Your Life If there’s a tiny part of you thinking “ouch” during sex, then it’s time to revisit your bedroom strategy. Sex should never be uncomfortable… except maybe in that hilariously awkward way. 02:00:00Help4men RadionoIf there’s a tiny part of you thinking “ouch” during sex, then it’s time to revisit your bedroom strategy. Sex should never be uncomfortable… except maybe in t4a459aec-ac96-4f63-a5c6-4b555cb2ba371102fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/14/sex-and-healthy-relationshipsRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/14/sex-and-healthy-relationships/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/14/sex-and-healthy-relationshipsTue, 14 Aug 2018 23:00:00 GMTSex and Healthy RelationshipsSexual and romantic relationships are an important part of life. No matter what your relationship status is, we’ll help you keep things healthy and safe. In a healthy relationship, both partners are able to express their feelings and respect each other’s boundaries about sex. You shouldn’t have to have sex to keep your partner. You may feel comfortable kissing or holding hands but not want to go any further. That’s okay. Deciding whether you want to have sex or when you should is a decision you should make when it feels right for YOU. In a healthy relationship, your partner respects your decisions, even if they don't like them. 02:00:00Help4men RadionoSex1913bae8-e7d3-4602-86c9-227aca1493af1101fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/13/why-are-some-men-afraid-of-commitmentFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/13/why-are-some-men-afraid-of-commitment/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/13/why-are-some-men-afraid-of-commitmentMon, 13 Aug 2018 23:00:00 GMTWhy Are Some Men Afraid of Commitment?Being afraid of commitment is something that most men experience at some point in life. The idea of being tied down to one woman for an extended period of time can seem unnatural and even inhumane to many brothers. As men, many of us seem to feel that we have to experience as many sexual conquests as we possibly can before actually hanging up our towel in the proverbial all star “players” locker room.  01:58:00Help4men RadionoMenf3cb12fb-7014-43ef-99d5-891cc3cb47f61100fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/11/does-size-really-matterRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/11/does-size-really-matter/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/11/does-size-really-matterSat, 11 Aug 2018 00:00:00 GMTDoes Size Really Matter?Speaking to a group of women they said NO, size does not always matter. To them The Stroke Matters,  Longevity Matters, and most of all Stamina Matters. If people focus on those things, and they won’t care how big it is. There is some truth to the old saying, “It’s not the size of the ship; it’s the motion of the ocean.” 01:50:00Help4men RadionoSexa3af2300-d508-4f15-b6fa-b792adc993fa199fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/07/why-black-relationships-dont-lastRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/07/why-black-relationships-dont-last/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/07/why-black-relationships-dont-lastTue, 07 Aug 2018 23:00:00 GMTWhy Black relationships Don't LastIt’s so easy for us to give up faith in relationships. Many of us have thought about quitting several times. People will tell you, “When you fall off a horse, you have to get back on.” That’s provided you haven’t concluded that you don’t even want to be on that damn horse. Relationships can be like horses. Some people think they’re beautiful, remarkable, strong and elegant creatures. Others think they’re stinky, stupid, wild and really not all that important to their lives. There’s many ways to view relationships; the key is that we’ve all got to find ourselves in self-examination when relationships fail or don’t work out. Yes, there are many times when it wasn’t our fault, it was their fault. However, there are times that regardless of who’s fault, it’s time to examine why it isn’t working out. 01:46:00Help4men RadionoRealationship17451053-104f-48dd-8978-425474cd1c38198fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/06/why-men-run-away-from-responsibilitiesFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/06/why-men-run-away-from-responsibilities/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/06/why-men-run-away-from-responsibilitiesMon, 06 Aug 2018 23:00:00 GMTWhy Men Run Away From ResponsibilitiesFirstly not all men run away or hide from responsibilities. Quite a few men are better at it than their partners. However, a lot of men are known to dodge the responsibility bullet. There may be several reasons for them to do so. They might have inherited the same from their parents or from surroundings where they were raised. Many times it could be due to sheer negligence or laziness. In some cases men who avoid responsibilities are known to have been in one with immense stress or pressure. Having taken a lot of responsibilities at some point in their life, they tend to avoid further going through the same road again. Taking responsibility is a task for men with strong heart and will. Not all men are same, making few in the herd walk the safe path along the middle of the herd than lead it with responsibility.   01:29:00Help4men RadionoMenc6a50169-610b-41ac-a878-43140420aa7c197fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/04/what-are-the-signs-that-a-woman-give-when-satisfied-after-sexRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/04/what-are-the-signs-that-a-woman-give-when-satisfied-after-sex/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/08/04/what-are-the-signs-that-a-woman-give-when-satisfied-after-sexSat, 04 Aug 2018 00:00:00 GMTWhat Are The Signs That A Woman Give When Satisfied After SexWhether you have been together for years or you just started dating, it is important for you to know if you are both satisfied with your sex lives. You do not want to be so focused on your own pleasure and disregard hers. So, are you really that good in bed or is she hoping you get done quickly so she can go to sleep? Let's find out by taking a look at the top 8 signs that proves she is having fun below. 1. She's Wet: This is a no-brainer when it comes to sexual pleasure. Just like a man gets obviously aroused when he is ready, a woman's main arousal sign is that she is wet down there. If she does not seem "ready" prolong the foreplay as much as you can and make sure you are hitting the right spots. She will thank you for it. 2. Quickening Breath: Another sign of arousal is that her breath gets quicker and more urgent, the more excited she gets. Watch for intense gaze and steadily quickening breath, then you know you've got her.  01:42:00Help4men RadionoSex0365bcb5-ac8a-4471-a980-9aeca628ddd1196fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/07/16/children-are-better-off-with-a-father-than-without-oneFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/07/16/children-are-better-off-with-a-father-than-without-one/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/07/16/children-are-better-off-with-a-father-than-without-oneMon, 16 Jul 2018 23:00:00 GMTChildren Are Better Off With a Father Than Without OneThe view that men are superfluous in today’s families is dead wrong. While it is certainly true that some children raised without fathers turn out just fine, on average, girls and boys are much more likely to thrive when they have the benefit of a father’s time, attention, discipline and especially affection. 01:56:00Help4men RadionoFathers4df5eae8-fa5c-43e5-b859-7482505c46fe195fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/07/14/ways-to-be-submissive-in-bedRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/07/14/ways-to-be-submissive-in-bed/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/07/14/ways-to-be-submissive-in-bedSat, 14 Jul 2018 00:00:00 GMTWays To Be submissive In BedPower play can bring up emotional issues as well. Even though you’re excited to have found a partner who is into the same things you are, take it slow until you get to know each other better. Power play requires an unbelievable amount of trust, and that level of trust takes time to build.  01:58:00Help4men RadionoSex06f6ac24-344b-474b-8d2f-50ef7036b408194fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/07/10/ending-a-relationship-how-do-you-know-when-enough-is-enoughRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/07/10/ending-a-relationship-how-do-you-know-when-enough-is-enough/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/07/10/ending-a-relationship-how-do-you-know-when-enough-is-enoughTue, 10 Jul 2018 23:00:00 GMTEnding a Relationship: How Do You Know When Enough is Enough?When deciding on ending a relationship, the first question we ask ourselves is: How do I know when enough is enough? Someone very special and beautiful asked me that question this week. In our culture, we are faced with all kinds of messages about relationships: see the good in people, relationships take work, rise above, and don't have too many expectations.  01:58:00Help4men RadionoRelationships714fb80c-1d52-44b3-ae16-9b4af7a62860193fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/07/07/main-reasons-women-are-dissatisfied-with-their-sex-livesRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/07/07/main-reasons-women-are-dissatisfied-with-their-sex-lives/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/07/07/main-reasons-women-are-dissatisfied-with-their-sex-livesSat, 07 Jul 2018 00:00:00 GMTMAIN Reasons Women Are Dissatisfied With Their Sex LivesWe've all heard that women would rather sleep than have sex. For many women, this statement proves truer than they would like. It's not that women do not enjoy having sex or that they get more excitement from these other things. The problem is that there are distractions getting in the way of having a satisfying and fulfilling sex life.   01:30:00Help4men RadionoSex9c425844-37fb-4e8c-bed8-f51506586a74190fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/07/02/why-are-men-more-distant-in-relationshipsFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/07/02/why-are-men-more-distant-in-relationships/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/07/02/why-are-men-more-distant-in-relationshipsMon, 02 Jul 2018 23:00:00 GMTWhy Are Men More Distant In Relationships?Have you often wondered why men and women tend to approach relationships differently? In all honesty, I can’t tell you how many times women have approached me with their stories featuring their husband or boyfriend as a “distant” figure that doesn’t “get it.” 01:48:00Help4men RadionoHave you often wondered why men and women tend to approach relationships differently? In all honesty, I can’t tell you how many times women have approached me w92d84daa-1d2f-4c54-9118-f9e8da06835c189fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/06/05/rules-of-engagement-disengagementRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/06/05/rules-of-engagement-disengagement/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/06/05/rules-of-engagement-disengagementTue, 05 Jun 2018 23:00:00 GMTRules Of Engagement & Disengagement"Are you stuck? Drawing the line between Obligation and Happiness" 00:50:00Help4men RadionoRelationshipse4d6ea0d-ae5b-43ca-ae4f-1b7ab429582f188fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/05/22/relationshiprx911Romancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/05/22/relationshiprx911/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/05/22/relationshiprx911Tue, 22 May 2018 23:00:00 GMTRelationshipRX911Interesting converstions! 00:43:00Help4men RadionoRelationshiphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/05/08/communication-communication-communication-its-all-in-what-you-say-nextRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/05/08/communication-communication-communication-its-all-in-what-you-say-next/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/05/08/communication-communication-communication-its-all-in-what-you-say-nextTue, 08 May 2018 23:00:00 GMTCommunication, Communication, Communication: It's ALL in What You Say NextCommunication in a relationship is extremelyimportant because it acts as the judge, jury and executioner who has the final say on whether yourrelationship lives or dies. Being able to communicateeffectively can also stop needless arguments which occur regularly in your relationships. 01:53:00Help4men RadionoRelationships2e3659e4-d9e8-415c-b1f4-1a1c73749134186fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/05/05/ways-to-be-submissive-in-bed-when-youre-just-starting-to-experiment-with-beingRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/05/05/ways-to-be-submissive-in-bed-when-youre-just-starting-to-experiment-with-being/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/05/05/ways-to-be-submissive-in-bed-when-youre-just-starting-to-experiment-with-beingSat, 05 May 2018 00:00:00 GMTWays To Be Submissive In Bed When You're Just Starting To Experiment With BeingWe’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous 01:55:00Help4men RadionoSex3f23d911-a47b-4891-be81-da964b69910d184fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/05/01/are-you-relationship-readyRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/05/01/are-you-relationship-ready/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/05/01/are-you-relationship-readyTue, 01 May 2018 23:00:00 GMTAre You Relationship Ready?The reality is that we're complicated and so are our lives. What we think we want and what we actually need are often very different.  If I had to pick one question that I get asked most often by my patients it would be, “Am I ready for a relationship?” Week after week I sit with forlorn and lovesick people who are desperate to find love and terrified that they never will. The inquiring minds on my couch want to know: -Can I trust my judgment? -Will I pick the wrong person and get hurt? -Am I lovable? -Will I ever meet that special someone?   “Relational health” is not a familiar concept for most people, yet it’s the cornerstone of well-being for all of us.  Your relational health is defined as the quality of your interpersonal relationships with the barometer being your own sense of happiness. 01:56:00Help4men RadionoRelationship5e063043-1784-40ad-a0d7-b0c3d8790752183fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/30/topic-men-women-loveFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/30/topic-men-women-love/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/30/topic-men-women-loveMon, 30 Apr 2018 23:00:00 GMTTopic: Men, Women, & Love         If a man loves a woman, and a woman a man, when they look in each other's eyes they are not filled with lust, they are filled with love for each other. When their hands touch they are not filled with desire, they are filled with deep feelings of love. When they are with each other they know their love will not fade but will truly last their lifetimes. If they decide they want to spend the rest of their lives together as husband and wife, then they may choose to marry, and perhaps have a family. They may choose to live their lives, as many say, as if they were “one flesh”. 01:59:00Help4men RadionoLove978ab824-c2e7-48db-820f-d628dff00bf1182fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/24/why-attracting-the-wrong-men-isnt-the-real-problemRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/24/why-attracting-the-wrong-men-isnt-the-real-problem/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/24/why-attracting-the-wrong-men-isnt-the-real-problemTue, 24 Apr 2018 23:00:00 GMTWhy Attracting The Wrong Men Isn’t The Real ProblemYou Don’t Attract the Wrong Men. You ACCEPT the Wrong Men. What happens when you find yourself incredibly attracted to a man? Well, there’s the feeling of chemistry and everything that comes along with it – the obsessive highs that come with wanting to be with him, the joy of feeling incredibly connected, and, what you may forget, the willful blindness that allows you to overlook his flaws. That’s one of the most miraculous things about chemistry: it allows you to focus only on the good and ignore all the bad. This was incredibly apparent to me when I read your questions in my survey and received hundreds of comments from women attributing your relationship failures to attracting the wrong men. First of all, let’s get one thing straight…MOST men are the wrong men. If you were an average woman, you’d be able to be with an average man and be content. Since you’re an above average woman – smart, strong, successful – your standards are going to go up accordingly. 01:55:00Help4men RadionoRelationshipa3636247-0fd9-4739-8aa6-6397573833d6174fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/23/why-do-so-many-middle-aged-men-feel-so-lostFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/23/why-do-so-many-middle-aged-men-feel-so-lost/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/23/why-do-so-many-middle-aged-men-feel-so-lostMon, 23 Apr 2018 23:00:00 GMTWhy Do So Many Middle-Aged Men Feel So Lost?Men currently in their midyears are caught between their traditional silent, strong and austere fathers who went to work and provided for their families, and the more progressive, open and individualistic generation of their sons. They do not know which of these two very different ways of life and masculine culture they should follow.” The pressure to live up to what the report describes as a “masculine ‘gold standard’ which prizes power, control and invincibility” can turn personal troubles such as losing a job into a crisis in a way that it might not for women. The sense of suffering “defeat as a man” can be more acute in middle age, when the responsibilities are greatest. The result? Men of this generation are in crisis. We often focus on teenage boys and their problems, ranging from depression to delinquency, or on women and they role in socieity, from young and single to working mother to stay-at-home woman. Yet we rarely look at the role of men, especially middle-aged men – and the problem does not only apply to those who have suffered from the familiar seismic shifts in their lives, such as divorce or the loss of a job. 01:59:00Help4men RadionoMena06adc95-18fa-4a04-8370-bebef98fe80a173fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/17/reasons-your-relationships-keep-failingRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/17/reasons-your-relationships-keep-failing/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/17/reasons-your-relationships-keep-failingTue, 17 Apr 2018 23:00:00 GMTReasons Your Relationships Keep FailingIt’s so easy for us to give up faith in relationships. Many of us have thought about quitting several times. People will tell you, “When you fall off a horse, you have to get back on.” That’s provided you haven’t concluded that you don’t even want to be on that damn horse. Relationships can be like horses. Some people think they’re beautiful, remarkable, strong and elegant creatures. Others think they’re stinky, stupid, wild and really not all that important to their lives. There’s many ways to view relationships; the key is that we’ve all got to find ourselves in self-examination when relationships fail or don’t work out. Yes, there are many times when it wasn’t our fault, it was their fault. However, there are times that regardless of who’s fault, it’s time to examine why it isn’t working out. 01:07:00Help4men RadionoRelationshipsecde6a45-96ab-4624-a435-4b640fdfb614181fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/16/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone-1Familyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/16/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone-1/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/16/where-have-all-the-good-men-gone-1Mon, 16 Apr 2018 23:00:00 GMT"Where Have ALL The Good Men Gone?"It’s a funny question because the good guys are literally all around us. We don’t have to look far to find one or two specimens of this seemingly endangered species. The problem is they go unnoticed. Now, I’m not talking about the guys who say they’re good but actually aren’t. I’m talking about the guys who are good and don’t say anything (because good guys are too good to say they’re good). They’re the ones who have a secure attachment style. They’re comfortable depending on others (and vice versa), comfortable with intimacy, and open & direct about their feelings. In short, they don’t play games. 01:51:00Help4men RadionoMen34661024-7f12-432c-aec0-e8a0b314ce85180fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/14/ways-to-resurrect-your-now-dead-bedroomSexualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/14/ways-to-resurrect-your-now-dead-bedroom/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/14/ways-to-resurrect-your-now-dead-bedroomSat, 14 Apr 2018 00:00:00 GMTWays to Resurrect Your Now Dead BedroomWhen you were younger, sex was easier. A simple, sexy look from your man could make you wet and tingly down there. Your first year together as a couple was filled with sexy adventures and doing things you never thought you were capable of doing. Then kids came along, and work and responsibilities started to take over. Suddenly, you find your bedroom has become a place to sleep, and sleep alone. Before you hit the panic button, keep in mind that a lot of couples go through the same stage with you where sex becomes dull and boreing. For some, there’s sex, but it has become predictable and repetitive. That’s fine. But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do something about it – unless you really want your marriage to go downhill. So, if you are thinking of going down Memory Lane sex-wise, check out these tips on how to boost your desires for each other, reinvent your sex life and bring back that lost spark to your bedroom. 01:58:00Help4men RadionoIntimacy158b3817-540e-4658-9f96-174742bbcb42178fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/10/ending-a-relationship-how-do-you-know-when-enough-is-enoughRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/10/ending-a-relationship-how-do-you-know-when-enough-is-enough/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/10/ending-a-relationship-how-do-you-know-when-enough-is-enoughTue, 10 Apr 2018 23:00:00 GMTEnding a Relationship: How Do You Know When Enough Is Enough?When deciding on ending a relationship, the first question we ask ourselves is: How do I know when enough is enough? Someone very special and beautiful asked me that question this week. In our culture, we are faced with all kinds of messages about relationships: see the good in people, relationships take work, rise above, and don’t have too many expectations. Then, don't put up with anyone's disrespect, take care of yourself, set limits, leave abuse. These messages convolute all our decisions on how to set boundaries in relationships or know when it is right for us to leave them. We don’t know who to blame, us or them. Add to it worry and fear about being alone, or being abandoned, or about other people judging you, and it becomes a maze to wade through. 01:56:00Help4men RadionoWhen deciding on ending a relationship, the first question we ask ourselves is: How do I know when enough is enough? Someone very special and beautiful asked me548a3076-c66d-4758-b234-eb8d69c597c5179fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/09/exactly-why-guys-start-acting-distant-all-of-a-sudden-and-what-to-do-about-itFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/09/exactly-why-guys-start-acting-distant-all-of-a-sudden-and-what-to-do-about-it/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/09/exactly-why-guys-start-acting-distant-all-of-a-sudden-and-what-to-do-about-itMon, 09 Apr 2018 23:00:00 GMTExactly Why Guys Start Acting Distant All Of A Sudden (And What To Do About It)Something between you has changed, and now he’s acting differently. Maybe he’s not showing you the chivalric, gentlemanly side that he once showed you. Maybe he’s not pursuing you like he once did. Maybe it feels like you’re bothering him or annoying him whenever you reach out to him. Or maybe he’s making lots of excuses about why you can’t spend time together. Maybe he’s getting angry when you ask him for something or tell him how you feel when he never used to in the past. Maybe he says that he loves you, but he still acts distant towards you. Maybe you can even sense him pulling away from you even when you’re right next to each other. 01:57:00Help4men RadionoMena878239b-efa7-49c0-ab74-38ca25e14492177fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/05/crowd-funding-sponsorship-and-silent-auctionsNon-Profithttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/05/crowd-funding-sponsorship-and-silent-auctions/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/04/05/crowd-funding-sponsorship-and-silent-auctionsThu, 05 Apr 2018 17:14:04 GMTCrowd Funding, Sponsorship and Silent AuctionsThe process of finding grants typically begins with prospect research. Foundations generally give based on subject and geographic region, so look for funders whose interests match your organization's mission, programs, populations served, and locations served.  00:35:00Help4men RadionoThe process of finding grants typically begins with prospect research. Foundations generally give based on subject and geographic region, so look for funders wh7415ce26-e98d-49fe-8160-b6fafa9235ee176fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/24/what-are-the-signs-that-women-give-when-satisfied-after-sexSexualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/24/what-are-the-signs-that-women-give-when-satisfied-after-sex/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/24/what-are-the-signs-that-women-give-when-satisfied-after-sexSat, 24 Feb 2018 01:00:00 GMTWhat are the signs that women give when satisfied after sex?1- Her nipples harden While it's possible that she's cold or nervous, hardened nipples, coupled with a few other signs such as panting, squirting and yelling the words, "Yes! Yes! I'm coming!" may indicate that your woman is, indeed, satisfied. 2- She gets emotional If your woman collapses after reaching orgasm or begins crying like a girl (which would make sense), don't worry; it's because she's feeling good. 3- She falls asleep A trait usually attributed to men, there are women out there who are so incredibly drained via their orgasms that they simply need to take a nap andrecuperate from the damage you've done. 4- She needs to snuggle intimately While it does not guarantee that she orgasmed per se, her need to hold you tight and feel your arms around her may be a sign that she just finished enjoying a "moving" experience. What that means, I'm not sure, but I think that if she wants to hug you tightly after you finish doing your thing, then she likes you nevertheless. 01:55:00Help4men RadionoSex026fe8c3-559a-402e-b4f5-17999129397a172fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/21/reasons-why-black-relationships-failRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/21/reasons-why-black-relationships-fail/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/21/reasons-why-black-relationships-failWed, 21 Feb 2018 00:00:00 GMTReasons Why Black Relationships FailAre you having trouble figuring out how love works?  Well, join the club, since most Americans struggle when it comes to understanding the opposite gender.  Making matters worse is that children are often involved.  This means that people are able to glance at each other, experience lμst, make a baby and then sometimes end the relationship even before the baby is born.  This is not only an unsustainable outcome, but it is damaging to our children and leads to a long and unfulfilled life.  Who wants to live life with one broken relationship after another? 02:01:00Help4men RadionoLove8a58f32a-c0c9-4277-abf4-33d459c6d9f7171fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/20/holding-men-accountable-for-their-actionFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/20/holding-men-accountable-for-their-action/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/20/holding-men-accountable-for-their-actionTue, 20 Feb 2018 00:00:00 GMTHolding Men Accountable For Their ActionAlthough gender roles and the way men define themselves are socially constructed, each individual man can choose whether or not to act out his male privilege. Consequently, it is important to hold men accountable for their choices and actions, including any violent acts they may have committed, while at the same time encouraging them to change. Violence against women and girls is a crime and a human rights violation. Holding men accountable is fundamental to a rights-based, gender-responsive approach to working with men and boys to end violence against women and girls. 00:57:00Help4men RadionoMen9c848d74-2842-47a6-80d7-9e08bd1f11cc170fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/17/ways-to-get-sexual-satisfactionRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/17/ways-to-get-sexual-satisfaction/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/17/ways-to-get-sexual-satisfactionSat, 17 Feb 2018 01:00:00 GMTWays to Get Sexual SatisfactionThe average American has sex only about 85 times in a year, which works out to a sexual romp about every four to four-and-a-half days or so. During those encounters, as many as 75 percent of men report they always have an orgasam as part of their sexual experiences. On the other hand, only 29 percent of women can say the same, and about 50 percent of women admit to faking it. So far, our sex lives as average Americans don't seem to be all that satisfying.     01:53:00Help4men RadionoSexc236325c-ee3a-46a8-bfd0-f96f28b4b4b8168fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/13/why-are-men-more-distant-in-relationshipsFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/13/why-are-men-more-distant-in-relationships/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/13/why-are-men-more-distant-in-relationshipsTue, 13 Feb 2018 00:00:00 GMTWhy Are Men More Distant In RelationshipsMost young adult males focus on their need for significance. They’re interested in making their way in the world and having an impact. This is not to say they don’t have relationships, start families, and create homes. They do, but their priority is typically focused on work. 00:57:00Help4men RadionoMend5dabc12-8e99-404f-a4d7-5038dda34621167fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/10/does-size-really-matterRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/10/does-size-really-matter/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/10/does-size-really-matterSat, 10 Feb 2018 01:00:00 GMTDoes Size Really Matter?‘Let’s cut to the chase: God shafted SOME MEN in the penis-size stakes. But here’s the funny thing- despite giving them an unusually small member, he’s compensated by providing SOME OF THEM with the personality and looks to make up for it. If they sound cocky (pun intended), they make no apology. Frankly, there not going to worry about things they can’t control and, given the way life has turned out, SOME wouldn’t change a thing. 01:59:00Help4men RadionoSex14b707bd-1bb3-442a-bdbd-bd10f19e8615165fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/07/ending-a-relationship-how-do-you-know-when-enough-is-enoughRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/07/ending-a-relationship-how-do-you-know-when-enough-is-enough/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/07/ending-a-relationship-how-do-you-know-when-enough-is-enoughWed, 07 Feb 2018 00:00:00 GMTEnding a Relationship: How Do You Know When Enough Is Enough?In our culture, we are faced with all kinds of messages about relationships: see the good in people, relationships take work, rise above, and don’t have too many expectations. Then, don’t put up with anyone’s disrespect, take care of yourself, set limits, leave abuse.  01:58:00Help4men RadionoRelationship45479d43-c9fc-4878-a633-e1aefb241963164fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/06/men-need-to-step-up-as-husbands-and-fathersFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/06/men-need-to-step-up-as-husbands-and-fathers/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/06/men-need-to-step-up-as-husbands-and-fathersTue, 06 Feb 2018 00:00:00 GMTMen Need To Step Up As Husbands and FathersLike soldiers, we are called to do our duty even when the storms of life tempt us to abandon our posts. 01:43:00Help4men RadionoMenee466ac1-99be-4450-8fdd-66ae2acca991166fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/03/main-reasons-women-are-dissatisfied-with-their-sex-livesRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/03/main-reasons-women-are-dissatisfied-with-their-sex-lives/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/02/03/main-reasons-women-are-dissatisfied-with-their-sex-livesSat, 03 Feb 2018 01:00:00 GMTMAIN Reasons Women Are Dissatisfied With Their Sex LivesWe've all heard that women would rather sleep than have sex. For many women, this statement proves truer than they would like. It's not that women do not enjoy having sex or that they get more excitement from these other things. The problem is that there are distractions getting in the way of having a satisfying and fulfilling sex life. 01:50:00Help4men RadionoSexb4604aa3-0ff5-4342-87ef-4ebbab2fcb3a163fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/31/women-was-made-for-men-but-not-every-man-is-for-womanRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/31/women-was-made-for-men-but-not-every-man-is-for-woman/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/31/women-was-made-for-men-but-not-every-man-is-for-womanWed, 31 Jan 2018 00:00:00 GMTWomen Was Made For Men But Not Every Man Is For WomanDiscussing the difference! 01:44:00Help4men RadionoRelationship048a88b2-39c6-47b3-8202-ba8b35327592162fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/30/why-are-some-men-afraid-of-commitmentFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/30/why-are-some-men-afraid-of-commitment/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/30/why-are-some-men-afraid-of-commitmentTue, 30 Jan 2018 00:00:00 GMTWhy Are Some Men Afraid of Commitment?Being afraid of commitment is something that most men experience at some point in life. The idea of being tied down to one woman for an extended period of time can seem unnatural and even inhumane to many brothers. As men, many of us seem to feel that we have to experience as many sexual conquests as we possibly can before actually hanging up our towel in the proverbial all star “players” locker room. 01:37:00Help4men RadionoCommitment6a3ab3d6-bb60-4086-adec-23c2f1af911c159fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/27/secrets-about-making-love--techniques-to-make-her-have-sex-with-you-moreRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/27/secrets-about-making-love--techniques-to-make-her-have-sex-with-you-more/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/27/secrets-about-making-love--techniques-to-make-her-have-sex-with-you-moreSat, 27 Jan 2018 01:00:00 GMTSecrets About Making Love - Techniques to Make Her Have Sex With You MoreWomen are quite fascinating and they never fail to entertain our imagination. Especially when it comes to sex. Making love with a woman is definitely a way to show intimacy and absolute physical connection that's why it can be quite a challenge to the male species to satisfy their females --- getting turned on may be something normal to men while it's something that needs to be prepared for with women. Now, I'm not saying that satisfying a woman is next to impossible (although a great number of them would confess to that fact) but you need to realize that making a woman peak sure is a great achievment and it adds up to your big male ego. So without further foreplay, below are the five secrets about making love --- learn it and make her have sex with you more! 01:58:00Help4men RadionoSexd96b4c93-81d0-4275-9b66-fa58b4951767156fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/24/why-women-always-attracted-to-the-wrong-guysRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/24/why-women-always-attracted-to-the-wrong-guys/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/24/why-women-always-attracted-to-the-wrong-guysWed, 24 Jan 2018 00:00:00 GMTWhy Women Always Attracted To The Wrong GuysIn many instances, women fall for the wrong men because these women are battling with low self-esteem. With these unfortunate statistics in mind, it's not surprising women can end up attracting men who don't treat them well, don't fulfill their needs, and don't provide them with love and emotional support because these women think they don't deserve any better.     01:54:00Help4men RadionoRelationships159906a6-5452-4256-9226-6052d505f53f160fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/20/hints-women-drop-when-youre-not-pleasing-them-in-the-bedroomRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/20/hints-women-drop-when-youre-not-pleasing-them-in-the-bedroom/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/20/hints-women-drop-when-youre-not-pleasing-them-in-the-bedroomSat, 20 Jan 2018 01:00:00 GMTHints Women Drop When You’re Not Pleasing Them In The BedroomA satisfying sex life is an important part of a healthy relationship, not to mention it provides a gorgeous glow and heart-healthy, wrinkle-fighting circulation. Most women don’t want to hurt our partner’s feelings and it’s always a little uncomfortable telling someone you love they aren’t performing in the ways that make your body feel good. It’s awkward.     02:00:00Help4men RadionoSex25a7bbd1-d396-4d71-b56a-2e547e39606f157fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/17/why-good-relationships-suddenly-go-badRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/17/why-good-relationships-suddenly-go-bad/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/17/why-good-relationships-suddenly-go-badWed, 17 Jan 2018 00:00:00 GMTWhy Good Relationships Suddenly Go BadHow good relationships turn into bad relationships, seemingly out of nowhere. Whether that’s with fights that ensue endlessly, or one partner suddenly betrays the other partner – this kind of behavior can make you feel mystified, angry, and stuck. So I want to shed a bit of light on a potential reason behind these changes – if you once had a healthy and mutually rewarding relationship, this might give you a starting place for the work that has to be done. OR at the very least enlighten you as to what happened. My other name for this episode is Family Ties. You’ll know why if you read further. Does any of this sound familiar? *The What *The Why *The How! The tools *Me-Talk *FREEZE-FRAME *MANTRA: It’s not about you.   01:56:00Help4men RadionoRelationshipsed9b3a8c-5030-425c-8e7b-ded0215e0ecd155fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/13/stuck-in-a-sexless-relationshipRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/13/stuck-in-a-sexless-relationship/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/13/stuck-in-a-sexless-relationshipSat, 13 Jan 2018 01:00:00 GMTStuck In A Sexless Relationship?Most people can agree that if you or your partner have had no sex, or have had sex less than six times in the past year, you can consider yourself in a sexless relationship. There is no normal when it comes to sex. We all have our reasons for wanting or not wanting it at various points in our lives, and sometimes they coincide with our partner’s own fluctuations and sometimes they don’t. So what are some reasons that can explain why some partnerships go through these dry spells? 01:58:00Help4men RadionoSexcf68d0a9-4eb8-4eb1-8a4b-faf85d0e9fda148fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/11/toughest-single-mom-strugglesFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/11/toughest-single-mom-struggles/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/11/toughest-single-mom-strugglesThu, 11 Jan 2018 00:00:00 GMTToughest Single Mom StrugglesSingle parents probably read the title of this article and think, “Ha! They’ve narrowed it down to five?” And in fairness, we realize that the challenges of caring for kids alone are innumerable. But there are some hardships unique to the individual, and others that are hard time and time again from our single-mom friends. So this list is an overview of those common single mom struggles, along with some encouragements and suggestions to help you deal with them. 01:58:00Help4men RadionoMothers880a65d4-834d-44eb-97f8-5efc2131bd3c152fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/10/when-relationships-go-wrongRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/10/when-relationships-go-wrong/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2018/01/10/when-relationships-go-wrongWed, 10 Jan 2018 00:00:00 GMTWhen Relationships Go WrongSafety and trust in relationships go hand-in-hand: Safety lays the foundation for trust, and trust over time morphs into safety. Have safety and trust and you relax and lean into a relationship. You’re not afraid to say what is on your mind, or to talk about what bothers you. This is intimacy in action. Without safety and trust, you pull back, shut down, walk on eggshells, get angry.     01:57:00Help4men RadionoRelationships1e448462-96e9-4ff4-ac57-5fe473aa159b147fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/21/the-direction-of-americaPolitics Conservativehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/21/the-direction-of-america/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/21/the-direction-of-americaThu, 21 Dec 2017 15:00:00 GMTThe Direction Of AmericaIt's a fraudulent question because it points the finger in the wrong direction... It’s more a reflection of America’s feelings towards the Republican House and their lazy welfare mentality against America and our government as they only work 90 days a year. They are the biggest welfare cases in America. It’s why the House has the lowest approval ratings in history and has consecutively gone lower each year since the Republicans took control of the House in 2010. Is their argument that the longest private sector growth in American history is the “wrong direction”?  …health care costs rising at the lowest rate in 50 years… …seniors have saved $1.6 billion in prescription drugs… …10 mill. People who couldn’t afford health care before can now…  …students can stay on their parents plan and cut their college costs…  …expanding the right to marriage equality…  …inflation is at a long-term low rate…  …gasoline prices being heavily reduced …positive green technologies  …America #1 oil producer …domestic production highest in 30 yrs …clean coal production  …fuel standards raised …energy efficiency programs & weatherization  …oil imports lowest in 30 years.. …states passing minimum wage increases  … federal contractors paying a higher minimum wage…  00:59:00Help4men RadionoIt's a fraudulent question because it points the finger in the wrong direction... It’s more a reflection of America’s feelings towards the Republican House and93761d8a-5758-4380-84dc-24f06e3fc33a146fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/20/when-a-woman-is-fed-upRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/20/when-a-woman-is-fed-up/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/20/when-a-woman-is-fed-upWed, 20 Dec 2017 00:00:00 GMTWhen A Woman Is Fed UPIt’s amazing how clueless men can be at times. They often get so caught up in their own world that they fail to see when the writing is on the wall. Last week I had a random lunch with my kid brother. He had taken me out for a lunch, which, in my view, had nothing to do with free lunch; he needed someone to talk to. Reason? He was heartbroken because his girlfriend of two years had packed up her things and left without so much as a note. Playing the victim card, he claimed she had given him no signs whatsoever that she was unhappy. To him, everything had been going well. In fact, in his exact words: “We have been fighting less, she no longer complained when I came home late, in fact she had stopped nagging me about everything and anything.” I couldn’t help but pity the poor, clueless young man! If only he was smart, the tell tale signs were all over and he ought to have swung into action and tried to salvage the relationship. 01:57:00Help4men RadionoWomen324f1fb1-90eb-40f8-b205-bcbb061970b8139fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/19/a-man-will-only-do-what-you-allow-him-to-doFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/19/a-man-will-only-do-what-you-allow-him-to-do/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/19/a-man-will-only-do-what-you-allow-him-to-doTue, 19 Dec 2017 00:00:00 GMTA Man Will Only Do What You Allow Him To Do…When girls vent to me about their guy and I hear all the awful things he’s doing and saying to her and she’s allowing it…. it’s hard for me to just blame it all on the guy. You have power over your feelings, don’t let a man that doesn’t deserve your affection get the best of you…because you’ll regret it later. 01:41:00Help4men RadionoMen677a49e1-84db-4b06-bcea-e6c7439a7eb8144fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/14/the-birth-of-freedomPoliticshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/14/the-birth-of-freedom/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/14/the-birth-of-freedomThu, 14 Dec 2017 15:00:00 GMTThe Birth of FreedomThe Birth of Freedom How is freedom born? The American founders said that all men are created equal and are endowed with certain unalienable rights—that among these are life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. They called this a self-evident truth. Eighty-seven years later, Abraham Lincoln reaffirmed this idea on the Civil War battlefield of Gettysburg. And in 1963 these same words echoed from the steps of the Lincoln Memorial as Martin Luther King, Jr. urged America to fulfill the promise of its founding. But humans are separated by enormous differences in talent and circumstance. Why would anyone believe that all men are created equal? That all should be free? That all deserve a voice in choosing their leaders? Why would any nation consider this a self-evident truth? For the millions around the world who have never tasted liberty, the question cries for an answer. 01:45:00Help4men RadionoThe Birth of Freedom How is freedom born? The American founders said that all men are created equal and are endowed with certain unalienable rights—that among6f620189-1ea2-44aa-974a-7f9726109d7b143fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/12/verbal-vs-emotional-vs-sexual-intimacy-do-men-you-know-the-differenceFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/12/verbal-vs-emotional-vs-sexual-intimacy-do-men-you-know-the-difference/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/12/verbal-vs-emotional-vs-sexual-intimacy-do-men-you-know-the-differenceTue, 12 Dec 2017 00:00:00 GMTVerbal vs Emotional vs Sexual Intimacy: Do Men You Know The Difference?Sexual contact? We approach the subject often, dissecting its variations, and insisting on its necessity for a healthy relationship. But is sex, even great sex, the same as intimacy? Is sexual intimacy what we’re actually after? What about other types of connection? We frequently express a desire to love and be loved, to feel safe in our relationships, to be known and accepted for who we are – hoping to share our dreams and our failings. Is this the intimacy that we truly desire? The answers beg for a clear understanding of the types of intimacy that exist between people, how we achieve them, and how they vary. 01:24:00Help4men RadionoMen1fd7b2fe-a742-4ad0-8224-e7bb4e1cd098141fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/09/single-women-why-saving-yourself-for-the-right-man-mattersRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/09/single-women-why-saving-yourself-for-the-right-man-matters/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/09/single-women-why-saving-yourself-for-the-right-man-mattersSat, 09 Dec 2017 01:00:00 GMTSingle Women! Why Saving Yourself For The Right Man MattersGirls, as soon as we can speak, we speak of love. Ken kisses Barbie. We have kindergarten romances that break our heart. We grow into school girl crushes and dream of marrying a celebrity super star and having his children. Then we are old enough to choose. We choose a real boy. We choose a boy who feels right. We choose the wrong boy. We choose a boy who we think we can mold into the dreams we have. We can pull him here and cut a piece off there and eventually he will be the right boy. A boy that has been nipped and tucked will never be the right man. The right man is worth waiting for. The right man is worth saving your heart and your body for. Maybe you are dating a guy and wondering if he is the right one. How can you tell?   01:59:00Help4men RadionoSexac811310-3905-4928-904f-3adb0a85819f132fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/07/social-engineering-wake-upFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/07/social-engineering-wake-up/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/07/social-engineering-wake-upThu, 07 Dec 2017 15:00:00 GMTSocial Engineering: Wake UpSocial engineering is an attack vector that relies heavily on human interaction and often involves tricking people into breaking normal security procedures.  A social engineer runs what used to be called a "con game." Techniques such as appeal to vanity, appeal to authority and appeal to greed are often used in social engineering attacks. Many social engineering exploits simply rely on people's willingness to be helpful. For example, the attacker might pretend to be a co-worker who has some kind of urgent problem that requires access to additional network resources.   01:25:00Help4men RadionoSocial engineering is an attack vector that relies heavily on human interaction and often involves tricking people into breaking normal security procedures.  A92282171-0cdf-4536-8a01-0d64636eadad140fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/05/manly-men-verses-unmanly-menFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/05/manly-men-verses-unmanly-men/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/05/manly-men-verses-unmanly-menTue, 05 Dec 2017 00:00:00 GMTManly Men Verses Unmanly MenWhat does a godly man look like? (You can substitute the phrase "manly man" for "godly man." The two are the same.) Is he broad-shouldered, self-confident, tough, successful? Is he powerful, committed to his purposes, able to keep in check emotions that might interfere with achieving his goals? Does he keep moving against all odds, never indulging the urge to panic or cry? Does his deepest enjoyment come more from what he has accomplished than from what he is like to be with? That's the traditional view: Real men are tough, tough enough to lead and make decisions and keep on moving. But for the last 10 or 20 years, that view has taken a beating. 01:05:00Help4men RadionoMan53fc7c18-0630-4be6-a002-40bfb8f9e575138fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/04/let-go--let-godSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/04/let-go--let-god/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/04/let-go--let-godMon, 04 Dec 2017 01:00:00 GMTLet Go & Let GodTrust isn’t an easy thing to come by but it’s one of the most important parts of our relationship with God.  When times are tough and things aren’t going our way, that’s when we find it the most difficult to trust God. We doubt that God is going to come through for us, we lack faith in His promises, and we worry ourselves with endless thoughts about our future. The problem is that this is the exact opposite of how God wants us to react to the difficult circumstances in our lives. God wants us to trust Him when we’re having doubts and are unsure about what to do. He wants us to believe in His promises when we think that things are going to get worse. So how can you trust God when you feel like trusting God is impossible? 01:12:00Help4men RadionoRelegious1d402846-e243-4ec9-b967-a1828d57abc4137fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/02/part-2-lack-of-intimacy-living-in-a-sexless-marriageRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/02/part-2-lack-of-intimacy-living-in-a-sexless-marriage/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/12/02/part-2-lack-of-intimacy-living-in-a-sexless-marriageSat, 02 Dec 2017 01:00:00 GMTPart 2/ Lack of Intimacy: Living in a Sexless MarriageMarriage partners do not necessarily experience the same state of mind in marriage at the same time. One spouse may disrupt the other's state of Intimacy by failing to meet an emotional need, or inadvertent thoughtlessness. In the state of Conflict, the offended spouse begins to complain, nag, and may even try to start a fight. As the complaints escalate, the other spouse who has been in the state of Intimacy, is dragged into the state of Conflict as well, and then the fighting begins in earnest. Typically, if they fail in their efforts to resolve the conflict, and if the unpleasant effects escalate, one spouse will go into Withdrawal first and raise his or her emotional barriers. The spouse that remains in the state of Conflict continues to argue, while the withdrawn spouse tries to escape. If the arguing spouse persists, the withdrawn spouse may be goaded to re-enter the Conflict state, and fight back. Or, the arguing spouse may give up and enter the Withdrawal state, too. One spouse may also lead the other on the road back from Withdrawal to Conflict and eventually to back to Intimacy. In Withdrawal, a husband may decide to make a new effort to restore Intimacy and toss out an olive branch. That effort places him back into the Conflict state, while his wife is still in Withdrawal. Suppose his effort is an encouragement to her and she eventually joins him in the state of Conflict. Now they are both willing to have their needs met by the other, but their Takers encourage them to fight about it, rather than negotiate intelligently and peacefully. In all too many cases, if they follow their Taker's advice and argue rather than negotiate, they both find themselves back in the state of Withdrawal, convinced that in that state their marriage is safer, and certainly more peaceful. 01:59:00Help4men RadionoIntimacy9a90484d-28f5-48a2-b2bc-f2edb2534144127fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/11/30/we-must-stop-turning-children-against-fathersFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/11/30/we-must-stop-turning-children-against-fathers/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/11/30/we-must-stop-turning-children-against-fathersThu, 30 Nov 2017 00:00:00 GMTWe Must Stop Turning Children Against FathersThousands of fathers are eliminated from their children's lives because of the 'implacable hostility' of mothers with custody. There are MANY different cases, however. To me, it reflected a phenomenon that I see all too frequently – the elimination of fathers from their children’s lives by unmitigated, unscrupulous demands on the children’s loyalty on the part of the mother with custody, along with the unremitting denigration and belittling of the father. Nine out of 10 children of separating or divorcing couples live most of the time with their mothers so the controlling parent is likely to be the woman and the estranged, undermined parent is likely to be the man. It is not unknown, however, for mothers to be on the receiving end of this process, where the children are living mostly with the father.    I believe that both parents should share responsibility for bringing up children and 85 per cent agree that fathers are instrumental in bringing up children. The courts are often confronted with an impossible dilemma where young children voice a determined preference not to see or be involved with a parent. How can anybody be sure that the child is expressing true feelings that have been freely developed rather than a point of view which has been inculcated by a manipulative parent?  Cases involving implacable hostility can be in and out of court for years. Prevention is better than cure.”Where contact with children is being frustrated or denied and the children themselves are rejecting a parent with whom they previously had good relationships, specialists in mediation and child psychology should get involved without delay. 01:18:00Help4men RadionoParentseb0d554f-b19d-4afd-a159-d0e06c0a6f23136fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/11/29/how-to-avoid-toxic-relationships-that-go-nowhereRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/11/29/how-to-avoid-toxic-relationships-that-go-nowhere/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/11/29/how-to-avoid-toxic-relationships-that-go-nowhereWed, 29 Nov 2017 00:00:00 GMTHow to Avoid Toxic Relationships That Go NowhereThe Attraction to the Bad Boy This syndrome may manifest in the chart of the woman who comes from a traditional family where manners and moral upbringing are stressed. But, unfortunately, she finds most “nice” men (that her parents would approve) uninteresting, boring, and “too white bread.” Instead, she’s excited and fascinated by a man of questionable character especially if he appears fascinating and mysterious. Some women are even more bewitched if the man seems dangerous. There’s something forbidden about his character that makes him very captivating. This “bad boy” is fascinating to her for his rebellious ways, and devil-may-care attitude. (And, if her parents would disapprove - finding him socially unacceptable in some way, so much the better.) He may be devilishly handsome with a charismatic personality that says, “I do what I want and I get what I want.” Or, he may be intriguing because he lives a carefree life, unconcerned about society’s approval. She’s so charmed that she ignores all the “red flags” that should give her pause: he seems to enjoy drinking a lot; he gets familiar and talks about sex right away; he’s changed jobs often and is currently unemployed; he’s 35 and still living with his parents. This woman’s attraction to such a man may be even darker. She may become engrossed when she hears that he’s dropped out of school or had some trouble with the law or is unconcerned that he can’t seem to hold a job. He may have an exciting sexual charisma or just appears a bit freaky. In some way he’s a “bad boy.” 02:00:00Help4men RadionoRelationships5d12a54f-eb63-4de2-a430-c4f3b054e72a129fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/11/28/men-who-wont-grow-upFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/11/28/men-who-wont-grow-up/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/11/28/men-who-wont-grow-upTue, 28 Nov 2017 00:00:00 GMTMen Who Won't Grow UpMy father showed me that being a man involves taking responsibility—for your choices, for your family, for your community, and for the next generation. What makes this generation of young men different from previous ones is that many are delaying marriage longer than before, and our culture is encouraging them to prolong adolescent behavior.  It’s as if these young men have developed a warped idea of manhood.  They think becoming a man means getting to do whatever they want.  So for them, starting a family means giving up their cherished independence.  With that type of mindset, you wonder what type of husbands and fathers they will be when they finally set aside their childish ways. We live in a culture that celebrates youth and beauty and independence—even at the expense of growing up.  Many young men today immerse themselves in a world of media entertainment and diversions that tell them it’s okay to live a self-centered lifestyle, free of commitments to anything beyond endless and mindless pleasure.  Young men who refuse to grow up need peers and mentors who will exhort them to act like men.  Husbands and fathers need to step up and take responsibility for raising the next generation.  Boys growing up without fathers need men who will step into their lives and mentor them. 01:57:00Help4men RadionoMencf3faf42-f8c5-487c-889f-1657672a8b4d135fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/11/11/how-many-door-knobs-have-you-turned-facts-on-oral-sexRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/11/11/how-many-door-knobs-have-you-turned-facts-on-oral-sex/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/11/11/how-many-door-knobs-have-you-turned-facts-on-oral-sexSat, 11 Nov 2017 01:00:00 GMTHow Many Door Knobs Have You Turned? Facts On Oral SexPervasive myths about oral sex have long existed among'st Indians. Yet, oral sex has indisputably emerged as the hottest and newest trend among people down under. Oral sex can be pretty divisive. While some will swear by it as their favorite sex "thing" — maybe even more so than intercourse — others are not that into it. That goes for both sexes, and both giving and receiving. And, there are a ton of myths out there. Is semen good for your skin? And is oral sex safe? A lot of what goes wrong in the oral sex "equation" is perception. Some see it as submissive, while others see it as the ultimate form of control. Some doubt its romance while others see it as the ultimate trust and intimacy. And, of course, there's the whole issue of reciprocity — is there any bigger insult than someone you go down on who won't go down on you? Ouch. 01:49:00Help4men RadionoSex9dff9d44-1b99-4d41-925b-15d353e7ed7a133fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/11/08/relationship-advice-for-women--how-to-avoid-a-bad-relationshipRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/11/08/relationship-advice-for-women--how-to-avoid-a-bad-relationship/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/11/08/relationship-advice-for-women--how-to-avoid-a-bad-relationshipWed, 08 Nov 2017 00:00:00 GMTRelationship Advice for Women - How To Avoid a Bad RelationshipKnow the type of man you want This has to be one of the most important tips because if you do not know what kind of man you want, you will end up with the wrong type of man and thus end up in a bad relationship. So if you want a practical relationship advice for women belonging to bad relationships, take the time to know what you want to achieve when you start a family and therefore the type of man you want. They do not end up like so many other women who spend so much time in the trap, but attract the wrong class of men.     02:38:00Help4men RadionoRelationships861e2158-f84c-4b8d-9503-3aedb52a8eac130fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/11/07/desolate-life-of-single-fathersFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/11/07/desolate-life-of-single-fathers/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/11/07/desolate-life-of-single-fathersTue, 07 Nov 2017 00:00:00 GMTDesolate Life of Single Fathers!It’s important to emphasise that family breakdown is a nightmare for everyone. To the countless thousands of other fathers who have faced the pain of being separated from their children. No wonder he ended up feeling suicidal. Something like one third of fathers lose all contact with their children after divorce or breakup. A mother may relocate to somewhere geographically remote or form a new relationship in which the biological father is seen as an impediment to the harmony of the open “new family”.  Fathers, in grieving for their loss, are giving into “female” feelings – and this punished by condemning it as “self-pity”. But to find yourself suddenly living alone, and often impoverished, the sense of loneliness and grief can be disabling.  The father uses the money and the mother uses the children. It’s all a game of poker.  The assumption that the mother will always be the best primary carer is ridiculous. Brothers: Don’t become bitter. Never speak ill of their mother to your children, no matter how much you are hurt. And, in the long run, the children will probably be OK – if they are lucky, they will have a father who is passionate about remaining a father, whatever obstacles are put in his path.   01:34:00Help4men RadionoDads0d3f3486-1c9c-41b2-8490-ec7b5e274d2c128fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/30/message-to-fathers-show-up-step-up-man-upFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/30/message-to-fathers-show-up-step-up-man-up/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/30/message-to-fathers-show-up-step-up-man-upMon, 30 Oct 2017 23:00:00 GMTMessage To Fathers: Show Up, Step Up, Man UpNow, before you jump to the conclusion that this message is aimed solely at absentee fathers and deadbeat dads, let me be clear—there is more than one way to be absent from your child’s life. Too many of us are missing in action as fathers for what seem like perfectly sensible reasons in the moment. After all, time is scarce and the demands on your schedule and attention can seem endless. You can’t make it to your son’s basketball game because you have to take that late afternoon flight to the West Coast to close the deal that will help you to provide for his needs. And what about your daughter’s junior prom—wait—that was last week? You totally forgot to put it on your calendar, but no worries—you’ll be there for the real prom next year. Besides, the extra money you made on your side business is what paid for her prom gown. So what if, because of the long hours you put in, you barely see your children during the week and you’re too tired or in need of relaxation to pay attention to them on the weekends? After all, you’re doing it all for them, right? But here’s the challenge: When all is said and done, neither you nor your children will remember that big business deal you closed in Los Angeles, or the cost of that prom gown. What they will remember is whether or not you showed love and appreciation for them, and made the sacrifices to be engaged in their lives, both for special occasions and on a day-to-day basis. It’s not about how many points your son scores or whether or not you like your daughter’s prom date. It’s about you being present. Love is showing up. WE must reject the commonly accepted notion that while motherhood is necessary, fatherhood is optional, superfluous, a luxury reserved only for a fortunate few children. My challenge to fathers is to show up, step up, and man up.   01:07:00Help4men RadionoNow, before you jump to the conclusion that this message is aimed solely at absentee fathers and deadbeat dads, let me be clear—there is more than one way to be75687bf2-438e-4e39-9cac-a811faea42de125fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/28/how-can-black-businesses-survive-when-blacks-do-not-supportEntrepreneurhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/28/how-can-black-businesses-survive-when-blacks-do-not-support/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/28/how-can-black-businesses-survive-when-blacks-do-not-supportSat, 28 Oct 2017 23:00:00 GMTHow Can Black Businesses Survive When Blacks Do Not Support?Why don't we as black people support black business? I have a theory as to why we don't but I wanted to hear it from my colleagues, friends, and business associates. Below is a list of reasons I was given when I asked other blacks why they thought blacks don't support their own: 1. we hate ourselves 2. we don't want to see each other succeed 3. we think white is better 4. we don't trust each other 5. we think blacks don't know how to run businesses 6. we don't want spend our money with or support our own BECAUSE THEY ARE TRAINED HOUSE NIGGERS! MASTER TRAINED THEM TO TURN THEIR BACKS FROM THEIR OWN 01:59:00Help4men RadionoEntrepreneur7491944d-23ae-4992-bf9f-9cc99b0ef5cc124fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/28/part-2-lack-of-intimacy-living-in-a-sexless-marriageSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/28/part-2-lack-of-intimacy-living-in-a-sexless-marriage/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/28/part-2-lack-of-intimacy-living-in-a-sexless-marriageSat, 28 Oct 2017 00:00:00 GMTPart 2/ Lack of Intimacy: Living in a Sexless MarriageIntimacy issues are not uncommon, and they can certainly be difficult to handle or awkward to address. The reality of a sexless marriage can be downright devastating for those living in a marriage without intimacy. Intimacy pertains to the close, connected feelings partners build with one another over time; and the physical and emotional bond that is achieved in healthy relationships. 01:57:00Help4men RadionoSexa0cc928d-bc43-4a80-baa8-cb8ad33a1e24http://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/25/whites-have-a-role-in-the-plight-of-black-familiesFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/25/whites-have-a-role-in-the-plight-of-black-families/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/25/whites-have-a-role-in-the-plight-of-black-familiesWed, 25 Oct 2017 23:00:00 GMTWhites Have A Role In The Plight Of Black FamiliesPoor black neighborhoods are not the unassisted creation of poor black people but largely the malignant result of factors beyond their control.   It's far from optimal for 72 percent of black children to be born out of wedlock. Social ills would diminish if there were more stable, two-parent black households. The problem with this line of thinking is that it's incomplete. Worse, it's often used to gloss over intractable realities that continue to hinder black progress. It's true that whites don't force blacks to have children out of wedlock. But it's wrong to suggest that whites bear no responsibility. Poverty is often the result of lack of access to good jobs or any jobs, and discrimination by employers didn't stop in 1965 — and hasn't stopped yet. The impact of drug laws, and the harsher treatment black men get from the criminal justice system, means that many have records that scare employers away. But research indicates that white applicants with criminal records are more likely to get interviews than blacks without criminal records. A lot of the well-paid blue-collar jobs once abundant in cities have vanished. Moynihan lamented that unemployment had long been much higher for black men than for whites, and the gap is bigger today. 02:03:00Help4men RadionoFamilies9e60d9c0-31b5-4c32-a4f0-f100f7c3ee73123fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/24/living-single-with-angel-bRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/24/living-single-with-angel-b/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/24/living-single-with-angel-bTue, 24 Oct 2017 23:00:00 GMTLiving Single with Angel BYou can be single at heart regardless of your actual status as single or coupled. Similarly, you can be a coupled at heart regardless of whether you really are coupled at the moment.   As long as singlism continues unchallenged, and matrimania rules the land, people living single will continue to be put on the defensive. Others will still ask you why you are single. (Not everyone will do this, but the unenlightened and the clueless will.) Some will assume that if you have stayed single past a certain age, there's something wrong somewhere. You must have issues. The same practicing practitioners of singlism will often have no problem whatsoever with the serial remarries - those people who marry and divorce, marry and divorce, over and over again. They won't assume that the multiply-divorced have issues. Can you live with that? 01:59:00Help4men RadionoRelationshipa9b278f2-03ed-48aa-8e4c-da1fa5b11e86121fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/23/a-man-will-only-do-what-you-allow-him-to-doFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/23/a-man-will-only-do-what-you-allow-him-to-do/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/23/a-man-will-only-do-what-you-allow-him-to-doMon, 23 Oct 2017 23:00:00 GMTA Man Will Only Do What You Allow Him To Do…How many times when you’re venting to your friends about what your man, it’s “his” fault you’re mad and the reason things aren’t working out. You slept with him and now he’s not returning your calls and he’s acting like a complete jerk, he curses at you when you two are fighting, he keeps having female “friends” hit up his phone and he tells you it’s nothing and not to worry about it, or how about when you two move in together and it’s “his” fault things didn’t work out and now he’s moving out. STOP, STOP, STOP blaming it all on him. Everything was cool when you two were having sex, everything was okay when you two were spending time together, and everything was fine when you both went apartment hunting together…but now he decided to up and leave one day and now it’s all his fault you’re left broken-hearted right? Wrong. It takes two to tango. So just as much as you think he’s wrong (which he is, I’m not saying all of these are right) you’re just as wrong. A man will only do what you allow him to do. You made that decision to have sex with him and not think about the consequences, there’s a reason why God made sex for marriage (I’ll talk about that in a later blog) and now that he’s treating you different it’s “him.” You made the decision to play house without having a ring on your finger and making that commitment before God, and now it’s “his” fault things didn’t work out. 01:52:00Help4men RadionoMene5a11f4c-d800-4e56-a268-e1c9eb491e7f114fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/19/getting-past-your-past-in-the-workforcePoliticshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/19/getting-past-your-past-in-the-workforce/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/19/getting-past-your-past-in-the-workforceThu, 19 Oct 2017 14:00:00 GMTGetting Past Your Past In The WorkforceNo matter where you work, workplace conflict is bound to be a reality in your day to day office dealings. But although it is unavoidable, it doesn’t have to be part of your professional dealing. There are ways to minimize and overcome the various negative situations that may surface on any given day. 01:07:00Help4men RadionoPoliticsfef5ec83-6c6c-4764-87da-cd99cb7b5f43119fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/18/finding-male-role-models-for-kids-of-single-momsFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/18/finding-male-role-models-for-kids-of-single-moms/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/18/finding-male-role-models-for-kids-of-single-momsWed, 18 Oct 2017 23:00:00 GMTFinding Male Role Models for Kids of Single MomsGet any group of women together who are thinking about becoming a single mom or are already parenting alone, and one of the first things you’ll hear them talking about how to provide male role models. Single mothers often acknowledge this need for their sons, but I’m a firm believer that girls need male role models just as much as boys. This is an issue for single moms and lesbian couples.  02:00:00Help4men RadionoMentorshipe2a3df2c-85d8-4476-b065-3d9c930d86be118fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/17/open-discussion-relationship-topics-domestic-violence-awareness-1Romancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/17/open-discussion-relationship-topics-domestic-violence-awareness-1/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/17/open-discussion-relationship-topics-domestic-violence-awareness-1Tue, 17 Oct 2017 23:00:00 GMTOpen Discussion Relationship Topics & Domestic Violence Awareness... The meaning of a relationsWe go live 02:01:00Help4men RadionoWe go live9ba1dbe0-24f3-4e1f-839e-cb55da7071b9117fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/16/when-men-fail-to-leadFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/16/when-men-fail-to-lead/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/16/when-men-fail-to-leadMon, 16 Oct 2017 23:00:00 GMTWhen Men Fail To LeadIt is the basic nature of a man to assume the lead —to be a do-er. Immediately, you may think of many men who are passive. For these men, passivity can be a means not of leading but of control or manipulation. It is what is known as passive-aggressive behavior. This trait often emerges in a man when his confidence has been badly shaken. Or it could be that his masculine self-image was wounded at an early age. Recognizing and understanding passive-aggressive reactions will allow a wife to more effectively minister to her husband. It could also help her to survive the intense frustration of life with a man who withdraws because he is unsure of himself. There are two parts to handling the problem of a withdrawn man. The first is to commit yourself to the process of helping him emerge into his God-given role. And the second is to build for yourself a strong relationship with the Lord from which to draw strength while the emerging process is working. 01:59:00Help4men RadionoMen599766d4-a894-414d-8954-776fa5e3affb19fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/12/leveraging-our-dollars-to-make-sense-with-zion-roseboroFinancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/12/leveraging-our-dollars-to-make-sense-with-zion-roseboro/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/12/leveraging-our-dollars-to-make-sense-with-zion-roseboroThu, 12 Oct 2017 14:00:00 GMTLeveraging Our Dollars To Make Sense with Zion RoseboroDo wildly successful business people typically start companies in which they refuse to seek capital in the form of business loans or stock, content to grow them slowly without the help of ANY outside dollars?Do people become successful real estate investors by saving up money to buy each rental house “free and clear”?Do the rich of the world keep their money in a liquid/cash state so they have access to all of their money if necessary, or do they put their money to work, generating new wealth?01:13:00Help4men RadionoMoney04a41acc-da9b-4253-941a-7c4ef74512ed116fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/05/taking-a-knee-to-make-a-stand-with-zion-roseboroPoliticshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/05/taking-a-knee-to-make-a-stand-with-zion-roseboro/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/05/taking-a-knee-to-make-a-stand-with-zion-roseboroThu, 05 Oct 2017 23:00:00 GMTTaking A Knee To Make A Stand with Zion RoseboroIt wouldn’t be hard for owners to argue that defying honoring the flag reflects poorly on their teams, or that it negatively affects their image. Plenty of people booed at the Alabama rally when Trump mentioned players taking the knee and cheered when he called for them to be fired. 01:32:00Help4men RadionoPoliticshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/04/why-our-black-families-failing-with-brother-cleveland-crittonFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/04/why-our-black-families-failing-with-brother-cleveland-critton/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/04/why-our-black-families-failing-with-brother-cleveland-crittonWed, 04 Oct 2017 23:00:00 GMTWhy Our Black Families Failing with Brother Cleveland Critton"There is a crisis of unprecedented magnitude in the black community, one that goes to the very heart of its survival. The black family is failing."  Quibble if you will about the "unprecedented magnitude" -- slavery wasn't exactly a high point of African American well-being. But there's no quarreling with the essence of the alarm sounded here last week by a gathering of Pentecostal clergy and the Seymour Institute for Advanced Christian Studies. What is happening to the black family in America is the sociological equivalent of global warming: easier to document than to reverse, inconsistent in its near-term effect -- and disastrous in the long run. Father absence is the bane of the black community, predisposing its children (boys especially, but increasingly girls as well) to school failure, criminal behavior and economic hardship, and to an intergenerational repetition of the grim cycle. The culprit, the ministers (led by the Rev. Eugene Rivers III of Boston, president of the Seymour Institute) agreed, is the decline of marriage. 01:59:00Help4men RadionoFamilies96161cd8-cae4-45f4-9a4e-7133f5a9f6b6111fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/03/open-discussion-with-the-ladies-men-money-and-mindsetRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/03/open-discussion-with-the-ladies-men-money-and-mindset/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/03/open-discussion-with-the-ladies-men-money-and-mindsetTue, 03 Oct 2017 23:00:00 GMTOpen Discussion with the Ladies, Men, Money and Mindset!For the most part, men have a vastly different mindset around money than women do. But let’s face it, with every norm, there is always an exception so this is NOT me trying to paint every man with the same brush, nor every woman with the opposite brush. Men typically behave differently when it comes to business. Although I primarily work with women, I do work with a few men as well. From experience, I can tell you that there is a substantial difference in how they run their businesses and approach money and mindset. 02:00:00Help4men RadionoRelationship81ce8f05-0317-4020-813d-31bb4531327f18fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/02/walking-through-the-process-of-forgiveness-with-pastor-caron-jonesReligionhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/02/walking-through-the-process-of-forgiveness-with-pastor-caron-jones/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/10/02/walking-through-the-process-of-forgiveness-with-pastor-caron-jonesMon, 02 Oct 2017 00:00:00 GMTWalking Through The Process Of Forgiveness with Pastor Caron Jones1. Pray and ask God for the grace to forgive. It’s a choice. The first step of me walking in forgiveness was realizing that I couldn’t do any of this on my own. I made a choice to forgive and I continue to ask God for the grace to forgive each day in this process called forgiveness. I can’t do this life a single day without Him. I knew what I was supposed to do in order to walk with Jesus, but this time it was going to be really difficult and would require courage. “Be gentle and ready to forgive; never hold grudges. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others.” Colossians 3:13 2. Escape your resentment at the foot of the cross. Forgiveness is a process. Healing comes in the process of letting go and walking in today. Forgiveness is a process. It is not a one time event. When I don’t know what to do with all those haunting memories, I have a Savior who does. I literally put a cross up on my dresser. Every time a thought came to stab me, I wrote it down and put it at the foot of the cross. “Jesus I don’t know what to do with these hurtful feelings, but I know you do. I choose to forgive and give them to you. Thank you for your forgiveness and what you did on the cross for me.” This is what Philippians 4:13 really means! “I can do all things through Him who gives me strength.”   01:35:00Help4men RadionoLife0df30372-7b9b-4965-a955-3e783e4dc96712fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/28/taking-a-knee-to-make-a-stand-with-zion-roseboroPoliticshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/28/taking-a-knee-to-make-a-stand-with-zion-roseboro/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/28/taking-a-knee-to-make-a-stand-with-zion-roseboroThu, 28 Sep 2017 14:00:00 GMTTaking A Knee To Make A Stand with Zion RoseboroIt wouldn’t be hard for owners to argue that defying honoring the flag reflects poorly on their teams, or that it negatively affects their image. Plenty of people booed at the Alabama rally when Trump mentioned players taking the knee and cheered when he called for them to be fired. 01:32:00Help4men RadionoLegald6d35246-383a-465b-8cf0-a34287e42a2316fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/27/understanding-out-of-wedlock-births-in-black-americaFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/27/understanding-out-of-wedlock-births-in-black-america/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/27/understanding-out-of-wedlock-births-in-black-americaWed, 27 Sep 2017 23:00:00 GMTUnderstanding Out-of-Wedlock Births in Black AmericaWhile studing I've been thinking a lot about a number you see invoked whenever discussing the state of the black family--70 percent of all births among African-Americans happen out of wedlock. You often see this number invoked to show the moral or cultural decline in the black family: For African-Americans. That's embarrassing. And you know, in the entire recorded history of the planet, there has never been a greater voluntary abandonment of men from their children than there is today in black America. Never. I mean, when men went off to war, they had to go off to war. That wasn't voluntary. But never as great of voluntary abandonment of children by their fathers than in black America today. Why don't the NAACP and similar organizations take all the money they use to challenge and complain about the standards that their groups (in the aggregate) don't meet when it comes to university admissions, selective high-school admissions, school discipline, mortgage loans, police and firefighter tests, felon disenfranchisement laws, employment policies that look at criminal records, etc., etc., and use that money to figure out ways to bring down the illegitimacy rates that drive all these other disparities? Just as often you see it invoked by black people themselves in much the same way. What undergirds all of this is the sense that the black community of today is somehow deficient in a way that the black community of yesteryear was not. 01:48:00Help4men RadionoMothersb061be8e-0859-4047-b4a1-d9fe29fa694f14fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/26/men-we-need-you-god-does-too-with-angel-bLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/26/men-we-need-you-god-does-too-with-angel-b/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/26/men-we-need-you-god-does-too-with-angel-bTue, 26 Sep 2017 23:00:00 GMTMen We Need YOU & God Does Too! With Angel BDear men, This is addressed to those of you who love Jesus. I want to thank those of you who fight an often unrecognized battle. I know this is not an easy world to live in as a man – far from it. I know that if you are following Jesus, you are constantly fighting spiritual attack and temptation. On top of that, you daily face a society that tries to define you by the very things you want to resist and sends mixed signals about what it means to be a real man. Merely choosing to fight through all of that is about as manly as you can get. In light of that battle, I want to remind you of who God made you to be. God created you in his image (Genesis 1:27). And because you are created in His image, you are a leader. 02:01:00Help4men RadionoRelationship1ee7f8a6-8d5b-4ef7-9882-95583d39420d15fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/25/for-the-love-of-the-black-manFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/25/for-the-love-of-the-black-man/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/25/for-the-love-of-the-black-manMon, 25 Sep 2017 23:00:00 GMTFOR THE LOVE OF THE BLACK MANFor the Love of the Black Man is designed to show appreciation, raise the self-esteem, and remove the ego that is the Black Man. It is important that we uphold cultural preservation within our people so that they not forget their beauty and strength. This is significant in that the Black man has been conditioned to believe he is only limited to certain life paths that come with the stereotypes of being a Black man, when in reality it is him who has created this land and the resources upon it. With the strength of the Black man's self-esteem and ego, and knowing of his responsibility within the family, it is my belief that all of his people and those surrounding him will also rise. It is time the Black man learns his true power.    00:59:00Help4men RadionoFor the Love of the Black Man is designed to show appreciation, raise the self-esteem, and remove the ego that is the Black Man. It is important that we upholdbb3dc377-1833-4155-97e2-f25c30098eb011fullhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/23/black-entrepreneurs-start-more-businesses-but-fail-at-higher-rateBusinesshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/23/black-entrepreneurs-start-more-businesses-but-fail-at-higher-rate/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/23/black-entrepreneurs-start-more-businesses-but-fail-at-higher-rateSat, 23 Sep 2017 23:00:00 GMTBlack Entrepreneurs Start More Businesses, But Fail At Higher RateBlacks are starting businesses at greater rates, but they are also failing at greater rates, according to a recent study by the Ewing Marion Kauffman Foundation. While black men and women are 50% more likely to attempt a business start-up than their white counterparts, the numbers show many of those new black businesses never get off the ground. And for those that do actually start, they are not growing as quickly or as big as white-owned companies. For example, 1.7 million firms will still be in existence four years after they were started. Of those, only 3,200 will have grown to 100 or more employees. Of those 3,200, only 1% will be African-American owned. "So when you piece together the various data, you can see the story that unfolds, which is a story about a tremendous gap between a minority's dream of entrepreneurship and the reality of making it happen," says Wendy Guillies, spokesman for Ewing Marion Kauffman Foundation. "African-Americans are very entrepreneurial oriented, yet they are failing at very high rates," says Bill Boudreaux, author of The Complete Startup Guide for the Black Entrepreneur. "Something in the process is causing that." Black business owners and analysts say a lack of proper planning, poor capital structure and stigmas are partly to blame. Hattie Nelson, director of operations at Nelson, Inc., a local general contracting firm founded in 1972, says young African-American entrepreneurs need to be focused and have a plan. "If they're not willing to commit everything, don't do it," she says. "And they need to have a clear, realistic plan." Nelson's firm is redeveloping the building that takes up 92-96 South Main. They plan to turn the building into a mixed-used development with retail on the ground floor and condominiums  01:59:00Help4men RadionoBlack Business2118d4ca-75ad-4b65-8ee1-f96b56ac5a91http://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/21/kenneka-jenkins-will-the-real-killer-please-standNewshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/21/kenneka-jenkins-will-the-real-killer-please-stand/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/21/kenneka-jenkins-will-the-real-killer-please-standThu, 21 Sep 2017 14:00:00 GMTKenneka Jenkins: Will The Real Killer Please Stand.Kenneka Jenkins' mysterious death has hit a nerve with young African-Americans. Everyone seems to have a theory about how the 19-year-old Chicago woman's body ended up in a freezer in a deserted area of a hotel near O'Hare. That is to be expected when such an intriguing tale goes viral on social media.  What's more important, though, are the messages these young people are sending to each other. In their own unique way, they have begun a long-overdue conversation about sexual assault. To be clear, authorities have said nothing to suggest Kenneka was assaulted before she died, or even that her death was criminal. But unanswered questions have fueled speculation on social media about what might have happened to Kenneka that night during a party in a ninth-floor hotel room with friends, including whether she was attacked. The amateur sleuthing on Twitter has evolved into an open discussion about relationships — not just friendships between women but also the kind of men they allow into their lives. And the responsibility women have to look out for each other when they are socializing in public. In language that is at times vile and crude, they are talking about trust, jealousy and deception, about the perils of underage drinking and the troubling lack of respect too many young African-American men show toward African-American women. They are forcing each other to look deeper into the rape culture that for so many teenagers and young adults has become the norm. It is a subject Africans-Americans don't always like to talk about openly, largely for fear of promoting the racist stereotype that most black men are sexual predators. We know that is not true, but sexual assault does occur and the discussion has long been needed in our community. 01:47:00Help4men RadionoLawhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/20/lets-talk-body-language-with-dr-saunyaFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/20/lets-talk-body-language-with-dr-saunya/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/20/lets-talk-body-language-with-dr-saunyaWed, 20 Sep 2017 23:00:00 GMTLet's Talk Body Language with Dr. SaunyaLet me start by stating the obvious, if a woman does not answer your texts, there are 2 reasons for that: 1.) she does not like you (sorry), or 2.) she seriously just forgot/did not see it.  But how do you tell which of the two it is?  It is quite simple really.  If she actually wants to talk to you, and just forgot to respond/did not see it, she will go back to her messages wondering why you haven’t responded.  At this point, she will notice that you did respond, and then respond to your text while also apologizing for the delay.  If she never responds, then that’s some bad news for you. Another point of discussion that my guy friends bring up, is the fact that a girl crosses her arms.  Most people would interpret this act as meaning that she is bored with the conversation and would prefer you leave her alone.  On some rare occasions this would be correct.  However, odds are she did not even notice she did it.  I constantly cross my arms, and mean nothing by it.  It is simply a comfortable way for me to stand without looking awkward.  So don’t worry about the crossing of the arms. My personal favorite is watching guys try to figure out whether or not a woman is flirting with them.  It truly makes me giggle when a woman is being a cute, and you just look at the guy, assuming he would be acting the same way, but then he just looks confused out of his mind.  Guys, if a woman touches your hand or shoulder gently, that’s a subtle hint.  Also, if a woman twirls her hair while smiling and looking at you, that is also a pretty good indicator that she is flirting with you (unless she twirls her hair as a nervous tick). 02:13:00Help4men RadionoLifehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/19/the-difference-between-godly-and-wordly-relationshipsRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/19/the-difference-between-godly-and-wordly-relationships/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/19/the-difference-between-godly-and-wordly-relationshipsTue, 19 Sep 2017 23:00:00 GMTThe Difference Between Godly and Wordly Relationships.In a relationship of the world you can do anything, with no limits at all. But you can also get anything with no limits at all. You’ll do anything imaginable to try and keep your partner, anything! Including sex before marriage. Not thinking of the consequences you face. You’re only thinking about having fun and keeping your partner. But the consequences you face are so important; You are looking at: *Facing severe depression of being let down once again by the person whom you thought this time would be it. * Getting pregnant and facing the dilemma of having to carry around a baby and for the rest of your life. While not being yet prepared for it and by someone whom you might not even love.  *Lets not forget that STD (Sexually Transmitted Disease) such as Aids, HIV, Syphilis, Herpes or Chlamydia, they still exist. They are not just made up STD's they are actually out there. Because I work in the church, I know a lot of people that have them, people that you couldn't imagine in your wildest dreams that would have it.  AND TO DIE!  For a few minutes of fun! What’s so fun about any of this?    Worldly relationships can be called "fun", but at the end of the day there are consequences that you and you alone will have to face. Most of the time the flesh is the one that ends up paying the price for it. I personally don’t think its worth it, how about you? Think about it.... 01:57:00Help4men RadionoRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/18/becoming-better-fathers-and-father-figuresFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/18/becoming-better-fathers-and-father-figures/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/18/becoming-better-fathers-and-father-figuresMon, 18 Sep 2017 23:00:00 GMTBecoming Better Fathers – And Father FiguresThe skills of becoming a great mentor are fundamentally the same as those for becoming a great dad. I teach the men I now coach and mentor this simple and yet highly effective skill set: Affirmation, Acceptance, and Affection. If every father and mentor would commit to learning these three easy-to-master skills, the entire world would become a better place. And millions of fatherless children would finally feel the love and receive the guidance they desperately need not only to survive this life, but to find their way, to succeed, and to enjoy healthy and loving relationships—most of which may remain out of reach without the skilled mentoring you and I can provide.  02:03:00Help4men RadionoFathershttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/18/the-process-of-forgiveness-with-pastor-caron-jonesSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/18/the-process-of-forgiveness-with-pastor-caron-jones/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/18/the-process-of-forgiveness-with-pastor-caron-jonesMon, 18 Sep 2017 00:00:00 GMTThe Process of Forgiveness With Pastor Caron Jones“Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:31-32 NIV) Too many of us don’t really understand what forgiveness is. We struggle through all kinds of misconceptions about what it means to forgive others. I mentioned a few of these specific misconceptions in yesterday’s devotional. I’m convinced that if more people knew what real forgiveness looked like, they’d be much more willing to forgive instead of holding onto past hurts at an unhealthy level. 01:36:00Help4men Radiono“Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each othehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/14/overcoming-shame-and-rejection-with-ronald-zion-roseboroLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/14/overcoming-shame-and-rejection-with-ronald-zion-roseboro/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/14/overcoming-shame-and-rejection-with-ronald-zion-roseboroThu, 14 Sep 2017 14:00:00 GMTOvercoming Shame and Rejection with Ronald Zion RoseboroHere are 8 strategies for overcoming shame and restoring self-esteem: Revisit your childhood.Recognize your triggers.Practice self-compassion.Challenge your thoughts.Don't double-layer shame.Avoid shame reinforcers.Accept love and kindness.Practice forgiveness.01:33:00Help4men RadionoLifehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/13/serving-and-dating-at-the-same-time-with-dr-saunyaFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/13/serving-and-dating-at-the-same-time-with-dr-saunya/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/13/serving-and-dating-at-the-same-time-with-dr-saunyaWed, 13 Sep 2017 23:00:00 GMT"Serving and Dating At The Same Time with Dr. Saunya"“Whoever is on a mission, their priority is not you", “So if you decide that you are going to wait for that person and suppress whatever feelings you have for people around you, especially as a guy, you shouldn’t be asking women out on dates, because asking women out on dates are hollow invitations.” 01:47:00Help4men RadionoRealtionshiphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/12/open-discussion-whats-love-got-to-do-with-itRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/12/open-discussion-whats-love-got-to-do-with-it/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/12/open-discussion-whats-love-got-to-do-with-itTue, 12 Sep 2017 23:00:00 GMTOpen Discussion: What's Love Got To Do With It?The word “love” is one of the most powerful words in any language. When we think about music, there’s a whole category of songs that we call “love songs”.    02:01:00Help4men RadionoRelationshiphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/07/the-case-for-reparations-no-more-blank-checksOtherhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/07/the-case-for-reparations-no-more-blank-checks/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/07/the-case-for-reparations-no-more-blank-checksThu, 07 Sep 2017 14:00:00 GMTThe Case For Reparations: No More Blank ChecksAbove all, reparations would be fundamentally illiberal, and therefore unjust. People who have enslaved no one (and most of whose ancestors enslaved no one) would be forced to pay damages to people who were never slaves. In the dubious name of justice for groups, injustice would be done to millions of individuals. 01:58:00Help4men RadionoRacehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/05/girls-talk-insights-women-views-opinions-about-life-relationshipsRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/05/girls-talk-insights-women-views-opinions-about-life-relationships/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/09/05/girls-talk-insights-women-views-opinions-about-life-relationshipsTue, 05 Sep 2017 23:00:00 GMTGirls Talk: Insights, Women Views, Opinions About Life & RelationshipsI think that every person in her/his life gives apologies almost all the time. Maybe some apologies are not really important like when you hit somebody by accident, something to that nature, but there are some apologies that are most important.  02:02:00Help4men RadionoRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/29/final-part-of-relationship-pitfallsRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/29/final-part-of-relationship-pitfalls/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/29/final-part-of-relationship-pitfallsTue, 29 Aug 2017 23:00:00 GMTFinal Part of Relationship PitfallsOn the rocky road of Love, some of the deep potholes you encounter can cause a blowout. Careful driving with both eyes on the road will help you avoid the innumerable hazards that can wreck your precious bond. Relationships need attention and care, much like a car needs gas, a tune-up and an oil change every 3,000 miles. On your journey of love, prevent the three most treacherous and common relationship pitfalls. Money, insecurity and fear of change are three demons that can spell doom for a relationship. We will examine each hot spot and create a set of affirmations that will keep your relationship humming. *Pitfall One: Money *Pitfall Two: Insecurity *Pitfall Three: Change 02:00:00Help4men RadionoRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/24/digging-up-ancient-racismCulturehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/24/digging-up-ancient-racism/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/24/digging-up-ancient-racismThu, 24 Aug 2017 14:00:00 GMTDigging Up Ancient RacismRacism is a product of capitalism. It grew out of early capitalism’s use of slaves for the plantations of the New World, it was consolidated in order to justify western and white domination of the rest of the world and it flourishes today as a means of dividing the working class between white and Muslim or black, and native and immigrants or asylum seekers. A quick look at the origins of racism in modern society from its roots in the justification of slavery. Any discussion of racism needs to examine the roots of racism in order to understand it and to struggle against it effectively. There are basically three explanations for the existence of racism. The dominant view which is rarely expressed as a worked out theory but rather operates at the level of assumptions is that racism is an irrational response to difference which cause some people with white skin to have hateful attitudes to people with black skin which sometimes leads to violent and evil actions. People who have this understanding of racism usually advocate awareness and education as a way of preventing the practice of racism. The second view is that racism is endemic in white society and that the only solution is for black people to organise "themselves separately from whites " in order to defend themselves and to protect their interests. The third view and the one which libertarian communists and social anarchists advocate is an explanation of racism based on a materialist perspective, which views racism as a historically specific and materially caused phenomenon.   02:03:00Help4men RadionoRacism is a product of capitalism. It grew out of early capitalism’s use of slaves for the plantations of the New World, it was consolidated in order to justifyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/22/part-3-of-relationship-pitfallsRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/22/part-3-of-relationship-pitfalls/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/22/part-3-of-relationship-pitfallsTue, 22 Aug 2017 23:00:00 GMTPart 3 of Relationship PitfallsOn the rocky road of Love, some of the deep potholes you encounter can cause a blowout. Careful driving with both eyes on the road will help you avoid the innumerable hazards that can wreck your precious bond. Relationships need attention and care, much like a car needs gas, a tune-up and an oil change every 3,000 miles. On your journey of love, prevent the three most treacherous and common relationship pitfalls. Money, insecurity and fear of change are three demons that can spell doom for a relationship. We will examine each hot spot and create a set of affirmations that will keep your relationship humming. *Pitfall One: Money *Pitfall Two: Insecurity *Pitfall Three: Change   02:01:00Help4men RadionoRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/17/part-2-samson-restoredReligionhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/17/part-2-samson-restored/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/17/part-2-samson-restoredThu, 17 Aug 2017 14:00:00 GMTPart 2, Samson RestoredA continuation of last weeks conversation.  01:07:00Help4men RadionoReligionhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/15/part-2-of-relationship-pitfalls-after-the-break-up-then-whatRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/15/part-2-of-relationship-pitfalls-after-the-break-up-then-what/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/15/part-2-of-relationship-pitfalls-after-the-break-up-then-whatTue, 15 Aug 2017 23:00:00 GMTPart 2 of Relationship Pitfalls: After The Break Up Then What?If you’re going through a breakup, you’re likely to be experiencing a roller coaster of different emotions. You may be feeling sad at one moment, mad the next and/or even a bit lost and confused about what happened between you and your ex. But whatever the case may be, it’s never been more important to avoid these six actions that can cause you even more heartache and heartbreak after a breakup.   *Don’t dwell on the past. *Don’t stalk your ex on social media. *Don’t go through this alone. *Don’t beat yourself up. *Don’t contact your ex. *Don’t lose hope. 01:58:00Help4men RadionoBreakUpshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/10/samson-rerstoredReligionhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/10/samson-rerstored/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/10/samson-rerstoredThu, 10 Aug 2017 14:00:00 GMTSamson RerstoredAn open conversation! 01:12:00Help4men RadionoAn open conversation!http://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/08/after-the-break-up-then-whatRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/08/after-the-break-up-then-what/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/08/after-the-break-up-then-whatTue, 08 Aug 2017 23:00:00 GMTAfter The Break Up, Then What?Open discussions01:59:00Help4men RadionoRelationshiphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/07/grace-to-standChristianityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/07/grace-to-stand/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/07/grace-to-standMon, 07 Aug 2017 00:00:00 GMTGrace to StandStanding Firm in His Grace. Are you feeling discouraged as you look at all that is taking place in your life and in our world? Maybe you find yourself wondering if you are going to make it because it seems as though you'll never be released from your prison of pain or your prison of difficult circumstances. Maybe you wonder if you'll have the stamina, the endurance, to go on.     01:32:00Help4men RadionoGracehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/03/entrepreneurship-how-to-communicate-and-sellSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/03/entrepreneurship-how-to-communicate-and-sell/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/03/entrepreneurship-how-to-communicate-and-sellThu, 03 Aug 2017 14:00:00 GMTEntrepreneurship: How to Communicate and SellRemember Who Your Audience is and They’ll Remember You You likely know your community better than anyone, it may just take some time to step back and really look at things from the perspective of a new family. Clean the slate and figure out what you’d do in their position. Do your research on who you’re marketing to and it will save you a lot of headaches and potentially wasted time down the road. 00:56:00Help4men RadionoEntrepreneurshiphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/02/settle-vs-compromise-with-dr-saunyaFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/02/settle-vs-compromise-with-dr-saunya/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/02/settle-vs-compromise-with-dr-saunyaWed, 02 Aug 2017 23:00:00 GMTSettle vs. Compromise with Dr. SaunyaLearning to Compromise But Not Settle: What’s The Difference? The reality is, if a man can make me happy, is respectful, and shares the same values that I have, I at least attempt to look over those superficial qualities that can’t solely make a relationship.  It’s important to know that looks alone won’t make you happy, but a man whose goal in life is to make you happy will. I am not trying convincing you to ditch your infamous list of requirements. Nor am I suggesting that you marry someone who adores you but you can’t stand the presence of him. I am only suggesting that you consider compromising on some of the things that won’t make or break your relationship, keeping in mind that it’s never a good idea to settle, but instead compromise. And trust me, there is a big difference. 01:53:00Help4men RadionoRelationshiphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/01/all-girls-relationships-show-faith-family-fitness-financeRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/01/all-girls-relationships-show-faith-family-fitness-finance/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/08/01/all-girls-relationships-show-faith-family-fitness-financeTue, 01 Aug 2017 23:00:00 GMTAll Girl's Relationships Show: Faith, Family, Fitness & FinanceAll Girl's Relationships Show with insights! Can't wait to hear that one. 02:00:00Help4men RadionoRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/31/why-do-men-do-the-things-they-doFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/31/why-do-men-do-the-things-they-do/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/31/why-do-men-do-the-things-they-doMon, 31 Jul 2017 23:00:00 GMTWhy Do Men Do The Things They Do?We’re going to delve into the male mind and answer the questions women have been asking for ages.  01:51:00Help4men RadionoMenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/29/part-2-reasons-why-black-businesses-failBusinesshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/29/part-2-reasons-why-black-businesses-fail/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/29/part-2-reasons-why-black-businesses-failSat, 29 Jul 2017 23:00:00 GMTPart 2/ Reasons Why Black Businesses Fail?The statistics for Black entrepreneurs starting a new venture are not good. Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not trying to put a damper on your dreams; I just want you to understand what you are up against. I am one of the strongest proponents for Black entrepreneurship and this article is written to give you important information that can help you become successful. Statistics show that over 80% of all new businesses fail within the first five years and the number for Black owned businesses is about 88% according to recent statistics. What does that mean to you? It means that now more than ever, we need to be more prepared if our business is going to succeed. It means that we are going to have to do more planning and strategizing to become one of the 12% that do succeed. Based on my experience as a serial entrepreneur and business coach; 01:31:00Help4men RadionoBlack Businesshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/27/love-covenants-vs-contractsReligionhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/27/love-covenants-vs-contracts/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/27/love-covenants-vs-contractsThu, 27 Jul 2017 14:00:00 GMTLove: Covenants vs ContractsWith a contract, if one agreeing party does something in violation of the contract then it is considered broken. The whole contract becomes null and void. Basically the signers of a contract agree to hold up their ends as long as the other signatories hold up theirs too. With a covenant, both parties agree to hold up their ends regardless of whether the other party keeps their part of the agreement. A violation of a covenant by one party doesn’t matter as far as the other party’s responsibility to continue to do what they agreed to do. 01:01:00Help4men RadionoLovehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/25/relationship-marriage-the-truth-about-zezebelRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/25/relationship-marriage-the-truth-about-zezebel/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/25/relationship-marriage-the-truth-about-zezebelTue, 25 Jul 2017 23:00:00 GMTRelationship & Marriage: The Truth About ZezebelNo one wants to be treated unjustly. We appreciate knowing that if our rights are violated, there are laws to protect us. Hitler came up with the ?whopping lie.? He believed that if you came up with the biggest lie and told it over and over again, people will believe it. Once a person?s reputation or credibility is destroyed, no one cares to know the truth. Propaganda was started by Lucifer to discredit God so that he could gain position and control over what belonged to God. Although the Scriptures never depicted Jezebel as being unfaithful to her god or her husband, through propaganda she has been reduced to a harlot. This is to deter from truth. It wasn?t even about Jezebel; it was about Satan wanting to take God?s place. Since Jezebel, strong, determined women with great leadership ability have been treated unjustly by being called a Jezebel, resulting in them being rejected by many who would otherwise benefit from what they have to offer. Propaganda distracts from the truth. Many of the kings continually led the people into idolatry, yet none of them went down in history as a harlot, which is what God actually called them. 01:35:00Help4men RadionoRelationshiphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/24/what-men-want-in-a-relationshipFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/24/what-men-want-in-a-relationship/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/24/what-men-want-in-a-relationshipMon, 24 Jul 2017 23:00:00 GMTWhat Men Want in a RelationshipHonest communication is top priority for men. They want a woman who answers questions honestly, and perhaps even volunteers information. They want a woman who confidently asks for her wants and needs to be met. They want a woman who can see the truth and tell it like it is while communicating with kindness. Men want a woman who can communicate without being too critical, who cares about preserving his and her dignity. Women think men want them to be superficial, to keep quiet about their needs or wants, and never to ask for anything. Women think men believe them to be too needy and too sensitive, and that men simply want women to get over it. Some women believe they do not have the permission to tell it like it is, that they will be rejected for speaking up. 01:46:00Help4men RadionoMenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/22/relationship-communication-breakdown-the-greatest-hindranceRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/22/relationship-communication-breakdown-the-greatest-hindrance/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/22/relationship-communication-breakdown-the-greatest-hindranceSat, 22 Jul 2017 00:00:00 GMTRelationship Communication Breakdown: The Greatest HindranceHaving a relationship communication breakdown is always troubling. It happens on teams, with friends and within families. I’ll share the greatest hindrance to fixing all communication breakdowns, along with three focus and mindset tips about what to do about it when it happens. The Greatest Hindrance... What made this relationship communication breakdown, and my visit feel like home ‘sickness,’ was realizing how entrenched they were in their own arguments against the other.  The more they argued for their position, the more stuck they became and the less likely any change or new view could come into play.  They were playing the 'blame game.' This 'blame game' dynamic is the same thing that can make working with teams and leaders challenging, and it is the greatest hindrance to resolving relationship strain and stress. Often when teams and leaders have a relationship communication breakdown they get stuck in how ‘right’ they are. Righteously ‘beating the drum’ of the problem, all the while hindering their ability to hear, find and create new and lasting solutions. It’s natural for people to see what they don’t want and to talk about it. Unfortunately, the more you talk about what you don’t want, the more you see it.  And, the more you see what you don’t want to see, the more aggravated and frustrated you get. The greatest hindrance to happy anything (relationships,  teams,good work, winning contracts, anything...) STARTS  with blame and ENDS in an individual feeling as though they're a victim, that they're stuck and that they have no  power to change the way things currently are.   01:50:00Help4men RadionoRelationshiphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/20/manhood-101Familyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/20/manhood-101/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/20/manhood-101Thu, 20 Jul 2017 14:00:00 GMTManhood 101Open conversation 01:08:00Help4men RadionoGenderhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/18/relationships-conversation-startersRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/18/relationships-conversation-starters/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/18/relationships-conversation-startersTue, 18 Jul 2017 23:00:00 GMTRelationships: Conversation StartersConversation starters for couples list What is something that you are dreading? Tell me about a time you almost died. What’s the biggest betrayal you have ever experienced? What’s most embarrassing thing that has happened to you while having sex? What are you battling that you don’t tell anyone about? What are you into, but haven’t told me about? What’s better than great sex? What small seemingly insignificant thing did your parents or someone else say when you were a child that has stuck with you all this time? What is the best or worst thing you inherited from your parents? What was the hardest lesson you’ve had to learn? What’s the most disheartening and heartening realization you have come to? What is something you wish you could say to people but can’t? What have you struggled with your entire life? What would be the coolest hobby to have? If you received a salary to follow whatever passion you wanted to, what would you do? What was the most productive time in your life? How about the least productive? What made you realize that your parents were just human like everyone else? What questions should partners ask each other before getting married? What toy played the biggest part in your childhood? What were the three most important turning points in your life? What’s the worst thing that people are proud of? What job do you think you were born to do? What are you most sentimental about? What has taken up too much of your life? 01:58:00Help4men RadionoRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/17/how-to-crack-the-code-of-mens-feelingsFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/17/how-to-crack-the-code-of-mens-feelings/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/17/how-to-crack-the-code-of-mens-feelingsMon, 17 Jul 2017 23:00:00 GMTHow to Crack the Code of Men’s FeelingsThe myth that men are unfeeling creates damaging relationship problems.  "We've dismissed men as the feelingless gender—we've given up on them. Because of the way boys are socialized, their ability to deal with emotions has been systematically undermined. Men are taught, point-by-point, not to feel, not to cry, and not to find words to express themselves." Just because men aren't adept at expressing their feelings, don't for a minute think they don't feel, and feel deeply. Many times, men express their feelings using a secret code—a code that even they can't decipher.   01:57:00Help4men RadionoFeelingshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/15/reasons-why-black-businesses-failEntrepreneurhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/15/reasons-why-black-businesses-fail/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/15/reasons-why-black-businesses-failSat, 15 Jul 2017 23:00:00 GMTReasons Why Black Businesses Fail?The statistics for Black entrepreneurs starting a new venture are not good. Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not trying to put a damper on your dreams; I just want you to understand what you are up against. I am one of the strongest proponents for Black entrepreneurship and this article is written to give you important information that can help you become successful. Statistics show that over 80% of all new businesses fail within the first five years and the number for Black owned businesses is about 88% according to recent statistics. What does that mean to you? It means that now more than ever, we need to be more prepared if our business is going to succeed. It means that we are going to have to do more planning and strategizing to become one of the 12% that do succeed. Based on my experience as a serial entrepreneur and business coach; 01:54:00Help4men RadionoBlack Businesshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/15/can-a-relationshipmarriage-survive-without-intimacyRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/15/can-a-relationshipmarriage-survive-without-intimacy/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/15/can-a-relationshipmarriage-survive-without-intimacySat, 15 Jul 2017 00:00:00 GMTCan a Relationship/Marriage Survive Without Intimacy?A relationship needs intimacy. Regardless of whether it's a physical intimacy or an emotional intimacy, your relationship will slowly wither and die without it. This is where it gets tricky. Because your relationship actually needs both types of intimacy. You cannot create a physical intimacy without the emotional intimacy, nor can you have complete emotional intimacy without the physical aspect as well. This is where many couples find their relationship in trouble. It's very common for one type of intimacy to be more important to one partner than the other, then they both find themselves going along thinking everything is fine until their partner finally speaks up and lets them know that the intimacy levels are not what they should be. Or, even more tragic, is when neither partner says anything and they find themselves ending the relationship without really knowing why. 02:00:00Help4men RadionoIntimacyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/13/the-definition-of-success-pt2Lifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/13/the-definition-of-success-pt2/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/13/the-definition-of-success-pt2Thu, 13 Jul 2017 14:00:00 GMTThe Definition of Success PT2For me, it's "Success is spending the majority of my time focused on work or tasks that are fulfilling, leveraging my Zone of Genius, maximizing my potential and helping other people in a meaningful way while providing the freedom, lifestyle and experiences that I desire" 01:04:00Help4men RadionoSuccesshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/12/vacation-between-relationships-with-dr-saunyaFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/12/vacation-between-relationships-with-dr-saunya/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/12/vacation-between-relationships-with-dr-saunyaWed, 12 Jul 2017 23:00:00 GMTVacation Between Relationships with Dr. SaunyaThe “romantic getaway” is billed in popular culture and advertising as a staple of any successful relationship. But can taking trips with your significant other actually improve the quality of your partnership? After all, traveling can be pretty stressful—and it only gets worse when there’s more than one person involved. 01:58:00Help4men RadionoRelationshiphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/10/what-it-means-to-be-a-black-man-living-todayFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/10/what-it-means-to-be-a-black-man-living-today/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/10/what-it-means-to-be-a-black-man-living-todayMon, 10 Jul 2017 23:00:00 GMTWhat It Means To Be A Black Man Living TodayOur lives are not promised, especially being black. The brutal racist culture in police departments still stand, seemingly able to kill black men with impunity. And until that system is replaced with something that resembles right and wrong, I will keep conditioning myself to go at any time and I will keep having the talk with young black boys. Being a black man in America is to know a couple of things: America does not and has not ever cared about us in any shape or form unless we are dribbling a ball or singing a song. We are feared and you are despised. Everyday I am reminded of this. From the glances of disgust, the clutching of purses and being followed throughout department stores, I never forget who I am. Besides, they would never let me.  The great Malcolm X once said, “I live like a man who is dead already. I have no fear whatsoever of anybody or anything.” That still rings true today—it’s how I think. 01:41:00Help4men RadionoBlack Menhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/06/the-definition-of-successBusinesshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/06/the-definition-of-success/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/07/06/the-definition-of-successThu, 06 Jul 2017 14:00:00 GMTThe Definition of SuccessDo you feel as though you accomplished what you wanted? Where did you fall short? And perhaps most importantly, how can you make 2015 even more successful? Some of those answers, of course, depend on how you define success. Like many, I grew up equating money and power with success, and for a time, that framed my definition. But as I've matured, that has changed. You see, success is a very personal thing. What drives one entrepreneur may be radically different for another. And understanding how others measure success can help you better understand your own definition. For me, it's "Success is spending the majority of my time focused on work or tasks that are fulfilling, leveraging my Zone of Genius, maximizing my potential and helping other people in a meaningful way while providing the freedom, lifestyle and experiences that I desire" 01:00:00Help4men RadionoSuccesshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/29/surviving-the-titanic-of-americaPoliticshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/29/surviving-the-titanic-of-america/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/29/surviving-the-titanic-of-americaThu, 29 Jun 2017 14:00:00 GMTSurviving the Titanic of AmericaMind blowing conversation!  01:15:00Help4men RadionoPoliticshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/27/relationships-fitness-and-loveRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/27/relationships-fitness-and-love/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/27/relationships-fitness-and-loveTue, 27 Jun 2017 23:00:00 GMTRelationships: Fitness and LoveEvery day, across the country, individuals are hitting health clubs, unrolling yoga mats, pounding the pavement, and signing on to new fitness challenges. Maybe they shouldn't be doing it alone. It’s time you considered how physical fitness can benefit not only your own health and well-being, but that your romantic relationship. Why not grab your partner’s hand and invite him or her to be your workout partner as well? A growing body of evidence suggests that couples who sweat together really do stay together. In fact, working out together can…: 01:57:00Help4men RadionoLovehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/26/the-worth-of-black-menFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/26/the-worth-of-black-men/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/26/the-worth-of-black-menMon, 26 Jun 2017 23:00:00 GMTThe Worth of Black MenThe last few years have seen scores of memorials, re-enactments, monuments and editorials coinciding with the sesquicentennial of various events of the Civil War. But it is these deaths — the killings in Ferguson and Beavercreek and beyond — that commemorate the unfinished, perhaps unending, struggle to assert black humanity in a country built on its denial. 01:47:00Help4men RadionoMenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/22/the-conflict-between-jesus-churchReligionhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/22/the-conflict-between-jesus-church/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/22/the-conflict-between-jesus-churchThu, 22 Jun 2017 14:00:00 GMTThe Conflict Between Jesus & ChurchWhat was the conflict between Jesus and Pharisees? Under the direct governance of the Romans, the Jews of the First Century were economically exploited, experienced many religious impositions, and were subjected to Pagan views and practices. The political reality of the day was of an unfriendly dominant power overseeing life on a day-to-day basis. The Hebrew people of this era generally fell into one of three camps in their views of how to cope with this sometimes oppressive oversight: one group wanted to appease the Romans, one group wanted to fight them, and one group just wanted to keep their heads down and go unnoticed. 01:03:00Help4men RadionoChurchhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/20/questions-you-wanted-to-ask-a-guy-but-to-afraid-to-ask-pt2Romancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/20/questions-you-wanted-to-ask-a-guy-but-to-afraid-to-ask-pt2/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/20/questions-you-wanted-to-ask-a-guy-but-to-afraid-to-ask-pt2Tue, 20 Jun 2017 23:00:00 GMTQuestions You Wanted To Ask A Guy But To Afraid To Ask Pt2If you were offered the chance to read minds, would you take it? Despite the consequences, I would. Girls in general are curious creatures, and guys are the biggest mystery. Even if you ask them these questions, they’ll probably shrug it off or give the general, “I don’t know” or “You wouldn’t understand.” Guys and girls will never fully understand each other, and maybe it’s just inappropriate to actually ask, but here are some questions I, and probably many other girls, would love to get some true answers to…so I got them. From the perspective of real guys, here’s a sneak peek into a male brain. 02:00:00Help4men RadionoRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/19/why-are-good-men-so-unappreciated-nowadaysFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/19/why-are-good-men-so-unappreciated-nowadays/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/19/why-are-good-men-so-unappreciated-nowadaysMon, 19 Jun 2017 23:00:00 GMTWhy Are Good Men So Unappreciated Nowadays?When you're in a relationship, you shouldn't act like a "challenge," but that doesn't mean you have to be boring, either. A lot of guys make this mistake and settle into laziness. It doesn't take much effort to keep things interesting and exciting. Your time together WILL be short if you don't do this, because she will discover that you are just like a lot of guys: Exciting when you're pursuing her, but boring underneath. 01:52:00Help4men RadionoMenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/15/giving-out-but-not-giving-upFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/15/giving-out-but-not-giving-up/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/15/giving-out-but-not-giving-upThu, 15 Jun 2017 14:00:00 GMTGiving Out But Not Giving UpStay true to yourself, yet always be open to learn. Work hard, and never give up on your dreams, even when nobody else believes they can come true but you. These are not cliches but real tools you need no matter what you do in life to stay focused on your path.   01:33:00Help4men RadionoGiving Uphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/14/why-hurt-people-hurt-people-with-dr-saunyaFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/14/why-hurt-people-hurt-people-with-dr-saunya/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/14/why-hurt-people-hurt-people-with-dr-saunyaWed, 14 Jun 2017 23:00:00 GMTWhy Hurt People Hurt People with Dr SaunyaWHY HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE It is an old adage that “hurt people hurt people.” It is well known that those who have been emotionally damaged tend to inflict their hurt and pain on other people. For example, a large percentage of those who have been sexually abused become the abusers of others; those who suffered under an alcoholic parent often themselves cause their future family to suffer because of their drunken stupors.   Until we as a church deal with the whole person as shown in 1 Thessalonians 5:23 our congregations will be filled with people who are spiritually gifted but act like emotional infants. As in other words, the church must deal with emotional health and not just spiritual health and power. 01:55:00Help4men RadionoHurthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/13/questions-you-wanted-to-ask-a-guy-but-to-afraid-to-askRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/13/questions-you-wanted-to-ask-a-guy-but-to-afraid-to-ask/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/13/questions-you-wanted-to-ask-a-guy-but-to-afraid-to-askTue, 13 Jun 2017 23:00:00 GMTQuestions You Wanted To Ask A Guy But To Afraid To AskIf you were offered the chance to read minds, would you take it? Despite the consequences, I would. Girls in general are curious creatures, and guys are the biggest mystery. Even if you ask them these questions, they’ll probably shrug it off or give the general, “I don’t know” or “You wouldn’t understand.” Guys and girls will never fully understand each other, and maybe it’s just inappropriate to actually ask, but here are some questions I, and probably many other girls, would love to get some true answers to…so I got them. From the perspective of real guys, here’s a sneak peek into a male brain. 02:00:00Help4men RadionoLadieshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/12/do-women-really-know-what-men-wantFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/12/do-women-really-know-what-men-want/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/12/do-women-really-know-what-men-wantMon, 12 Jun 2017 23:00:00 GMTDo Women Really Know What Men Want?If you’ve been giving a man all he wants... or all you have... and he still does not realize that you are the one for him, then the message below will change your life. Too many women are kindhearted & sweet to a man they want to be with, and are shocked to find that he disappears without a trace. 01:58:00Help4men RadionoMenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/12/what-happened-to-church-involvement-within-the-black-communitiesReligionhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/12/what-happened-to-church-involvement-within-the-black-communities/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/12/what-happened-to-church-involvement-within-the-black-communitiesMon, 12 Jun 2017 00:00:00 GMTWhat Happened To Church Involvement Within The Black Communities?Historically the black church has been a place for creating individual, systemic, and political change within the black community. From its emergence in the late 18th century to its present day relevance, the black church has and will always serve as a safe haven for African Americans, a place to worship God together, and a place where we are motivated to rebuild our communities. You can guarantee that on Sunday between the hours of 7 a.m. (early morning service) to 4 p.m. (afternoon service) there will be a large population of blacks attending church. 01:56:00Help4men RadionoRelegionhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/10/civil-dysfunction-between-women-of-colorCulturehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/10/civil-dysfunction-between-women-of-color/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/10/civil-dysfunction-between-women-of-colorSat, 10 Jun 2017 00:00:00 GMTCivil Dysfunction Between Women .Of. Color.The war within Women of Color 02:01:00Help4men RadionoRacehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/07/the-decline-of-loving-black-families-morals-and-values-out-the-doorFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/07/the-decline-of-loving-black-families-morals-and-values-out-the-door/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/07/the-decline-of-loving-black-families-morals-and-values-out-the-doorWed, 07 Jun 2017 23:00:00 GMTThe Decline Of Loving Black Families. Morals And Values Out The DoorFewer than half (46%) of U.S. kids younger than 18 years of age are living in a home with two married heterosexual parents in their first marriage. This is a marked change from 1960, when 73% of children fit this description, and 1980, when 61% did.     01:58:00Help4men RadionoFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/06/help-im-in-love-with-a-narcissistRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/06/help-im-in-love-with-a-narcissist/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/06/help-im-in-love-with-a-narcissistTue, 06 Jun 2017 23:00:00 GMTHelp! I'm in Love with a NarcissistA narcissist acknowledges your existence when youserve a purpose. A person who is not separate fromyou can not love you because they can not see and know you. It's as if you are one being — the narcissist.You, as a separate, distinct individual can not be appreciated. 01:51:00Help4men RadionoRelationshiphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/05/why-men-do-the-things-they-doFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/05/why-men-do-the-things-they-do/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/05/why-men-do-the-things-they-doMon, 05 Jun 2017 23:00:00 GMTWhy Men Do The Things They Do...Ladies, have you ever wondered why men do some of the things they do?  You know like why some men open the door while others choose not to?  Why some men love the ground their women walk on while others choose not to?  Have you ever wondered why some men hit, curse, repeatedly cheat on, and disrespect their women while others choose not to?  And lastly, have you ever wondered why the men you meet attempt to treat you like all the other women they’ve met opposed to treating you like the woman you are???  Well if you haven’t ever wondered any of these things, many of your bestie’s have...  And the truth is,  many of them have realized it’s because these men have had some experiences with WOMEN... 01:37:00Help4men RadionoMenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/03/the-main-reasons-women-are-dissatisfied-with-their-sex-livesRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/03/the-main-reasons-women-are-dissatisfied-with-their-sex-lives/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/03/the-main-reasons-women-are-dissatisfied-with-their-sex-livesSat, 03 Jun 2017 00:00:00 GMTThe MAIN Reasons Women Are Dissatisfied With Their Sex Lives62 percent of women admitted to not being satisfied with their sex lives.  Sexual satisfaction, despite what some may think, is part of overall health. The benifits go way beyond the sex life. Sex can boost your immunity and mood and decrease your stress level. Reaching an orgasm increases the benefits of sex even more, thanks to the release of the oxytocin and endorphins it triggers. These feel-good hormones contribute to relaxation, warmth and closeness, as well as helping fight pain and depression.  With all of these great health benefits, it's great to hear that 41 percent of women claim to always have an orgasm during sexual activities. But it turns out they themselves are mostly responsible for their sexual satisfaction and reaching climax, not their partners.  Here is how it breaks down:  62 percent of women always orgasm during masturbation34 percent of women always orgasm during oral sex27 percent of women always orgasm during intercourse where the penis enters the vagina26 percent of women always orgasm during genital touching So, what's the issue? Sexual satisfaction isn't just about having an orgasm, it's about the closeness and connection it brings with your partner. And, according to the survey, 60 percent of women want more intercourse.  "The good news is women are having sex and want more!". "It's important that women listen to their bodies and talk to their health care providers to find solutions for the underlying issues that can impact their sex life."  01:34:00Help4men RadionoSexhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/01/social-engineering-pt2-with-jay-and-daniellePoliticshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/01/social-engineering-pt2-with-jay-and-danielle/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/06/01/social-engineering-pt2-with-jay-and-danielleThu, 01 Jun 2017 14:00:00 GMTSocial engineering Pt#2 with Jay and DanielleUnderstanding the persistent nature of gender inequality requires an examination of men and women, masculinity and femininity. Too often, when we talk of gender, we talk of women; when we think of race, we think of people of color. The dominant groups—those who hold most power in society, such as men and white people—often go unexamined and unanalyzed.  01:33:00Help4men RadionoSocialhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/31/when-the-counselor-needs-counseling-with-dr-saunyaFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/31/when-the-counselor-needs-counseling-with-dr-saunya/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/31/when-the-counselor-needs-counseling-with-dr-saunyaWed, 31 May 2017 23:00:00 GMTWhen The Counselor Needs Counseling with Dr. SaunyaAlthough most counselors are familiar with self-care — even preaching the concept religiously to clients — many find it a challenge to put the concept into practice in their own lives. Wellness experts say as life gets busy, counselors may tend to assume that they can, or even should, handle problems and stress on their own. But, these experts caution, counselors who ignore their own needs will find their outlook on the profession going quickly downhill. 02:00:00Help4men RadionoCounselinghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/30/what-women-been-though-the-secrets-they-hold-with-martin-jongueRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/30/what-women-been-though-the-secrets-they-hold-with-martin-jongue/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/30/what-women-been-though-the-secrets-they-hold-with-martin-jongueTue, 30 May 2017 23:00:00 GMTWhat Women Been Though & The Secrets They Hold with Martin Jongu'e'A woman may give you her body and her heart, but there are parts that she’ll never give up. Pieces woven into the very fiber of her being. Mysteries only hinted at in a passing sly smile, an inscrutable laugh.  01:50:00Help4men RadionoSecretshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/27/whatta-man-whatta-man-whatta-man-whatta-mighty-good-manRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/27/whatta-man-whatta-man-whatta-man-whatta-mighty-good-man/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/27/whatta-man-whatta-man-whatta-man-whatta-mighty-good-manSat, 27 May 2017 00:00:00 GMT"Whatta Man, Whatta Man, Whatta Man, Whatta Mighty Good Man "This should be interesting!  02:00:00Help4men RadionoManhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/25/social-engineering-assault-on-masculinity-with-zion-roseboroFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/25/social-engineering-assault-on-masculinity-with-zion-roseboro/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/25/social-engineering-assault-on-masculinity-with-zion-roseboroThu, 25 May 2017 14:00:00 GMTSocial Engineering: Assault On Masculinity with Zion RoseboroUnderstanding the persistent nature of gender inequality requires an examination of men and women, masculinity and femininity. Too often, when we talk of gender, we talk of women; when we think of race, we think of people of color. The dominant groups—those who hold most power in society, such as men and white people—often go unexamined and unanalyzed.  01:23:00Help4men RadionoMenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/24/yes-to-i-do-with-dr-saunyaFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/24/yes-to-i-do-with-dr-saunya/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/24/yes-to-i-do-with-dr-saunyaWed, 24 May 2017 23:00:00 GMT"Yes" To "I Do" with Dr. SaunyaDr. Saunya brings a converstaion worth listening. 01:58:00Help4men RadionoMariagehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/23/for-better-or-worse-are-you-really-readyRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/23/for-better-or-worse-are-you-really-ready/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/23/for-better-or-worse-are-you-really-readyTue, 23 May 2017 23:00:00 GMTFor Better or Worse. Are you really ready?A wedding is a chance to be a celebrity for the day, to bask in the glow of adoring onlookers, not to mention an opportunity to host an enormous party. Long after the flowers have wilted and your dress is covered in dust, though, you’ll have to live with the realities of married life. Though marriage can enrich your life, it can also be a source of immense pain if you marry the wrong person or aren’t ready for a commitment   Why do I want to get married? A marriage is forever. It’s not a big party followed by “trying” to stay together. If you’re not certain you can stick with this person for better or for worse, no matter what, then you’re not ready to get married. Marriage is inherently challenging, and if your response to every conflict is to walk away, or if you believe some behaviors should result in an automatic divorce, then marriage isn’t for you. You will face challenges in your marriage, and if you can’t rise above them, you’ll be little more than another divorce statistic. 01:38:00Help4men RadionoMarriagehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/22/is-social-media-going-too-far-the-good-and-bad-of-itFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/22/is-social-media-going-too-far-the-good-and-bad-of-it/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/22/is-social-media-going-too-far-the-good-and-bad-of-itMon, 22 May 2017 23:00:00 GMTIs Social Media Going Too Far? The Good And Bad Of ItWe are the generation of young adults that grew up in the age of rising social media. While we spent our weekends and after-school evenings playing outside with our friends, but we also grew up using Myspace, AIM, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat, and Tumblr. We rode our bikes and played with Barbies and Legos, but we've also mastered the art of the perfect hashtag and selfie angle. 01:59:00Help4men RadionoIs Social Media Going Too Farhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/22/abiding-in-hope-with-pastor-caron-jonesReligionhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/22/abiding-in-hope-with-pastor-caron-jones/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/22/abiding-in-hope-with-pastor-caron-jonesMon, 22 May 2017 00:00:00 GMTAbiding In Hope with Pastor Caron JonesThere are the times in our lives when hope is hard to find, when we often have more questions than answers, and when fear and worry clamor to be our constant companions. 01:30:00Help4men RadionoHopehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/18/black-labor-white-wealth-with-zion-roseboroPoliticshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/18/black-labor-white-wealth-with-zion-roseboro/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/18/black-labor-white-wealth-with-zion-roseboroThu, 18 May 2017 14:00:00 GMTBlack Labor White Wealth with Zion RoseboroAn empowering topic! 01:43:00Help4men RadionoWealthhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/17/how-do-you-score-sex-with-dr-saunyaFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/17/how-do-you-score-sex-with-dr-saunya/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/17/how-do-you-score-sex-with-dr-saunyaWed, 17 May 2017 23:00:00 GMTHow Do You Score Sex with Dr. SaunyaA measure that evaluates components of sexual activity e.g., erection, orgasm, enjoyment, interactions with partner,spontaneity, satisfactory duration, intercourse, ejaculation, masturbation 02:00:00Help4men RadionoSexhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/16/sacred-love-taking-our-marriages-back-with-angel-bRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/16/sacred-love-taking-our-marriages-back-with-angel-b/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/16/sacred-love-taking-our-marriages-back-with-angel-bTue, 16 May 2017 23:00:00 GMTSacred Love: Taking Our Marriages Back with Angel BYour marriage is more than a sacred covenant with another person. It is a spiritual discipline designed to help you know God better, trust him more fully, and love him more deeply.  What if God’s primary intent for your marriage isn’t to make you happy . . . but holy? Sacred Marriage doesn't just offer techniques to make a marriage happier. It does contain practical tools, but what married Christians most need is help in becoming holier husbands and wives. Sacred Marriage offers that help with insights from Scripture, church history, time tested wisdom from Christian classics, and examples from today's marriages. 01:54:00Help4men RadionoLovehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/15/men-on-trial-with-david-williamsFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/15/men-on-trial-with-david-williams/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/15/men-on-trial-with-david-williamsMon, 15 May 2017 23:00:00 GMTMen on Trial with David WilliamsAn open conversation with men. 01:56:00Help4men RadionoMenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/13/inside-the-hearts-and-minds-of-todays-young-womenFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/13/inside-the-hearts-and-minds-of-todays-young-women/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/13/inside-the-hearts-and-minds-of-todays-young-womenSat, 13 May 2017 00:00:00 GMTInside The Hearts And Minds Of Today's Young WomenThe idea that feminism is dead is gaining ground all across the west. One would like to think it is because of the trail blazing of the man-o-sphere, and to a great degree it is. But truly, the root of feminism’s death was in Man, capital M, from the very beginning. One look at Conan is all a man needs to know this truth. Feminism is dead. The movement is absolutely dead. The women’s movement tried to suppress dissident voices for way too long. There’s no room for dissent. It’s just like Mean Girls. If they had listened to me they could have gotten the ship steered in the right direction. My wing of feminism—the pro-sex wing—was silenced. I was practically lynched for endorsing The Rolling Stones. Susan Faludi is still saying I’m not a feminist. Who made her pope? Feminist ideology is like a new religion for a lot of neurotic women. You can’t talk to them about anything. 02:00:00Help4men RadionoWomenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/11/having-a-plan-under-the-trump-klanFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/11/having-a-plan-under-the-trump-klan/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/11/having-a-plan-under-the-trump-klanThu, 11 May 2017 23:00:00 GMTHaving A Plan Under The Trump KlanThis is the immediate family, the man’s own father, not some distant ancestor from another century, a father with the power to shape the boy’s most profound assumptions about the world. Moreover, Donald Trump has often expressed his admiration for his father. Thoughtful adults can hear the echoes of one hundred years ago in the president’s encouragement of violence at campaign rallies, his prejudices against minorities, and his use of violent language. 02:00:00Help4men RadionoPoliticshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/10/part-2-shack-up-or-shed-down-with-dr-saunyaFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/10/part-2-shack-up-or-shed-down-with-dr-saunya/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/10/part-2-shack-up-or-shed-down-with-dr-saunyaWed, 10 May 2017 23:00:00 GMTPart 2 Shack Up or Shed Down With Dr. SaunyaA conversation to make you THINK! 02:00:00Help4men RadionoShack ing Uphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/09/sacred-love-taking-our-marriages-back-with-angel-bRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/09/sacred-love-taking-our-marriages-back-with-angel-b/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/09/sacred-love-taking-our-marriages-back-with-angel-bTue, 09 May 2017 23:00:00 GMTSacred Love: Taking Our Marriages Back with Angel BYour marriage is more than a sacred covenant with another person. It is a spiritual discipline designed to help you know God better, trust him more fully, and love him more deeply.  What if God’s primary intent for your marriage isn’t to make you happy . . . but holy? Sacred Marriage doesn't just offer techniques to make a marriage happier. It does contain practical tools, but what married Christians most need is help in becoming holier husbands and wives. Sacred Marriage offers that help with insights from Scripture, church history, time tested wisdom from Christian classics, and examples from today's marriages. Sacred Marriage reveals how marriage trains us to love God and others well, how it exposes sin and makes us more aware of God's presence, how good marriages foster good prayer, how married sex feeds the spiritual life, and more. The revised edition of Sacred Marriage takes into account the ways men's and women's roles have expanded since the book was first written. It has been streamlined to be a faster read without losing the depth that so many readers have valued. Sacred Marriage uncovers the mystery of God’s overarching purpose. This book may very well alter profoundly the contours of your marriage. It will most certainly change you. Because whether it is delightful or difficult, your marriage can become a doorway to a closer walk with God, and to a spiritual integrity that, like salt, seasons the world around you with the savor of Christ. 01:14:00Help4men RadionoSacred Lovehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/08/part-2-of-are-we-really-satisfying-our-matesFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/08/part-2-of-are-we-really-satisfying-our-mates/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/08/part-2-of-are-we-really-satisfying-our-matesMon, 08 May 2017 23:00:00 GMTPart 2 of Are We Really Satisfying Our MatesAn open conversation! 02:00:00Help4men RadionoRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/06/stepping-out-of-your-comfort-zoneRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/06/stepping-out-of-your-comfort-zone/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/06/stepping-out-of-your-comfort-zoneSat, 06 May 2017 00:00:00 GMT"Stepping Out Of Your Comfort Zone"Many of us think of the "comfort zone" as a relic of '80s motivational psychology and a tag line on cheesy corporate "reach for success" posters.The ability to take risks by stepping outside your comfort zone is the primary way by which we grow. But we are often afraid to take that first step. In truth, comfort zones are not really about comfort, they are about fear. Break the chains of fear to get outside. Once you do, you will learn to enjoy the process of taking risks and growing in the process.  02:01:00Help4men RadionoComfort Zonehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/04/changing-lives-by-changing-mindsFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/04/changing-lives-by-changing-minds/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/04/changing-lives-by-changing-mindsThu, 04 May 2017 23:00:00 GMTChanging Lives By Changing MindsChanging minds, changing lives It’s not enough to improve lives within our own services.  We need to make the wider public aware of the issues disabled people face, so we can create a society with fairer laws, equal opportunities and happier communities. 02:00:00Help4men RadionoChanging Lives By Changing Mindshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/03/shack-up-or-shed-down-with-dr-saunyaFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/03/shack-up-or-shed-down-with-dr-saunya/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/03/shack-up-or-shed-down-with-dr-saunyaWed, 03 May 2017 23:00:00 GMTShack Up or Shed Down With Dr. SaunyaA conversation to make you THINK! 01:59:00Help4men RadionoShacking Uphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/02/lets-talk-about-sex-baby-the-truth-soul-ties-consequencesRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/02/lets-talk-about-sex-baby-the-truth-soul-ties-consequences/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/02/lets-talk-about-sex-baby-the-truth-soul-ties-consequencesTue, 02 May 2017 23:00:00 GMTLet's Talk About Sex Baby: The Truth, Soul Ties & ConsequencesSoul ties can also be found in strong or close friendships. They are not just limited to marriage.    Soul ties can also be used for Satan’s advantage because soul ties formed from sex outside of marriage defiles those involved 02:00:00Help4men RadionoSexhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/01/are-we-really-satisfying-our-matesFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/01/are-we-really-satisfying-our-mates/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/01/are-we-really-satisfying-our-matesMon, 01 May 2017 23:00:00 GMTAre We Really Satisfying Our MatesAn open conversation! 02:01:00Help4men RadionoJoyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/01/how-to-turn-your-pain-in-joyChristianityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/01/how-to-turn-your-pain-in-joy/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/05/01/how-to-turn-your-pain-in-joyMon, 01 May 2017 00:00:00 GMTHow To Turn Your Pain In JoyYou can turn your pain and hurt into joy by focusing on God’s unfailing love for you. He has rescued you with His salvation through Jesus Christ. God’s love for you is unfailing. It has not failed because of anything you have done in the past. It will not fail because of anything you do in the future. 01:37:00Help4men RadionoEmotionshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/27/lifes-transitions-with-zion-roseboroPoliticshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/27/lifes-transitions-with-zion-roseboro/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/27/lifes-transitions-with-zion-roseboroThu, 27 Apr 2017 23:00:00 GMTLife's Transitions With Zion RoseboroOne transition we eagerly await is winter turning into spring. It brings abundant sunshine, trees blossoming, warm breezes and a relief from snow. Many of life’s transitions are more difficult for people, especially transitions from childhood into puberty; marriage into divorce or widowhood; high school into college times, etc. These important changes in life have a major impact on us and are tricky to navigate. We can’t avoid them. One thing we know: Change will occur whether we are ready or not. As Heraclitus said: “No man ever steps into the same river twice.” 02:01:00Help4men RadionoLife's transitionshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/26/when-to-say-i-donot-with-dr-saunyaFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/26/when-to-say-i-donot-with-dr-saunya/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/26/when-to-say-i-donot-with-dr-saunyaWed, 26 Apr 2017 23:00:00 GMTWhen To Say I Do.....NOT with Dr SaunyaA conversation that many should listen tooooooo! Mindblowing! 01:58:00Help4men RadionoMarriagehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/25/relationship-blunders-with-angel-bRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/25/relationship-blunders-with-angel-b/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/25/relationship-blunders-with-angel-bTue, 25 Apr 2017 23:00:00 GMTRelationship Blunders with Angel BOften times, there are relationship blunders women commit that affect them or their relationships. Relationship blunders can be verbal as well as non verbal. It all depends on the effect it has on your relationship. It may be knowingly or unknowingly but whichever the case, it’s ideal to state what they are to avoid future wreckage of relationships. The relationship blunders women commit are: Talking anyhow: Some women do not know how to filter words before they utter them which has led to break ups in some relationships. They talk anyhow without knowing the effect it has had on the person they are talking to. In life everything should be done moderately and that includes speaking. If you feel you are in a relationship and can say anything you like the way you want it then you need to be cautious. Your partner is human and can also get offended. Making assumptions: This is one of the relationship blunders women commit that leaves them regretting their actions. How can you assume that he is going to marry you when he hasn’t even popped the question or talked about it? How can you assume that you are already part of his life just because his family members and friends like you?   01:58:00Help4men RadionoRelationship Blundershttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/24/part-2-healing-from-past-hurt-from-childhood-to-adulthoodFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/24/part-2-healing-from-past-hurt-from-childhood-to-adulthood/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/24/part-2-healing-from-past-hurt-from-childhood-to-adulthoodMon, 24 Apr 2017 23:00:00 GMTPart 2 "Healing From Past Hurt From Childhood To Adulthood"A deep rooted discussion! 02:02:00Help4men RadionoAdulthoodhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/24/overcoming-the-battles-of-the-mindReligionhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/24/overcoming-the-battles-of-the-mind/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/24/overcoming-the-battles-of-the-mindMon, 24 Apr 2017 00:00:00 GMTOvercoming The Battles Of The MindI have seen the face of mental illness. I have seen what it is like when people are unable to hear God because their minds are broken and cannot seem to connect to God even when they want to connect to God. And I know whatever gets your mind gets you. So one of the most important things we need to learn and teach others is how to guard, strengthen, and renew our minds, because the battle for sin always starts in the mind. There are many passages in Scripture that we could look at in this chapter, but I want us to focus in on one, 2 Corinthians 10:3–5: Though we walk in the flesh, we are not waging war according to the flesh [in other words, we don’t fight with armor, we don’t fight with politics, we don’t fight with money, we don’t fight with all the humanistic ways]. For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh but have divine power to destroy strongholds. We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ. 01:34:00Help4men RadionoFaithhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/20/the-streets-cant-have-my-sonFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/20/the-streets-cant-have-my-son/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/20/the-streets-cant-have-my-sonThu, 20 Apr 2017 23:00:00 GMTThe Streets Can't Have My Son Many of our black sons are negatively overrepresented in special education and youth correctional facilities and will more than likely leave school with little--if any-- marketable skills for todays workforce. As a result, they are likely to experience many years of struggle and frustration leading eventually to their incarceration or annihilation. The purpose of this book is to equip parents, educators, juvenile justice case managers, and the faith-based community with the skills they need to assist black boys in succeeding and graduating from public schools, escaping the trappings of the juvenile justice system, and the unfair targeting of law enforcement.  02:01:00Help4men RadionoLifehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/19/finding-your-spouse-using-a-mouse-with-dr-saunyaFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/19/finding-your-spouse-using-a-mouse-with-dr-saunya/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/19/finding-your-spouse-using-a-mouse-with-dr-saunyaWed, 19 Apr 2017 23:00:00 GMTFinding Your Spouse Using A Mouse with Dr. SaunyaKnowing that the Internet is a somewhat atypical means of meeting someone, what advice, suggestions or encouraging words would you have for the men and women who participate in a service 02:00:00Help4men RadionoMatehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/18/part-2-of-things-couples-dont-discuss-until-its-too-lateRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/18/part-2-of-things-couples-dont-discuss-until-its-too-late/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/18/part-2-of-things-couples-dont-discuss-until-its-too-lateTue, 18 Apr 2017 23:00:00 GMTPart 2 of Things Couples Don't Discuss Until It's Too Late*Finances and money investments *Sex life *Spirituality *Career goals and aspirations *In-laws issues and influence of other people 01:57:00Help4men RadionoCommunicationhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/17/healing-from-past-hurt-from-childhood-to-adulthoodFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/17/healing-from-past-hurt-from-childhood-to-adulthood/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/17/healing-from-past-hurt-from-childhood-to-adulthoodMon, 17 Apr 2017 23:00:00 GMTHealing From Past Hurt From Childhood To AdulthoodA deep rooted discussion! 02:01:00Help4men RadionoParentinghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/13/staffing-the-rejectedPoliticshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/13/staffing-the-rejected/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/13/staffing-the-rejectedThu, 13 Apr 2017 23:00:00 GMTStaffing The RejectedDealing with the real issues 01:01:00Help4men RadionoDealing with the real issueshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/12/what-happened-to-the-lady-the-gentleman-with-dr-saunyaFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/12/what-happened-to-the-lady-the-gentleman-with-dr-saunya/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/12/what-happened-to-the-lady-the-gentleman-with-dr-saunyaWed, 12 Apr 2017 23:00:00 GMTWhat Happened to The Lady & The Gentleman with Dr. SaunyaConversations about the sexes!  02:00:00Help4men RadionoSexeshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/11/things-couples-dont-discuss-until-its-too-lateRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/11/things-couples-dont-discuss-until-its-too-late/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/11/things-couples-dont-discuss-until-its-too-lateTue, 11 Apr 2017 23:00:00 GMTThings Couples Don't Discuss Until It's Too Late5 Topics Couples Don’t Discuss Until It’s Too Late *Finances and money investments *Sex life *Spirituality *Career goals and aspirations *In-laws issues and influence of other people   02:00:00Help4men RadionoCoupleshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/10/body-shaming-on-men-does-it-really-affect-menFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/10/body-shaming-on-men-does-it-really-affect-men/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/10/body-shaming-on-men-does-it-really-affect-menMon, 10 Apr 2017 23:00:00 GMTBody Shaming On Men: Does It Really Affect Men?Body shaming in the reality shows is equal to self-esteem of an individual. Research shows that the men who are critical of their looks are less likely to find mates. It is easy to associate eating disorders and body shaming as a female problem. This is because beauty is treated like the sole utility of the female, but this does not mean that it does not affect men. Men who are dissatisfied with their bodies are more likely to engage in dangerous exercise habits to curb the problem. Body Image Is Also a Man’s Problem Most people believe that the body image and self-esteem is a concern for women and few issues that are related to this would be important to males. Body shaming is a problem that has affected females for a long time and the statistics that are reported are alarming. Figures that have been collected by eating disorders association that is based in Australia have shown that anorexia is the third disease that is common in females who are between 15-24 years. The reports indicate that mortality rates are high in these women after 20 years with a percentage of 15-20.   01:59:00Help4men RadionoMenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/06/overcoming-a-slave-mentalityPoliticshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/06/overcoming-a-slave-mentality/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/06/overcoming-a-slave-mentalityThu, 06 Apr 2017 23:00:00 GMTOvercoming A Slave MentalityThe greatest tragedy I see in people’s lives is that they’ve become slaves to their circumstances, to their passions, to the ways of this world. Slaves to a whole bunch of things that promise so much and yet have left their lives empty and hollow and bereft of any meaning and purpose and things that ultimately lead to destruction. You and I go through a lot of trials in life, things that tear at our flesh and tear at our emotions but when you stop and think about it we were made to be at peace, we were made to experience perfect peace and satisfaction and contentment. How do I know that? Because when I look back to see how God created us from the beginning it’s exactly what I see. 00:59:00Help4men RadionoThe greatest tragedy I see in people’s lives is that they’ve become slaves to their circumstances, to their passions, to the ways of this world. Slaves to a whohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/04/why-relationships-fail-the-truth-about-loveRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/04/why-relationships-fail-the-truth-about-love/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/04/04/why-relationships-fail-the-truth-about-loveTue, 04 Apr 2017 23:00:00 GMTWhy Relationships Fail & The Truth About LoveLet’s get right to it shall we? Real love is never about “falling” into anything, has nothing to do with “finding a soul mate”, and actually has less to do with “getting” anything in particular you deem either necessary or deserving of. Actually, this approach to love is why relationships fail. This modern aberration of love is based on fantasy, fiction and flight kind of like Never-Never Land where flying boys and girls flitter through life searching for the right experience (emotions, or what we commonly refer to as “love”) with the right person (encounter, or what we commonly refer to as a “soul mate”) confusing that person (soul mate) with an experience (feeling alive, connected, important, special or whatever) and now claim it as their right to have leaving marriages, children and lives in its illusory wake. 02:00:00Help4men RadionoRelationships Failhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/30/overcoming-a-slave-mentalityFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/30/overcoming-a-slave-mentality/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/30/overcoming-a-slave-mentalityThu, 30 Mar 2017 23:00:00 GMTOvercoming A Slave MentalityThe greatest tragedy I see in people’s lives is that they’ve become slaves to their circumstances, to their passions, to the ways of this world. Slaves to a whole bunch of things that promise so much and yet have left their lives empty and hollow and bereft of any meaning and purpose and things that ultimately lead to destruction. You and I go through a lot of trials in life, things that tear at our flesh and tear at our emotions but when you stop and think about it we were made to be at peace, we were made to experience perfect peace and satisfaction and contentment. How do I know that? Because when I look back to see how God created us from the beginning it’s exactly what I see. 00:43:00Help4men RadionoMentalityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/29/what-are-your-deal-breakers-with-dr-saunyaFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/29/what-are-your-deal-breakers-with-dr-saunya/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/29/what-are-your-deal-breakers-with-dr-saunyaWed, 29 Mar 2017 23:00:00 GMTWhat Are Your Deal Breakers? With Dr SaunyaFor nearly every deal-breaker, women were more likely to say the trait was a problem. The top five deal-breakers, for both sexes were: disheveled or unclean appearance; lazy; too needy; lacks a sense of humor; and lives more than three hours away from me. At the bottom of the list, as least likely to be deal-breakers, were: had kids; too athletic; not athletic. Men rated a few deal-breakers — having kids, living too far away, talks too much, and a low sex drive — more commonly than women did. This “may reflect men’s greater concerns about resource investment in partners (and their families) and men’s somewhat higher interest in casual sex,” the researchers found. In contrast, women were more likely to consider as deal-breakers partners who lacked self-confidence, were too lazy, and those who spent too much time watching television or playing video games. In another survey covered in this study, women were more likely to report bad sex as a deal-breaker; and for both genders, bad in bed was deemed a deal-breaker in short-term relationships but not long-term ones. Overall, the researchers found deal-breakers to be smart and useful: “It is likely that dealbreakers function as efficient, cost-sensitive cognitive mechanisms designed to cull inappropriate potential partners, allowing mating preferences to operate within a reduced target of desirable mates.” So go ahead and dump that lazy dude who’s clinging to you and your sofa. It might propel him to try harder next time. 01:51:00Help4men RadionoDealbreakershttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/28/relationship-killers-pt2-with-demetrius-aldridge-and-crystal-harklessRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/28/relationship-killers-pt2-with-demetrius-aldridge-and-crystal-harkless/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/28/relationship-killers-pt2-with-demetrius-aldridge-and-crystal-harklessTue, 28 Mar 2017 23:00:00 GMTRelationship Killers Pt2 with Demetrius Aldridge and Crystal HarklessIf you ask the average person what breaks relationships apart, he or she might say money, lying or cheating. And that is true. But like death by a thousand paper cuts, there are even more insidious everyday habits that kill relationships too. To create a truly happy, healthy relationship, every couple, of every stripe, should take the most overlooked and under-discussed relationship killers to heart. 01:58:00Help4men RadionoRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/27/barber-shop-talkFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/27/barber-shop-talk/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/27/barber-shop-talkMon, 27 Mar 2017 23:00:00 GMTBarber Shop TalkMen and their conversations! 01:59:00Help4men RadionoMenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/27/standing-on-your-faithSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/27/standing-on-your-faith/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/27/standing-on-your-faithMon, 27 Mar 2017 00:00:00 GMTStanding On Your FaithWe seem to be living in times of increasing uncertainty and difficulty. The United States is now engaged in a war against terrorism. We face possibilities of war in Iraq and North Korea. We face possibilities of major casualties to terrorism in our own country. We face worldwide economic uncertainty. In this country we have seen the collapse of major corporations. Many have suffered unemployment or serious financial loss as a result. It sometimes seems as if much that we thought we could rely on is proving undependable. There is a sense that everything is moving faster, becoming more intense, becoming less predictable. 01:36:00Help4men RadionoFaithhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/25/curves-and-the-men-who-love-themwhy-do-men-like-curvy-womenSexualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/25/curves-and-the-men-who-love-themwhy-do-men-like-curvy-women/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/25/curves-and-the-men-who-love-themwhy-do-men-like-curvy-womenSat, 25 Mar 2017 00:00:00 GMTCurves And The Men Who Love Them....Why Do Men Like Curvy WomenMen associate wide hips and large breasts with fertility, they always have. A woman with curves was said to be good for child bearing and men associate curves with that notion. Even if they aren’t ready to have children, the fact that you look fertile makes them want to mat 02:00:00Help4men RadionoWomenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/23/anger-the-diary-of-a-mad-man-with-mr-titus-broomLifestylehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/23/anger-the-diary-of-a-mad-man-with-mr-titus-broom/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/23/anger-the-diary-of-a-mad-man-with-mr-titus-broomThu, 23 Mar 2017 23:00:00 GMTAnger- The Diary of a Mad Man with Mr. Titus BroomA conversationtion within itsefl! 02:00:00Help4men RadionoAngerhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/21/relationship-killers-with-demetrius-aldridge-and-crystal-harklessRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/21/relationship-killers-with-demetrius-aldridge-and-crystal-harkless/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/21/relationship-killers-with-demetrius-aldridge-and-crystal-harklessTue, 21 Mar 2017 23:00:00 GMTRelationship Killers with Demetrius Aldridge and Crystal Harkless.If you ask the average person what breaks relationships apart, he or she might say money, lying or cheating. And that is true. But like death by a thousand paper cuts, there are even more insidious everyday habits that kill relationships too. To create a truly happy, healthy relationship, every couple, of every stripe, should take the most overlooked and under-discussed relationship killers to heart. 02:02:00Help4men RadionoRelationship Killershttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/20/interracial-relationships-the-good-and-the-badFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/20/interracial-relationships-the-good-and-the-bad/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/20/interracial-relationships-the-good-and-the-badMon, 20 Mar 2017 23:00:00 GMTInterracial Relationships The Good and the Bad!There needs to be more transparency and education about true diversity…not just the ‘token’ acknowledgement.  Throwing a black character into a television show does not create diversity or multiculturalism.  In order to find understanding, we must be clued in to the experiences of people of color. For me, that meant films, books, history courses, direct interaction and becoming part of a new community.  I always knew that our family existed outside of the typical American experience because we lived in poverty, so it made sense to discover that Latinos, African Americans and other races were also segregated by society.  The sad part is that this de facto segregation is what prevents us from proceeding as a fully inclusive society that equally regards all individuals.  It prevents “saints” from accepting “sinners”, the rich from accepting the poor and one race from accepting another.  For me, this practice is the main element that prevents understanding and acceptance of those who are different from ourselves.   02:02:00Help4men RadionoInterracial Relationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/20/how-to-develop-patienceReligionhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/20/how-to-develop-patience/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/20/how-to-develop-patienceMon, 20 Mar 2017 00:00:00 GMTHow to Develop PatienceWhat is patience? I like to start with the dictionary. "Patience: the capacity to accept or tolerate delay, difficulty, or annoyance without getting angry or upset." I don’t know anyone whose life is free of these three. In fact, I can’t recall a single day in my own life when at least one of them didn't make an appearance. For many years, my reaction to the presence of any one of the three was to get “angry”—or at least “upset.” Then I realized that this response served only to make an already stressful and unpleasant situation worse. So I began making a conscious effort to respond to “delay, difficulty, or annoyance” differently. Sometimes the best I could do was “tolerate” their presence. But I kept at it and, with practice, I became better able to “accept” them open-heartedly as an inevitable part of life. 01:40:00Help4men RadionoPatiencehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/18/body-shaming-america-when-hate-meets-discriminationWomenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/18/body-shaming-america-when-hate-meets-discrimination/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/18/body-shaming-america-when-hate-meets-discriminationSat, 18 Mar 2017 00:00:00 GMT"Body Shaming America, When Hate Meets Discrimination"Numerous studies have found that obese and overweight people experience all manner of discrimination at work, and much of it is perfectly legal. Some struggle to find a job at all.    One of the big challenges is the challenge of finding an advocate or defender in the office. Even people in human resources might harbor a fat bias. But West has had some success leveling with colleagues on a “human level,” perhaps even sharing experiences about what life is really like. Some coworkers might be hardened to the message, but others will feel empathy. 02:02:00Help4men RadionoBodyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/16/race-and-politics-with-dana-stevens-and-titus-broomPoliticshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/16/race-and-politics-with-dana-stevens-and-titus-broom/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/16/race-and-politics-with-dana-stevens-and-titus-broomThu, 16 Mar 2017 23:00:00 GMTRace and Politics with Dana Stevens and Titus BroomTHROUGHOUT U.S. HISTORY “race” has been a major factor in all politics—beginning with the English occupation and the Westward drive of settlers to conquer and slaughter the native peoples. The justification: advancement of civilization. Racism is as American as apple pie, yet race itself is a political (economic) concept having little to do with biology or science. The attitude of white superiority is embedded by the founding fathers in the U.S. Constitution, wherein African slaves are defined as property. A century later, laws enacted against Chinese and other non-white immigrants were based on racial differences and presumed white superiority. Bigotry between whites, particularly when new European immigrants arrived, has existed throughout American history. Within a generation, however, their common color of skin brings about an accommodation and access to the system that former slaves and fourth and fifth generation Japanese and Chinese Americans still don't receive. Class divisions, of course, are also mainstays of U.S. history and society. But race politics has always crossed class lines and cannot be viewed—as some socialists in history have done—as a subordinate problem that will be resolved (disappeared) once a successful anti-capitalist revolution takes place. The truth is: A victorious socialist revolution cannot happen unless the issue of race and politics is central to an independent working-class movement. With this understanding, this column will look at “race and politics” in today's reality. We'll examine not only its impact on U.S. politics, but how racism is used in other countries—in Europe, Latin America, Africa, Asia and the Pacific. 02:00:00Help4men RadionoRacehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/14/women-who-settle-for-men-who-dont-deserve-themRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/14/women-who-settle-for-men-who-dont-deserve-them/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/14/women-who-settle-for-men-who-dont-deserve-themTue, 14 Mar 2017 23:00:00 GMTWomen Who Settle for Men Who Don't Deserve ThemTo the women who think good is great, Confession time. You've been treated badly by some guy you used to think was an absolute dreamboat, a perfect 10 -- a Gosling, if you will. And you let it happen. Are we right? And it's because of this jerk that you think just okay relationships are the norm. It's because of inconsiderate guys like him -- who thought it was OK to make you feel like text messaging was the only acceptable form of communication and "forgetting" about the dinner plans you've had for two weeks because he was "stressed" was permissible -- that you feel like you don't deserve the best. The good news? You're not alone. There are a bazillion single women who wonder about the same thing you wonder about every damn day: "Am I asking for too much?" Spoiler alert: No. You deserve it, the "too much." The catch? You just need to stop settling for less than what you really want. 01:50:00Help4men RadionoLadieshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/13/am-i-sexist-if-i-am-why-im-sexist-part-2Familyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/13/am-i-sexist-if-i-am-why-im-sexist-part-2/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/13/am-i-sexist-if-i-am-why-im-sexist-part-2Mon, 13 Mar 2017 23:00:00 GMTAm I sexist? If I am, Why I’m Sexist? Part 2As a man, I grew up a feminist and spent a large part of my life identifying as a feminist. I was taught about gender equality before I was taught proper comprehension skills. I was taught that, as a man, I should reserve myself and my masculinity so not to offend women or get in their way. Many men were taught the same as boys. They were wrongly taught that girls were either as good as men or better than them, ateverything. This was mostly done by all-women school teachers and various other figureheads in society (AKA, “The Patriarchy”).  01:56:00Help4men RadionoSexisthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/11/sex-after-committing-when-getting-comfortable-gets-complacentRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/11/sex-after-committing-when-getting-comfortable-gets-complacent/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/11/sex-after-committing-when-getting-comfortable-gets-complacentSat, 11 Mar 2017 01:00:00 GMTSex After Committing, When Getting Comfortable Gets ComplacentThere are as many opinions on this question as there are men in this world, and each will often vigorously defend his position. The guy who waited until marriage says he couldn’t be happier with his decision, while the guy who sees nothing wrong with sex on the first date contends that such behavior is entirely natural and without negative consequence.  And of course abstinence guy will never be able to step into the shoes of early-in-the-relationship guy, and vice versa. Which is why time and experience have shown that arguing about this decision – especially over the internet! – rarely, if ever, convinces someone to entirely change their position. 02:03:00Help4men RadionoSexhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/10/holistic-re-entry-with-hilary-youngPoliticshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/10/holistic-re-entry-with-hilary-young/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/10/holistic-re-entry-with-hilary-youngFri, 10 Mar 2017 00:00:00 GMTHOLISTIC RE-ENTRY with Hilary YoungIf a formerly incarcerated person cannot get a legal job that pays enough for them to fully support themselves financially, they will have to find another way to survive. The unemployment rate for formerly incarcerated people in Oakland is 70% - think it’s a coincidence that the unemployment rate is the same as the recidivism rate? The #1 thing a person transitioning home from prison needs is a good job. We start all of our hires coming out of San Quentin at $17.50/hour - $5.25 higher than Oakland’s minimum wage. This living wage policy means our staff can depend on their job at Planting Justice to cover their rent, bills & necessities without needing to engage in the extra-legal economy to survive and advance financially. In an economy that systematically devalues, under-employs and underpays formerly incarcerated people, our $17.50/hour starting wage is a political statement that the labor of former prisoners is valuable and that their success and well-being is a worthy investment. A real living wage is a real incentive to show up for work every day and avoid things that could jeopardize the job. 00:58:00Help4men RadionoPrisionshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/09/dear-men-be-your-own-boo-with-dr-saunyaFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/09/dear-men-be-your-own-boo-with-dr-saunya/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/09/dear-men-be-your-own-boo-with-dr-saunyaThu, 09 Mar 2017 00:00:00 GMT"Dear Men, Be Your Own Boo with Dr Saunya"BYOB is about centering the us in ourselves, centering myself in me. Some of the most difficult and fear provoking questions can be the ones that focus on self-knowing and self introspection: “what do you need?” “what makes you happy?” “how do you take care of yourself?” It can be much easier to focus on other people’s answers to these questions or respond to their needs or even rely on other people to meet our needs, wants, hopes, desires than answer questions like these for ourselves.  The idea and practice of being your own boo is about cultivating love for ourselves and everything that we are, honestly and wholly. It’s a process. It’s a process that takes practice. It’s something that we’ll do for our whole lives, hopefully! 02:01:00Help4men RadionoBeing Youhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/08/the-things-women-do-for-attention-with-angel-b-onesha-shonte-dr-evansRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/08/the-things-women-do-for-attention-with-angel-b-onesha-shonte-dr-evans/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/08/the-things-women-do-for-attention-with-angel-b-onesha-shonte-dr-evansWed, 08 Mar 2017 00:00:00 GMTThe Things Women Do For Attention with Angel B, O'Nesha Shonte' & Dr. Evans Females are an interesting breed of human beings. Virtually everything they do reflects their complex mix of humor, emotion, intelligence, and overall concept of amusement. With such a wide variety of actions along with the thoughts that inspire them, sometimes you just have to wonder what exactly goes through females' brains when they do certain things. Like purposely drawing attention to themselves. Some women crave attention so badly that they go to extreme lengths to try and impress anyone they possibly can.    01:50:00Help4men RadionoFemales are an interesting breed of human beings. Virtually everything they do reflects their complex mix of humor, emotion, intelligence, and overall concepthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/07/am-i-sexist-if-i-am-why-im-sexistFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/07/am-i-sexist-if-i-am-why-im-sexist/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/07/am-i-sexist-if-i-am-why-im-sexistTue, 07 Mar 2017 00:00:00 GMTAm I sexist? If I am, Why I’m Sexist?Sexism as Reality As a man, I grew up a feminist and spent a large part of my life identifying as a feminist. I was taught about gender equality before I was taught proper comprehension skills. I was taught that, as a man, I should reserve myself and my masculinity so not to offend women or get in their way. Many men were taught the same as boys. They were wrongly taught that girls were either as good as men or better than them, ateverything. This was mostly done by all-women school teachers and various other figureheads in society (AKA, “The Patriarchy”).  02:00:00Help4men RadionoSexisthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/06/let-go-of-past-hurts-ways-to-move-on-with-keysha-cyrus-jamari-brownReligionhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/06/let-go-of-past-hurts-ways-to-move-on-with-keysha-cyrus-jamari-brown/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/06/let-go-of-past-hurts-ways-to-move-on-with-keysha-cyrus-jamari-brownMon, 06 Mar 2017 01:00:00 GMTLet Go of Past Hurts: Ways to Move On with Keysha Cyrus & Jamari BrownWe’ve all been hurt. You can’t be an adult — or teen — alive today who hasn’t experienced some kind of emotional pain. It hurts. I get that. But what you do with that hurt is probably more important than the hurt itself. Would you prefer to get back to being an active liver of life? Or do you prefer to ruminate endlessly about the past and something that cannot be changed? In short, how do you let go of past hurts and move on? Let’s find out…   Blaming others for our hurt is what most of us start off doing. Somebody did something wrong, or they wronged us in some way that mattered to us. We want them to apologize. We want them to acknowledge what they did was wrong. People who hold on to these past hurts often relive the pain over and over in their minds. Sometimes a person can even get “stuck” in this pain, in this hurt, in this blame. The problem with blaming others is that it can often leave you powerless. For example, you confront the person (your boss, your spouse, your parent, your child), and they say, “No, I didn’t,” or worse, “So what if I did?”, then you’re left with all this anger and hurt and no resolution. All your feelings are legitimate. It’s important to feel them fully, and then move on. Nursing your grievances indefinitely is a bad habit, because (as the title goes) it hurts you more than it hurts them. 01:36:00Help4men RadionoHurthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/04/are-you-in-love-or-just-lusting-after-herRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/04/are-you-in-love-or-just-lusting-after-her/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/04/are-you-in-love-or-just-lusting-after-herSat, 04 Mar 2017 01:00:00 GMTAre You in Love — or Just Lusting After Her?Lust is a great initial fire-starter, but lust alone doesn’t have enough emotional lust to sustain a long-term relationship. "This stage is meant to end," says Fleming. "This is when the rubber meets the road, this is where in my opinion, you learn what 'love' is." 02:04:00Help4men RadionoLusthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/03/youth-empowerment-with-cornelius-atkinson-and-brian-bulluckFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/03/youth-empowerment-with-cornelius-atkinson-and-brian-bulluck/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/03/youth-empowerment-with-cornelius-atkinson-and-brian-bulluckFri, 03 Mar 2017 00:00:00 GMTYouth Empowerment with Cornelius Atkinson and Brian BulluckYouth empowerment is a process where children and young people are encouraged to take charge of their lives. They do this by addressing their situation and then take action in order to improve their access to resources and transform their consciousness through their beliefs, values, and attitudes. Youth empowerment aims to improve quality of life. Youth empowerment is achieved through participation in youth empowerment programs. However scholars argue that children’s rights implementation should go beyond learning about formal rights and procedures to give birth to a concrete experience of rights. There are numerous models that youth empowerment programs use that help youth achieve empowerment. A variety of youth empowerment initiatives are underway around the world. These programs can be through non-profit organizations, government organizations, schools or private organizations. Youth empowerment is different than youth development because development is centered on developing individuals, while empowerment is focused on creating greater community change relies on the development of individual capacity. 02:01:00Help4men RadionoYouthhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/02/a-fathers-relationship-with-his-daughter-with-dr-saunyaFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/02/a-fathers-relationship-with-his-daughter-with-dr-saunya/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/02/a-fathers-relationship-with-his-daughter-with-dr-saunyaThu, 02 Mar 2017 00:00:00 GMT"A Father's Relationship With His Daughter with Dr. Saunya"Having a positive relationship with Dad can really influence a young girl's whole life. You've probably heard that having a strong male influence is important in a young boy's life, but it's equally important for daughters to have one as well. A positive father-daughter relationship can have a huge impact on a young girl's life and even determine whether or not she develops into a strong, confident woman. A father's influence in his daughter's life shapes her self-esteem, self-image, confidence and opinions of men. 02:03:00Help4men RadionoFatherhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/01/lets-talk-marriage-the-long-term-relationship-rut--with-no-marriage-in-sightRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/01/lets-talk-marriage-the-long-term-relationship-rut--with-no-marriage-in-sight/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/03/01/lets-talk-marriage-the-long-term-relationship-rut--with-no-marriage-in-sightWed, 01 Mar 2017 00:00:00 GMTLet's Talk Marriage: The Long-Term Relationship Rut -- WITH NO MARRIAGE IN SIGHTJust because a couple plays house by cohabitating or taking vacations with each other's families, that doesn't necessarily equate to marriage.  01:50:00Help4men RadionoMarriagehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/28/brothers-are-you-in-love-or-just-lusting-after-herFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/28/brothers-are-you-in-love-or-just-lusting-after-her/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/28/brothers-are-you-in-love-or-just-lusting-after-herTue, 28 Feb 2017 00:00:00 GMTBrothers! Are You in Love — or Just Lusting After Her?Lust is a great initial fire-starter, but lust alone doesn’t have enough emotional fuel to sustain a long-term relationship. "This stage is meant to end," says Fleming. "This is when the rubber meets the road, this is where in my opinion, you learn what 'love' is." 02:01:00Help4men RadionoLusthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/27/tools-staying-focus-for-your-purpose-with-jamari-brown-keysha-cryrusSpiritualityhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/27/tools-staying-focus-for-your-purpose-with-jamari-brown-keysha-cryrus/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/27/tools-staying-focus-for-your-purpose-with-jamari-brown-keysha-cryrusMon, 27 Feb 2017 01:00:00 GMTTools: Staying Focus For Your Purpose with Jamari Brown & Keysha Cryrus“If by continuing to live I can do more worthwhile work, then I am not sure which I should choose. I am pulled in two directions. I want very much to leave this life and be with Christ, which is a far better thing; but for your sake it is much more important that I remain alive. I am sure of this, and so I know that I will stay. I will stay on with you all, to add to your progress and your joy in the faith.” (Philippians 1:22-25 TEV) When you stay focused on your purpose, not your problem, you can be happy even when life seems to be falling apart. Paul was an old man when he was in prison in Rome. He was a long way from home. He was awaiting execution. Everything has been taken from him — his friends, his freedom, his ministry, even his privacy, with a guard chained to him 24 hours a day. It wasn’t exactly a happy time for Paul. But there was one thing they could not take away from Paul: his purpose. Paul made the choice to stay focused on his purpose, even when he had lost everything else. What was his purpose? Serving God by serving others. Paul says in Philippians 1:22-25, “If by continuing to live I can do more worthwhile work, then I am not sure which I should choose. I am pulled in two directions. I want very much to leave this life and be with Christ, which is a far better thing; but for your sake it is much more important that I remain alive. I am sure of this, and so I know that I will stay. I will stay on with you all, to add to your progress and your joy in the faith” (TEV). 01:38:00Help4men RadionoPurposehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/24/effective-church-leadership-with-lee-ann-marino-henrietta-personReligionhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/24/effective-church-leadership-with-lee-ann-marino-henrietta-person/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/24/effective-church-leadership-with-lee-ann-marino-henrietta-personFri, 24 Feb 2017 00:00:00 GMTEffective Church Leadership with Lee Ann Marino & Henrietta PersonLoving the Church as Christ does! The Church exists by what Christ has done for us in His glory and the production of His work. The church exists for us to be in Christ our Lord, to be His people, and His hands and feet. When we get this Truth we get how to lead and manage His Church!   Loving the whole church is not just loving the whole church facelessly, like the humanist man loving Man but caring little about the individual. As finite we cannot know the whole church that is on the earth now, let alone the whole church across all space and time. So what does it mean to "love the church of Jesus Christ" in practice? It is very clearly laid out in the New Testament that the Christians should meet in local congregations and groups. In these churches and groups the universal church is cut down, as it were, to our own size. We can know each other on a person-to-person level and have person-to-person love and communication.  02:01:00Help4men RadionoRelegionhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/23/marriage-prenup-yay-or-nay-part-2-with-dr-saunyaFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/23/marriage-prenup-yay-or-nay-part-2-with-dr-saunya/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/23/marriage-prenup-yay-or-nay-part-2-with-dr-saunyaThu, 23 Feb 2017 00:00:00 GMTMarriage PreNup: Yay or Nay? Part 2 With Dr. SaunyaThe thought of discussing this subject with your significant other can often stir up issues around trust, control and sharing. If you are considering a Prenuptial Agreement, how do you bring it up? Firstly, it is really important to be very clear about your motivations. Make sure your partner is fully aware of why you feel it would be an important step for your future to consider a Prenup. It can also be a great opportunity to ensure that the lines of communication in your relationship are open. Secondly, it is important to choose the right time and environment to discuss a prenuptial agreement. Ideally it should be presented slowly, over the course of the relationship, as opposed to three days before the wedding. It is important that you both have plenty of time for discussion. A prenup should never be a surprise! If your partner is the one to bring the topic of a prenup up, try not to dismiss the idea immediately, give your partner a chance to express their thoughts and feelings. Once your decision on a prenup is made, it is important that each spouse have their own legal representative review the contract. It is important that both parties fully understand all of the wording in the contract. The prenup will also need to be updated if any of your circumstances change, for example, if you have children, your assets change, or you move. Finally, if you are unable to execute a prenup in time, you can always consider a postnuptial agreement. Essentially it is the same thing, but it is signed after the wedding. 02:06:00Help4men RadionoMarragehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/22/living-together-is-not-a-replacement-for-marriageRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/22/living-together-is-not-a-replacement-for-marriage/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/22/living-together-is-not-a-replacement-for-marriageWed, 22 Feb 2017 00:00:00 GMTLiving together is Not a Replacement for Marriage The popular view is often not the truth, and cohabitation is one of those times. Living together prior to marriage is still one of the best predictors for divorce and if you have a child in that union prior to marriage you set them up for an unstable life. The latest research has found that for children, going through a divorce is more stable than being raised by a cohabitating couple. Many couples find someone with whom they can relate or have sex, and before you know what is happening they decide they will live together. They tell me or anyone listening that they want to make sure they are compatible. Living together won’t tell you if you’re compatible as a married couple. It will tell you what a person smells like without a shower, who is messy and what kind of TV shows and music each of you like. It won’t tell you what sex, money, or communication will be like after marriage because these three things are the first to change after marriage. The biggest problem with living together is that one of those partners usually secretly wants to marry the other. They are trying not to be clingy or pushy so they opt for living together. When you want one type of relationship, but settle for another, it builds resentment and criticism. You may begin to think less of yourself as well as your partner for allowing or forcing you to “settle.” Of course this isn’t talked about aloud, but that doesn’t make it any less true or potent. What you cannot talk about, you usually act out with cheating: having a baby when the other person didn’t want one, or no longer taking care of yourself. Your living situation begins to erode a relationship that could have been a good marriage if you had taken your time to get to know one another, built a friendship, and kept your own place until you were ready to marry. 01:58:00Help4men RadionoThe popular view is often not the truth, and cohabitation is one of those times. Living together prior to marriage is still one of the best predictors for divohttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/21/the-aftermath-of-valentines-day-with-kenneth-hunt-and-rodney-johnsonFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/21/the-aftermath-of-valentines-day-with-kenneth-hunt-and-rodney-johnson/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/21/the-aftermath-of-valentines-day-with-kenneth-hunt-and-rodney-johnsonTue, 21 Feb 2017 00:00:00 GMTThe Aftermath of Valentine's Day with Kenneth Hunt, and Rodney JohnsonWell, the lovey-dovey season has ended, and it’s back to the real world. It’s the next day and all you want to do is be back in bed with bae, or Netflix and chillin'. You may also still be in a sugar coma from all the candy hearts you ate the night before, but rest assured, I have the solution for your post- Valentine's Day blues: KEEP LOVING! That’s right, don't let the joy escape you just because the weekend is over. Keep it going! That’s the big secret right there! Don't let the love and kindness stop just because Valentine's Day is over! Keep eating your candy hearts and smiling at strangers! Keep binge watching Netflix shows with all your BFFs or cuddling with bae for hours! Keep doing exactly what makes you happy! Valentine's Day is such an amazing day, whether you have someone to share it with or not! It is about love, but not just romantic love, just general love for all humans. Love for your family, your friends, or even love that guy you always randomly see at the grocery store. It is a day to go around to strangers and say, “Hey, you're cared for and loved.” It is a day to say “ FREE HUGS FOR ALL!” It is a day to go out of your way for people just for the heck of it! This kind of love is so addicting and uplifting that we shouldn't just contain it to one day a year. God tells us that this should be a daily thing. Romans 12:10 says “ Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.” He tells us this should be a daily occurrence, so why do we really only emphasize it on Valentine's Day? 01:59:00Help4men RadionoWell, the lovey-dovey season has ended, and it’s back to the real world. It’s the next day and all you want to do is be back in bed with bae, or Netflix and chihttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/20/pushing-yourself-in-hard-times-with-keysha-cyrus-jamari-brown-cynthia-brownReligionhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/20/pushing-yourself-in-hard-times-with-keysha-cyrus-jamari-brown-cynthia-brown/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/20/pushing-yourself-in-hard-times-with-keysha-cyrus-jamari-brown-cynthia-brownMon, 20 Feb 2017 01:00:00 GMTPushing Yourself In Hard Times with Keysha Cyrus, Jamari Brown, Cynthia BrownSome changes look negative on the surface but you will soon realize that space is being created in your life for something new to emerge. If you’re going through a tough time, this may help. 1. Stop assuming the worst. 2. Challenge your beliefs. 3. Turn inward to heal inner wounds. 4. Stop pushing. 5. Practice saying yes to your desires. 6. Stop feeling guilty. 7. Stay solution-oriented. 8. Turn to others for help. 9. Foster a positive mindset.   01:39:00Help4men RadionoHelphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/18/sense-and-sensibility-in-relationships-fear-of-compromise-and-commitmentRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/18/sense-and-sensibility-in-relationships-fear-of-compromise-and-commitment/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/18/sense-and-sensibility-in-relationships-fear-of-compromise-and-commitmentSat, 18 Feb 2017 01:00:00 GMTSense and Sensibility in Relationships. Fear of Compromise and CommitmentDifferent styles of emotional reactivity often cause problems in a relationship. How do you handle emotions? When confronted with a situation that is energetically right, how determined and emotional do you become? Do you stay calm and focused so you find an internal path to manifest what seems the best outcome to the situation or do you get emotionally reactive, express frustration, stress, and blame circumstances rather than looking inward for solutions? Do you think and feel “outside the box?” Do you remain the adult when stressed or revert to your younger frustrated self? Ideally, emotionally, you both need to hold firm to your depth of knowing and work listening carefully to each other with a sense of presence until the other person feels heard and understood. Using roadblocks to communication generally activates past unfinished responses and results in misunderstandings and/or miscommunications about needs and values. Patience here is the key as well as determination. 01:58:00Help4men RadionoCommitmenthttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/17/the-streets-dont-love-you-back-with-guest-mr-rob-boydFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/17/the-streets-dont-love-you-back-with-guest-mr-rob-boyd/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/17/the-streets-dont-love-you-back-with-guest-mr-rob-boydFri, 17 Feb 2017 00:00:00 GMTThe Streets Don't Love You Back, with guest Mr. Rob Boyd"The Streets Don’t Love You Back" Book is a Story of Strength, Prayer, and Perseverance” by Robert D. Boyd Jr. The autobiography of a man who grew up in the eastside ghetto of Detroit MI. His father a prominent Reverend and well known Author chose not to be a part of his life. His stepfather was a good man and treated him and siblings as his own, until one day when Rob was nine years old he watched his grandfather stab his stepfather to death..... and by age 10 was involved in the gang, drug violent street life..... Rob became a Boss and Drug Kingpin, spent time in and out of jail and watched many friends get killed and many friends go to prison.......... This manuscript is definitely a story of Hope, Change, Healing and Forgiveness. After reading this book you will see that crime doesn’t pay and “The Streets Don’t Love You Back". A MUST READ BOOK !! 01:59:00Help4men Radiono"The Streets Don’t Love You Back" Book is a Story of Strength, Prayer, and Perseverance” by Robert D. Boyd Jr. The autobiography of a man who grew up in the eashttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/16/be-your-own-booFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/16/be-your-own-boo/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/16/be-your-own-booThu, 16 Feb 2017 00:00:00 GMTBe Your Own Boo!A conversation in itself......... 02:01:00Help4men RadionoA conversation in itself.........http://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/15/letting-go-of-shitty-relationshipsRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/15/letting-go-of-shitty-relationships/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/15/letting-go-of-shitty-relationshipsWed, 15 Feb 2017 00:00:00 GMTLETTING GO OF SHITTY RELATIONSHIPSSome relationships are particularly pernicious. We often develop relationships out of convenience, without considering the traits necessary to build a successful bond with another person—important traits like unwavering support, shared trust, and loving encouragement. When a relationship is birthed out of proximity or chemistry alone, it is bound to fail. We need more than a person’s physical presence to maintain a meaningful connection, but we routinely keep people around simply because they’re already around. It’s easy to develop a connection with a co-worker, schoolmate, or someone who’s always there—even when they’re not adding any real value to our lives. It’s even easier to stay in those relationships: old relationships are comfortable, and starting new relationships is difficult. New relationships require work—but anything worth holding on to does.   00:52:00Help4men RadionoRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/14/the-pre-valentines-day-showFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/14/the-pre-valentines-day-show/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/14/the-pre-valentines-day-showTue, 14 Feb 2017 00:00:00 GMTThe "Pre-Valentine's Day Show"What is the point of Valentine's Day? Each year on February 14th, many people exchange cards, candy, gifts or flowers with their special “valentine.” The day of romance we call Valentine's Day is named for a Christian martyr and dates back to the 5th century, but has origins in the Roman holiday Lupercalia.   Valentine's Day is a time to celebrate romance and love and kissy-face fealty. But the origins of this festival of candy and cupids are actually dark, bloody — and a bit muddled. Enlarge this image A drawing depicts the death of St. Valentine — one of them, anyway. The Romans executed two men by that name on Feb. 14 of different years in the 3rd century A.D. Though no one has pinpointed the exact origin of the holiday, one good place to start is ancient Rome, where men hit on women by, well, hitting them.   The brutal fete included a matchmaking lottery, in which young men drew the names of women from a jar. The couple would then be, um, coupled up for the duration of the festival — or longer, if the match was right. 01:54:00Help4men RadionoPre-valentine's Dayhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/13/overcoming-obstacles-with-guests-mrs-keysha-cyrus-and-mr-jamari-brownReligionhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/13/overcoming-obstacles-with-guests-mrs-keysha-cyrus-and-mr-jamari-brown/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/13/overcoming-obstacles-with-guests-mrs-keysha-cyrus-and-mr-jamari-brownMon, 13 Feb 2017 01:00:00 GMTOvercoming Obstacles with guests, Mrs. Keysha Cyrus and Mr. Jamari BrownTo overcome obstacles business or personal, you must master these areas: 1. Embrace Self-Awareness If you don't see the obstacle or believe it's a hindrance, you'll never reach your goals, blaming everything and everyone but the person responsible. This is particularly obstructive to resolving Habitual Obstacles. I realized my own prioritization was keeping me from what I needed to do. I could easily blame time as my enemy, but the enemy was actually my semi-conscious, daily rationalization that making money was almost always more important than health or learning. Once I admitted that my own prioritization was misguided, I made the necessary adjustments in my behavior. 2. Use Time to Your Advantage This is most important with External Obstacles. You must learn to manage your patience and be ready when the smoke clears. The harder the obstacle, the more time it will take to overcome. Set a preliminary schedule with clear milestones so you can track forward or backward progress. This way you'll see the cumulative impact of miniscule change.  3. Commit to Focused Discipline It's easy to get distracted with the present. Business people are just that--busy! There is always a fire to put out or a new critical opportunity to distract you. True discipline is about making yourself emotionally commit time and effort to your benefit regardless of external factors. Make the obstacle the No. 1 priority and focus on it every day until it's gone. 4. Engage Your Own Creativity I like to create rhythm in my life so I can freely engage the creative part of my brain for problem solving. There's no better place to apply expansive thinking than on issues holding you back. Quit banging your head against the same brick wall over and over. Take time to think things through and find creative solutions that bring fun and progress to the grind of obstacle removal. 01:34:00Help4men RadionoReligionhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/10/effectively-mentoring-youths-with-dr-williams-flip-clayFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/10/effectively-mentoring-youths-with-dr-williams-flip-clay/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/10/effectively-mentoring-youths-with-dr-williams-flip-clayFri, 10 Feb 2017 00:00:00 GMTEffectively Mentoring Youths with Dr. Williams Flip ClayFirst, the good news: there’s no one right way to set up mentoring relationships. Programs using adult mentors show similar outcomes to those using older teens (though most churches we’ve worked with find that pairing teenage leaders with adults is an even greater win-win). Programs utilizing a one-on-one approach to mentoring show similar outcomes when compared with group mentoring models. The location where the mentoring takes place doesn’t appear to matter either (whether in a coffee shop or over a game of basketball). It seems effective mentoring relationships travel. Do you have adults who have a heart for meeting with teens one-on-one? Great! Have some that are amazing at building a small group of middle schoolers into a tight-knit community? Fantastic! Have space on campus for groups to meet? Cool! People willing to open up their homes on weeknights? Just as good! Have a few incredible senior girls who can co-lead a freshman small group with a few adult women before going off to college next year? Perfect! Know a few incredible senior citizens willing to love those senior girls unconditionally? Yes, please! Whatever your strengths, resources, or opportunities in your particular setting, use them to build into the lives of teens in intentional ways without worrying that some other model would be better. 00:51:00Help4men RadionoMentoringhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/09/marriage-prenup-yay-or-nayFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/09/marriage-prenup-yay-or-nay/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/09/marriage-prenup-yay-or-nayThu, 09 Feb 2017 00:00:00 GMTMarriage PreNup: Yay or Nay?The thought of discussing this subject with your significant other can often stir up issues around trust, control and sharing. If you are considering a Prenuptial Agreement, how do you bring it up? Firstly, it is really important to be very clear about your motivations. Make sure your partner is fully aware of why you feel it would be an important step for your future to consider a Prenup. It can also be a great opportunity to ensure that the lines of communication in your relationship are open. Secondly, it is important to choose the right time and environment to discuss a prenuptial agreement. Ideally it should be presented slowly, over the course of the relationship, as opposed to three days before the wedding. It is important that you both have plenty of time for discussion. A prenup should never be a surprise! If your partner is the one to bring the topic of a prenup up, try not to dismiss the idea immediately, give your partner a chance to express their thoughts and feelings. Once your decision on a prenup is made, it is important that each spouse have their own legal representative review the contract. It is important that both parties fully understand all of the wording in the contract. The prenup will also need to be updated if any of your circumstances change, for example, if you have children, your assets change, or you move. Finally, if you are unable to execute a prenup in time, you can always consider a postnuptial agreement. Essentially it is the same thing, but it is signed after the wedding. A prenup is obviously not for everyone, but more and more couples in today’s society, for whatever reason are choosing to go down this path. Not only can a prenup be a safegaurd for both parties in a marriage, it can also be an effective tool in defining your relationship. 02:02:00Help4men RadionoMarriagehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/08/relationship-tuesday-going-desperate-signs-of-a-desperate-womanRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/08/relationship-tuesday-going-desperate-signs-of-a-desperate-woman/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/08/relationship-tuesday-going-desperate-signs-of-a-desperate-womanWed, 08 Feb 2017 00:00:00 GMT"Relationship Tuesday" Going Desperate: Signs Of A Desperate WomanIf you are one of those women who are wailing out why you can't seem to have a stable relationship or why men take you for granted. Maybe you are one of those desperate women.In case you're wondering, here are the signs of a desperate woman. * You cannot stand being alone. This means that you are always in a relationship. You fear being alone, you settle for anybody, even if your gut feeling tells you that the guy you’re with is bad news. * You really don’t have a particular type when it comes to men. This should come as a warning sign for you, because this means that you’re not looking for that certain someone so much as you’re looking for a certain anyone. * You prematurely demand commitment. After two weeks of dating, you hear wedding bells, after the 3rd date you want to meet his parents, a month of going out and you already want to move in. You are literally scaring every man you date, girl. * You want what he wants. You practically have no identity. His take is your take. Whatever he thinks, that’s what you think, too. Believe me, your guy may love this initially ‘coz you are playing the compatibility game on him, but after a month or two he’s going to get weird, because nobody wants to date a woman with no opinion, no interests and more importantly, no identity. 02:01:00Help4men RadionoRelationshiphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/07/the-difference-in-parenting-with-cohost-michael-hunt-final-partFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/07/the-difference-in-parenting-with-cohost-michael-hunt-final-part/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/07/the-difference-in-parenting-with-cohost-michael-hunt-final-partTue, 07 Feb 2017 00:00:00 GMTThe Difference in Parenting with Co/Host Michael Hunt (Final Part)Wrapping up our parenting series! 01:59:00Help4men RadionoParentinghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/04/when-the-fantasy-of-a-threesome-goes-great-and-when-it-backfires-pt2Romancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/04/when-the-fantasy-of-a-threesome-goes-great-and-when-it-backfires-pt2/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/04/when-the-fantasy-of-a-threesome-goes-great-and-when-it-backfires-pt2Sat, 04 Feb 2017 01:00:00 GMTWHEN THE FANTASY OF A THREESOME GOES GREAT AND WHEN IT BACKFIRES PT2It seems that men aren't the only ones with a threesome fantasy. New findings from the Journal of Sex Research found the two categories of that both men and women like watching is threesomes and oral sex. Threesomes consistently top the 'fantasies I'd most like to take through to reality' list for both sexes. But there's an enormous difference between watching one online and having one in reality. Of all the fantasies couples choose to act out, inviting another person into your bed is the one most guaranteed to go wrong – and most likely to have negative effects on your relationship long-term. 02:01:00Help4men RadionoSexhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/03/the-state-of-america-miss-tiffany-lancaster-dr-janet-newell-mr-dana-stevensPoliticshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/03/the-state-of-america-miss-tiffany-lancaster-dr-janet-newell-mr-dana-stevens/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/03/the-state-of-america-miss-tiffany-lancaster-dr-janet-newell-mr-dana-stevensFri, 03 Feb 2017 00:00:00 GMTThe State of America ...Miss Tiffany Lancaster, Dr Janet Newell, Mr Dana StevensThe recent global financial crisis has been extremely painful for many. At the risk of sounding overly pessimistic, the facts presented on this page show that the recent crisis is just scratching the surface of a much larger problem. America is under a mountain of debt and the risk of massive inflation appears unavoidable. The nation's financial situation is extremely ominous given the fact that America has shifted from being a nation of producers to being a nation of consumers.  Additionally, Americans' wealth is being expropriated at an increasing rate to fund the special interest of the growing Welfare/Warfare State. The current incentives inherent to our system suggest these trends will continue. If the current path is not changed, it is not unreasonable to expect the result to be either a collapse of the monetary system or a power play to vastly increase in the scope of government - or a combination of both. The first step to saving America is to identify the situation as it current is.  The action taken to 'stimulate economic recovery' is a sedative, not a solution. 02:00:00Help4men RadionoPoliticshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/02/let-go-of-the-something-or-someone-that-has-you-boundFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/02/let-go-of-the-something-or-someone-that-has-you-bound/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/02/let-go-of-the-something-or-someone-that-has-you-boundThu, 02 Feb 2017 00:00:00 GMTLet Go Of The Something or Someone That Has You Bound“If you let go a little, you will have a little peace. If you let go a lot, you will have a lot of peace” We create and maintain problems because they give us a sense of identity. Perhaps this explains why we often hold onto our pain far beyond its ability to serve us. We replay past mistakes over and over again in our head, allowing feelings of shame and regret to shape our actions in the present. We cling to frustration and worry about the future, as if the act of fixation somehow gives us power. We hold stress in our minds and bodies, potentially creating serious health issues, and accept that state of tension as the norm. There will never be a time when life is simple. There will always be time to practice accepting that. Every moment is a chance to let go and feel peaceful.  01:39:00Help4men RadionoHoldinghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/01/can-a-relationship-survive-without-intimacy-physically-or-verballyRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/01/can-a-relationship-survive-without-intimacy-physically-or-verbally/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/02/01/can-a-relationship-survive-without-intimacy-physically-or-verballyWed, 01 Feb 2017 00:00:00 GMTCan a Relationship Survive Without Intimacy, Physically or Verbally?Remember Human beings require intimacy. This is why simple physical affections- such as hand-holding, cuddling, hugs and kisses are important to your relationship. ... Your relationship cannot survive without intimacy, because intimacy is the foundation of any relationship. A relationship needs intimacy. Regardless of whether it's a physical intimacy or an emotional intimacy, your relationship will slowly wither and die without it. This is where it gets tricky. Because your relationship actually needs both types of intimacy. You cannot create a physical intimacy without the emotional intimacy, nor can you have complete emotional intimacy without the physical aspect as well. This is where many couples find their relationship in trouble. It's very common for one type of intimacy to be more important to one partner than the other, then they both find themselves going along thinking everything is fine until their partner finally speaks up and lets them know that the intimacy levels are not what they should be. Or, even more tragic, is when neither partner says anything and they find themselves ending the relationship without really knowing why. If you can't be intimate with your partner, whether physically or emotionally- or both, you cannot expect to having a lasting relationship with your partner. The reason for this is quite simple. Without the emotional and physical bond between mates, there's nothing to hold onto when things get rough and both partners find themselves feeling as though they've got no anchor to keep them safe in the rocky ocean of life.     01:59:00Help4men RadionoRelationshiphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/31/men-talk-mondaythe-difference-in-parenting-with-cohost-michael-hunt-pt3Familyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/31/men-talk-mondaythe-difference-in-parenting-with-cohost-michael-hunt-pt3/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/31/men-talk-mondaythe-difference-in-parenting-with-cohost-michael-hunt-pt3Tue, 31 Jan 2017 00:00:00 GMT"Men Talk Monday"The Difference in Parenting with Co/Host Michael Hunt PT3Guilty mothers always think they could be and thus should be doing more with their kids. And moms, since they are worriers and parent with more intensity, are taskmasters with husbands about what needs doing and how it should be done. They tend to make dad into an assistant mom. In two-career families, this makes dad less than half in the grand scheme of things — he is only half a provider and less than half a parent. Fathers have their own style, which has its own virtues. On the playground jungle gym, worrying moms are more likely to say, "Watch out! Don't go too high." Dads are more likely to say, "See how high you can get." Fathers frequently feel neglected by their wives who they think put their relationship with the kids ahead of their relationship with their husbands. 01:56:00Help4men RadionoParentinghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/28/when-the-fantasy-of-a-threesome-goes-great-and-when-it-backfiresRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/28/when-the-fantasy-of-a-threesome-goes-great-and-when-it-backfires/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/28/when-the-fantasy-of-a-threesome-goes-great-and-when-it-backfiresSat, 28 Jan 2017 01:00:00 GMTWHEN THE FANTASY OF A THREESOME GOES GREAT AND WHEN IT BACKFIRESIt seems that men aren't the only ones with a threesome fantasy. New findings from the Journal of Sex Research found the two categories of that both men and women like watching is threesomes and oral sex. Threesomes consistently top the 'fantasies I'd most like to take through to reality' list for both sexes. But there's an enormous difference between watching one online and having one in reality. Of all the fantasies couples choose to act out, inviting another person into your bed is the one most guaranteed to go wrong – and most likely to have negative effects on your relationship long-term. 02:00:00Help4men RadionoSexualhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/27/the-history-reality-of-race-relations-with-guest-dana-stevensFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/27/the-history-reality-of-race-relations-with-guest-dana-stevens/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/27/the-history-reality-of-race-relations-with-guest-dana-stevensFri, 27 Jan 2017 00:00:00 GMTThe History & Reality of Race Relations with Guest: Dana StevensThe United States has never been entirely sure what to do about race. Alone among the countries in the world, it has attempted to construct not just a state of different tribes, but a nation of them — white and black, Christian and Muslim, and many others, too. Its sense of nationalism has evolved unevenly, slowly incorporating an ever growing chunk of the people within its borders, and it has made steady progress. Yet 2016 offers reasons for unique alarm. The progress of recent decades, both political and social, appears to have evaporated in the past few years. And the problems, as so often, are focused on the two oldest classes of our poor.   02:00:00Help4men RadionoHistoryhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/25/ending-a-relationship-how-do-you-know-when-enough-is-enoughRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/25/ending-a-relationship-how-do-you-know-when-enough-is-enough/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/25/ending-a-relationship-how-do-you-know-when-enough-is-enoughWed, 25 Jan 2017 00:00:00 GMTEnding a Relationship: How Do You Know When Enough Is Enough?When deciding on ending a relationship, the first question we ask ourselves is: How do I know when enough is enough? Someone very special and beautiful asked me that question this week.   01:50:00Help4men RadionoRelationshiphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/24/men-talk-mondaythe-difference-in-parenting-with-cohost-michael-huntFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/24/men-talk-mondaythe-difference-in-parenting-with-cohost-michael-hunt/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/24/men-talk-mondaythe-difference-in-parenting-with-cohost-michael-huntTue, 24 Jan 2017 00:00:00 GMT"Men Talk Monday"The Difference in Parenting with Co/Host Michael HuntGuilty mothers always think they could be and thus should be doing more with their kids. And moms, since they are worriers and parent with more intensity, are taskmasters with husbands about what needs doing and how it should be done. They tend to make dad into an assistant mom. In two-career families, this makes dad less than half in the grand scheme of things — he is only half a provider and less than half a parent. Fathers have their own style, which has its own virtues. On the playground jungle gym, worrying moms are more likely to say, "Watch out! Don't go too high." Dads are more likely to say, "See how high you can get." Fathers frequently feel neglected by their wives who they think put their relationship with the kids ahead of their relationship with their husbands. 02:01:00Help4men RadionoFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/23/his-wants-her-needs-stacy-cyrus-jamari-brown-james-dorsey-keysha-cyrusFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/23/his-wants-her-needs-stacy-cyrus-jamari-brown-james-dorsey-keysha-cyrus/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/23/his-wants-her-needs-stacy-cyrus-jamari-brown-james-dorsey-keysha-cyrusMon, 23 Jan 2017 01:00:00 GMTHis Wants & Her Needs... Stacy Cyrus, Jamari Brown, James Dorsey & Keysha CyrusIgnorance often contributes to a couples failure to care for each other. Men tend to try to meet needs that they value and women do the same. But their needs are often very different and they waste effort trying to meet the wrong needs. The right needs are so strong that when they're not met in marriage, people are tempted to go outside marriage to satisfy them. But aside of the risk of affair, important emotional needs should be met for the sake of care itself. Marriage is a very special relationship. Promises are made to allow a spouse the exclusive right to meet some of these important needs. When they are unmet, it is unfair to the spouse who must go through life without ethical alternatives. 01:57:00Help4men RadionoRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/21/the-3-ssthe-saint-the-sex-tease-the-slut-with-sonny-byrd-jemilah-duboseRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/21/the-3-ssthe-saint-the-sex-tease-the-slut-with-sonny-byrd-jemilah-dubose/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/21/the-3-ssthe-saint-the-sex-tease-the-slut-with-sonny-byrd-jemilah-duboseSat, 21 Jan 2017 02:00:00 GMTThe 3 S's/The Saint, The Sex Tease & The Slut with Sonny Byrd & Jemilah DuBose  A true lady takes off her dignity with her clothes and does her whorish best.  At other times you can be as modest and dignified as your persona requires.  01:42:00Help4men RadionoLovehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/20/emotional-healing-in-the-church-with-tiffany-lancaster-desiree-bonnerFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/20/emotional-healing-in-the-church-with-tiffany-lancaster-desiree-bonner/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/20/emotional-healing-in-the-church-with-tiffany-lancaster-desiree-bonnerFri, 20 Jan 2017 00:00:00 GMTEmotional Healing in the Church with Tiffany Lancaster & Desiree BonnerQuestion: "How can I receive emotional healing?" Answer: Emotional healing is something that every person needs, to one degree or another, for we have all been wounded emotionally. There are many variations of emotional brokenness and pain—as many as there are types of people. Whether the cause is natural or because of another’s sin, the majority of people fight some type of emotional battle. Some of the most common symptoms of emotional harm are sleeplessness, detachment, depression, anger, isolation, bitterness, frustration, and fear. Some of the most common causes are abandonment, broken trust, chronic pain or illness, rejection, a lack of community, and a sense of life’s meaninglessness. Unfortunately, modern culture is a veritable breeding ground for these emotional destroyers. We are increasingly drawn away from community and toward individualism, away from trustworthy behavior and toward selfishness, away from morals that give our lives purpose and toward existentialism and post-modernism that detach us from one another and from our humanity, away from healthy choices and healthy practices and toward instant gratification that degrades our physical health. How can a person flounder to the surface of this cultural wave and find emotional healing? 01:55:00Help4men RadionoChurchhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/19/can-a-woman-be-too-independent-with-pastor-caron-jones-dr-dorian-davisFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/19/can-a-woman-be-too-independent-with-pastor-caron-jones-dr-dorian-davis/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/19/can-a-woman-be-too-independent-with-pastor-caron-jones-dr-dorian-davisThu, 19 Jan 2017 00:00:00 GMTCan a Woman be TOO Independent with Pastor Caron Jones & Dr. Dorian DavisDear Independent Woman, During the twentieth century, women allowed men to do things for them because they desired, demanded and respected chivalry. Nowadays, women are quick to remind men that they “do not need them.” I agree that you do not need a man, but if you want a man, especially a husband, please stop acting so independent. What do I mean? I am not suggesting that you bow down to a man and act as if you cannot do anything for yourself. I am simply suggesting that you allow a man to be man. Respect what he brings to the table. I know you have heard this a million times, but hearing something and understanding it are different. Understand that some men take great pride in treating women like a queen. And I am not talking about buying you material things. There is nothing more attractive to a man than being with a woman who knows her role and worth. A woman who knows her role and worth will allow her man to support her and will support him in return. Coretta Scott King exemplified this behavior and set the standard for women like Michelle Obama to follow. 01:37:00Help4men RadionoWomenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/18/relationship-tuesday-letting-go-of-shitty-relationshipsRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/18/relationship-tuesday-letting-go-of-shitty-relationships/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/18/relationship-tuesday-letting-go-of-shitty-relationshipsWed, 18 Jan 2017 00:00:00 GMT"Relationship Tuesday" LETTING GO OF SHITTY RELATIONSHIPSSome relationships are particularly pernicious. We often develop relationships out of convenience, without considering the traits necessary to build a successful bond with another person—important traits like unwavering support, shared trust, and loving encouragement. When a relationship is birthed out of proximity or chemistry alone, it is bound to fail. We need more than a person’s physical presence to maintain a meaningful connection, but we routinely keep people around simply because they’re already around. It’s easy to develop a connection with a co-worker, schoolmate, or someone who’s always there—even when they’re not adding any real value to our lives. It’s even easier to stay in those relationships: old relationships are comfortable, and starting new relationships is difficult. New relationships require work—but anything worth holding on to does. We’ve all held on to someone who didn’t deserve to be there, and most of us still have someone in our lives who continually drains us: Someone who doesn’t add value. Someone who isn’t supportive. Someone who takes and takes and takes without giving back. Someone who contributes very little, and prevents us from growing. Someone who constantly plays the victim. Victims become victimizers, though, and these people are dangerous: They keep us from feeling fulfilled. They keep us from living purpose-driven lives. Over time, these negative relationships become part of our identity—they define us, they become who we are. 02:01:00Help4men RadionoBad relationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/17/men-talk-monday-the-difference-in-raising-kids-between-fathers-mothersFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/17/men-talk-monday-the-difference-in-raising-kids-between-fathers-mothers/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/17/men-talk-monday-the-difference-in-raising-kids-between-fathers-mothersTue, 17 Jan 2017 00:00:00 GMT"Men Talk Monday" The Difference in Raising Kids Between Fathers & MothersDifferences in parenting: Understanding sex differences can bring a ceasefire in the gender wars. Once we can see that our romantic partners are fundamentally different on the inside as well as out, we will be less likely to expect them to be like all our same-sex friends. Husbands, for example, will see that women in general — not just "their crazy wife" — like to talk about problems that have no solution, and wives will see that most husbands — not just theirs — don't care about the messes they leave in their wake and often don't see them. Mothers are worriers. They are, for example, lighter sleepers when they have their baby in the house. Fathers are less likely to hear a cry at night and more likely to be annoyed than concerned by it if they do. The differences in parenting intensity are greatest with infants and toddlers. Even in families where fathers take leave and express a desire to be the primary caretakers of their new infants, the traditional parenting differences emerge. For example, the mothers display affectionate behavior, vocalize, smile, tend, hold, discipline and soothe the infant more than the fathers do. Mothers are world-class nurturers of infants and toddlers, and they like to do every part of the care more. This includes comforting, caring for the child when sick, buying food or toys, even changing diapers. Even women academics with egalitarian gender attitudes like all parts of care more than their husbands. 01:59:00Help4men RadionoParentinghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/16/impacting-lives-radio-coming-out-of-a-stuck-cycleReligionhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/16/impacting-lives-radio-coming-out-of-a-stuck-cycle/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/16/impacting-lives-radio-coming-out-of-a-stuck-cycleMon, 16 Jan 2017 01:00:00 GMT"Impacting Lives Radio" Coming out of a Stuck CycleYou know how it goes…you feel stuck, you hear something that motivates you, then after a short time you’re back to stuck again and procrastinating moving forward toward your dream. It’s a vicious cycle! And it’s the negative self-talk that is the primary culprit that has you stuck in that cycle. You have so many ideas and aspirations but you keep getting STUCK. Starting projects and not finishing, tons of ideas but not doing anything with them…and then a new day, a new week, a new month, and then a new year….and the same result! STUCK!!!! Until you silence that inner critic, you’re gonna keep having that same struggle — procrastination, paralyzing fear, low self-esteem and self-worth, depression and more! The conversations go a little like… There’s something wrong with meI can’t do thisI’m so stressed outI’m not good enoughI’m not smart enoughI’m not pretty enoughI’m not worthy enoughI’ve made too many mistakesIt’s too late to start nowI can’t see my way out of this It’s that mirror talk! What you are saying to yourself! We spend so much time worrying about what other people say to us or about us when the truth of the matter is that it doesn’t matter what other people say to you or about you. What matters MOST is the conversation you are having with yourself. What do you say to yourself when you look in the mirror?     01:34:00Help4men RadionoCyclehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/13/raw-room-thursday-the-state-of-manhood-with-guest-mr-kl-belvinCulturehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/13/raw-room-thursday-the-state-of-manhood-with-guest-mr-kl-belvin/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/13/raw-room-thursday-the-state-of-manhood-with-guest-mr-kl-belvinFri, 13 Jan 2017 00:00:00 GMT"Raw Room Thursday" The State of Manhood with Guest Mr. KL BelvinThe State of Manhood in America is at an all time low. 1960 – Many of the husbands during this time did not want their wives to work. It was a status symbol. The wife did not work because the man made a bunch of money. Man provided. He was the family’s only source of income. He could beat his chest. Everyone could see that he was the man because his wife didn’t have to work. If a new house was purchased, the man would get the credit. New car, man did that. New furniture, man did that too. Vacation? “Oooh gurl, you got a good man!” In the early part of the Sixties, accolades for men who provided for their families poured in by the ship load. With the male ego being affectionately stroked, man’s manhood remained fully intact. Intact until manhood ran into an Army of Independent Women. I pulled together a group of young ladies over the age of 50. I asked these women a simple but thought provoking question:  “What was the catalyst that started the deterioration of manhood?” After some deliberation the ladies decided that the man changed when the woman started making more money. 1963 – The “Equal Pay For Women Act” was passed. The “Equal Pay For Women Act” positively impacted money but negatively impacted marriage. On the day that the woman started being able to pay the bills, on that day, the male ego started missing hugs. Manhood took a hit. The man felt like he was less of a man because the woman was obviously more woman. She now had more to offer. Up until 1963 women were pretty much only frying bacon but after 1963 women started bringing home the bacon. If I could go back in time, to 1963, I would add an amendment to the “Equal Pay For Women Act.” The amendment would read like this: “Man can fry bacon. It’s ok. Bacon is not sexist.” 01:39:00Help4men RadionoThe State of Manhood in America is at an all time low. 1960 – Many of the husbands during this time did not want their wives to work. It was a status symbol. Thhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/12/family-talk-wednesday-what-does-the-head-of-the-household-means-to-youFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/12/family-talk-wednesday-what-does-the-head-of-the-household-means-to-you/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/12/family-talk-wednesday-what-does-the-head-of-the-household-means-to-youThu, 12 Jan 2017 00:00:00 GMT"Family Talk Wednesday" What Does The Head of The Household Means to YOU?Remember, however, that while their roles are clearly different, the spiritual standing of men and women in Christ is perfectly equal. Even the biblical language of two becoming one flesh underscores the essential oneness of husband and wife in a way that rules out the very notion of inequality. 01:32:00Help4men RadionoRemember, however, that while their roles are clearly different, the spiritual standing of men and women in Christ is perfectly equal. Even the biblical languaghttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/11/relationship-tuesday-unconditional-love-the-key-to-lasting-relationshipsRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/11/relationship-tuesday-unconditional-love-the-key-to-lasting-relationships/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/11/relationship-tuesday-unconditional-love-the-key-to-lasting-relationshipsWed, 11 Jan 2017 00:00:00 GMT"Relationship Tuesday" Unconditional Love: The Key To Lasting Relationships“Love… What is love? Love is to love someone for who they are, who they were, and who they will be.”     01:44:00Help4men RadionoRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/10/men-talk-monday-new-years-resolution-the-dos-and-dontsFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/10/men-talk-monday-new-years-resolution-the-dos-and-donts/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/10/men-talk-monday-new-years-resolution-the-dos-and-dontsTue, 10 Jan 2017 00:00:00 GMT"Men Talk Monday" New Year's Resolution: The Do's and Don'tsDo's Think of your New Year’s resolutions as a step-by-step process – don’t rush into it. If your goals are unrealistic and don’t fit around your current lifestyle or routine, you’ll give up before actually getting started. If you want to get in shape, then aim to join a gym by a date that fits around your schedule – but no later than that. If you want to lose 10 pounds (around five kilos) then aim to lose around a pound (or half a kilo) a week in the first month to see how your body responds to your new diet and exercise plan.Avoid making rash decisions and making claims such as ‘never again!’ Be realistic and go easy on yourself on days when you feel like you’re on the verge of giving up, or are struggling to keep up with your goals.Don’t worry if things don’t work out exactly as you’d hoped. Nobody’s perfect. Learn from your mistakes, take a deep breath, and try again. Don't Don’t set yourself too many impossible goals. Pick out one New Year’s resolution that means something to you and that will make you feel good, both mentally and physically. Choosing an objective that you know you can stick to is the key to success. Start by taking small, meaningful steps toward your final objective. Once you get used to the changes taking place in your everyday life and these become a habit, you can pick up the pace or make additional changes to your lifestyle or routine. Remember that change – the good kind – isn’t always easy. You’ll need to stay strong and be fully committed to your new goals in order to achieve them. 01:46:00Help4men RadionoLifehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/09/impacting-lives-radio-forgivenessReligionhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/09/impacting-lives-radio-forgiveness/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/09/impacting-lives-radio-forgivenessMon, 09 Jan 2017 01:00:00 GMT"Impacting Lives Radio" ForgivenessForgiveness transforms anger and hurt into healing and peace. Forgiveness can help you overcome feelings of depression, anxiety, and rage, as well as personal and relational conflicts. It is about making the conscious decision to let go of a grudge. “When you forgive somebody who has wronged you, you’re spared the dismal corrosion of bitterness and wounded pride. For both parties, forgiveness means the freedom again to be at peace inside their own skins and to be glad in each others’ presence." Peace is not possible without forgiveness. “Forgiveness is not an occasional act; it is a permanent attitude.” The only way children can learn the habit of forgiveness is by seeing us, their parents, forgive others and forgive ourselves.  01:30:00Help4men RadionoForgiveness transforms anger and hurt into healing and peace. Forgiveness can help you overcome feelings of depression, anxiety, and rage, as well as personal ahttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/06/the-war-room-prison-the-new-plantation-with-guest-mr-titus-broomPoliticshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/06/the-war-room-prison-the-new-plantation-with-guest-mr-titus-broom/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/06/the-war-room-prison-the-new-plantation-with-guest-mr-titus-broomFri, 06 Jan 2017 00:00:00 GMT"The War Room" Prison: The New Plantation with guest Mr. Titus BroomThe consequence has now hardened into a box of mass incarceration that has trapped Black America. This proverbial box is so full it is now bursting at the seams, and seeping out are the screams of men like Eric Garner and countless others that simply cannot breathe under its pressure. A past riddled with repetitive efforts to create a class-based system divided by color has been recast through a lens of criminalization. The lasting effects of longstanding racially-biased policies hidden away in boxes of steel, locked behind prison bars across this nation are the lives that prove this point. The faces in large part are Black, but just as important are the legacies behind these lives. These prisoners of this war are marked not just because of their dark skin color, but also because held within their American familial lineage is a cycle of bondage that has come in several different forms. 01:17:00Help4men RadionoThe consequence has now hardened into a box of mass incarceration that has trapped Black America. This proverbial box is so full it is now bursting at the seamshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/05/family-talk-wednesday-love-outside-in-vs-love-inside-outFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/05/family-talk-wednesday-love-outside-in-vs-love-inside-out/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/05/family-talk-wednesday-love-outside-in-vs-love-inside-outThu, 05 Jan 2017 00:00:00 GMT"Family Talk Wednesday" "Love Outside-In vs. Love Inside-Out"Do You LOVE From The Inside Out Or The Outside In?   This may sound like a strange question, but when you realize that there are different ways of loving and that all love is not equal, it is life transforming. Whether you’re on a spiritual path or any path for that matter, one of the most common things we hear is that love is all there really is. We here it in songs, books, on posters, and pretty much anywhere and everywhere. We learn that our true nature is love and that when we stray from our true nature, we will suffer and be unhappy in some way. It wasn’t until I was in my early 50’s and started questioning who’s responsible for what that I began to realize that there is a difference between loving from the inside out and the outside in. What is the difference between these two perspectives on love? When we love from the outside in we come from the perspective that it is the other person’s responsibility to make us feel loved. If we don’t feel loved, it is their fault and we are the “victim”.   00:56:00Help4men RadionoDo You LOVE From The Inside Out Or The Outside In?   This may sound like a strange question, but when you realize that there are different ways of loving andhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/04/relationship-tuesday-ladies-too-damaged-to-love-againRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/04/relationship-tuesday-ladies-too-damaged-to-love-again/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2017/01/04/relationship-tuesday-ladies-too-damaged-to-love-againWed, 04 Jan 2017 00:00:00 GMTRelationship Tuesday! Ladies! Too Damaged to Love Again?Microwave Love Misses Out on Real Intimacy We live in a fast-paced culture and the result is we want everything to come as a quick delivery. Love takes time to develop; it is not a process that can be accelerated. Loving someone deeply requires taking the time to truly know them. It takes honesty, it requires some risks and it takes a tremendous amount of trust. Yet many people think they can just fast forward the process like some steamy scene in a romance movie and begin a real relationship with sex instead of communication. It is doomed to fail because microwave love misses out on real intimacy. Lovers need to slow down and “take all the steps along the way”. Could it be that we hurry through love, rush relationships, speed up sex, and race through life in general because we are all too wounded to be willing to take the risk of loving someone deeply? Or could it be that our culture has just lost the ability to love because we have become too narcissistic and self-centered? Hurrying through life keeps us so busy that it steals the important solitude that we need to be healthy and whole, both psychologically and spiritually. In other words it keeps us from fully feeling our emotions of loneliness and emptiness. Maybe that's why some people stay so busy and never take a minute to slow down, because if they did it would mean getting honest about what's missing in their life and that would be too painful, so it's off to another busy activity to avoid getting real. 01:37:00Help4men RadionoLovehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/12/13/relationship-tuesday-learning-to-walk-away-from-a-bad-relationship-1Romancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/12/13/relationship-tuesday-learning-to-walk-away-from-a-bad-relationship-1/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/12/13/relationship-tuesday-learning-to-walk-away-from-a-bad-relationship-1Tue, 13 Dec 2016 23:30:00 GMT"Relationship Tuesday" Learning To Walk Away From A Bad RelationshipAt times, a relationship can do more harm than good for you. Recognize the signs and understand how to let go of a relationship that’s bad for you. Relationships are always a happy experience. Well, until things start to go bad. That’s when a beautiful relationship can actually bring your life to a standstill and trick you into a world of complications and pain. Are you in a relationship where you’re not experiencing the happiness you think you deserve? If you think it, there’s a good chance that it’s true. How to let go of a relationship The funny thing about relationships is that it’s all in your head. A relationship is over when you think it’s over. If you’re not as happy as you think you should be in a relationship, you should let go even if you still love that person. It’s that simple really. You’re not being selfish. You’re doing both of you a favor. It’s always better to let go of a bad relationship than hold on when you see no happiness at the end of the tunnel. 01:20:00Help4men RadionoRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/12/13/men-talk-monday-lets-talk-about-sex-pt2Familyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/12/13/men-talk-monday-lets-talk-about-sex-pt2/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/12/13/men-talk-monday-lets-talk-about-sex-pt2Tue, 13 Dec 2016 00:00:00 GMT"Men Talk Monday" Lets Talk About Sex Pt2Does the thought of talking sex with your partner bring you outside of your comfort zone? Do you feel really awkward talking about sex? For many couples, talking sex is not on the agenda. Sex can be a no go topic for all sorts of reasons. – “My parents were not comfortable talking sex” – “My partner ought to know what I want without my having to say it” – “Sex is too intimate to talk about.” 02:01:00Help4men RadionoSexhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/12/06/men-talk-monday-lets-talk-about-sexSelf Helphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/12/06/men-talk-monday-lets-talk-about-sex/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/12/06/men-talk-monday-lets-talk-about-sexTue, 06 Dec 2016 00:00:00 GMTMen Talk Monday" Lets Talk About SexDoes the thought of talking sex with your partner bring you outside of your comfort zone? Do you feel really awkward talking about sex? For many couples, talking sex is not on the agenda. Sex can be a no go topic for all sorts of reasons. – “My parents were not comfortable talking sex” – “My partner ought to know what I want without my having to say it” – “Sex is too intimate to talk about.” 01:47:00Help4men RadionoSexhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/12/03/intimate-moment-radio-and-you-say-hesshes-just-a-friendRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/12/03/intimate-moment-radio-and-you-say-hesshes-just-a-friend/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/12/03/intimate-moment-radio-and-you-say-hesshes-just-a-friendSat, 03 Dec 2016 02:00:00 GMT"Intimate Moment Radio" And You Say He's/She's Just A FriendAre You Just Friends? 01:32:00Help4men RadionoFriendshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/30/family-talk-wednesday-being-alone-vs-being-lonelyFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/30/family-talk-wednesday-being-alone-vs-being-lonely/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/30/family-talk-wednesday-being-alone-vs-being-lonelyWed, 30 Nov 2016 23:30:00 GMT"Family Talk Wednesday" "Being Alone vs. Being Lonely"In reality, there is a magnificent difference between being lonely and being alone. Being lonely is that kind of aching that resonates in your chest. That dull, constant feeling that follows you around all day long. It doesn't matter what you're doing or whom you're with, it's impossible to shake that feeling. The stereotypes that often come with leading a single life are generally categorized into one group: loneliness. It is so often assumed that those who have not yet found that special person who makes the world a little brighter are experience those god-awful waves of loneliness. In reality, there is a magnificent difference between being lonely and being alone. 01:25:00Help4men RadionoIn reality, there is a magnificent difference between being lonely and being alone. Being lonely is that kind of aching that resonates in your chest. That dull,http://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/29/relationship-tuesday-trust-issues-why-is-it-so-hard-for-women-to-trust-againRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/29/relationship-tuesday-trust-issues-why-is-it-so-hard-for-women-to-trust-again/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/29/relationship-tuesday-trust-issues-why-is-it-so-hard-for-women-to-trust-againTue, 29 Nov 2016 23:30:00 GMT"Relationship Tuesday" Trust Issues, Why Is It So Hard for Women to Trust AGAIN?Trust—the act of placing confidence in someone or something other than yourself—is social superglue. It is the binding for the deepest love the strongest friendships, and the world’s communities. Modern society is built on trust, and in the absence of trust, fear rules. Trust can take years to develop, but it can be destroyed in an instant. People who have issues with trust have often had significant negative experiences in the past with individuals or organizations they initially deemed trustworthy. For example, studies show that children of divorced parents and those from abusive households are more likely to have intimacy,  committment and trust issues in future relationships. A person with trust issues may harbor negative beliefs about trust and may find themselves thinking limiting thoughts, such as: “I can never let my guard down.” “If I open up I will only get hurt again.” “Everybody is out to get me.” 01:47:00Help4men RadionoTrust—the act of placing confidence in someone or something other than yourself—is social superglue. It is the binding for the deepest love the strongest friendhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/28/men-talk-monday-women-on-trial-double-standards-in-relationships-part-2Familyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/28/men-talk-monday-women-on-trial-double-standards-in-relationships-part-2/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/28/men-talk-monday-women-on-trial-double-standards-in-relationships-part-2Mon, 28 Nov 2016 23:30:00 GMT"Men Talk Monday" Women On Trial, Double Standards In Relationships Part #2Double standards can be small and unassuming. They're still annoying. Like when he mentions that you've gained weight, but so has he. Or, when he tells you not to cut your hair, but had his head shaved two days earlier. Does it bother you when he raises his brows when you order a cheeseburger, and he just ordered the biggest steak on the menu? 01:52:00Help4men RadionoMenhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/22/relationship-tuesday-how-to-improve-physical-intimacyRelationshipshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/22/relationship-tuesday-how-to-improve-physical-intimacy/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/22/relationship-tuesday-how-to-improve-physical-intimacyTue, 22 Nov 2016 23:30:00 GMT"Relationship Tuesday" How to Improve Physical IntimacyWhether you're a man or a woman, you probably know that while physical intimacy with your partner can be an opportunity to deepen your love and affection, it can occasionally be a source of great stress. When we open ourselves up to our partner through physical affection or sex, we render ourselves emotionally vulnerable, making any mistakes or difficulties hurt much more deeply than they would if they had occurred in another area of life. Thus, such problems should not be ignored, as physical intimacy issues can put serious strain on a relationship.            01:41:00Help4men RadionoPhysical Intimacyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/21/men-talk-monday-women-on-trial-double-standards-in-relationshipsFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/21/men-talk-monday-women-on-trial-double-standards-in-relationships/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/21/men-talk-monday-women-on-trial-double-standards-in-relationshipsMon, 21 Nov 2016 23:30:00 GMT"Men Talk Monday" Women On Trial, Double Standards In Relationships Double standards can be small and unassuming. They're still annoying. Like when he mentions that you've gained weight, but so has he. Or, when he tells you not to cut your hair, but had his head shaved two days earlier. Does it bother you when he raises his brows when you order a cheeseburger, and he just ordered the biggest steak on the menu? Maybe it bothers you when your spouse doesn't like your new dress . . . and says it while wearing that ugly Hawaiian shirt you hate. Did it bother him when you bought a new car without his permission? You forgot he wanted to wait on that new car purchase; it was just such a good deal. Do you feel like your opinion doesn't matter? It's possible your partner doesn't realize you feel that way. Once confronted, it might never happen again. Admitting mistakes can start the healing process; sitting down for a frank discussion can be the beginning of that. Are there other double standards that make you see red? Did he ask you to dump your best male friend at work, but has a female friend of his own? Reassure him it's a platonic relationship, just like his. Once it's out in the open, you can discuss it. By clearing the air, you might prevent a future argument. 01:48:00Help4men RadionoDouble standards can be small and unassuming. They're still annoying. Like when he mentions that you've gained weight, but so has he. Or, when he tells you nothttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/08/relationship-tuesday-physical-attraction-relationships-how-long-does-it-lastRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/08/relationship-tuesday-physical-attraction-relationships-how-long-does-it-last/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/08/relationship-tuesday-physical-attraction-relationships-how-long-does-it-lastTue, 08 Nov 2016 23:30:00 GMT"Relationship Tuesday" Physical Attraction Relationships, How Long Does It Last?Physical attractiveness is the degree to which a person's physical features are considered aesthetically pleasing or beautiful. The term often implies sexual attractiveness or desirability, but can also be distinct from either. The concept of attraction has been defined in many ways by many different experts in the field of relationships. Some look to biology to explain why we are attracted. Others believe we unconsciously replicate our attraction to our opposite sex-parent. Some believe we’re attracted to those with the same level of emotional maturity or differentiation of self. And still others believe that our unconscious, internalized conflicts choose our partners. These are plausible theories that have been supported by research and clinical experience--—and all are deterministic. The biological theory offers that our nature chooses our partners for us (e.g., hormones in love); the latter three psychological explanations contend that partner choice is rooted and shaped in early youth, in relation to our parents. Relationship therapists usually abide by the theory that they were initially trained in so it’s no surprise that it’s impossible to get a unanimous agreement between them on attraction. N 01:38:00Help4men RadionoAttractionhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/02/family-talk-wednesday-in-marriage-separate-or-joint-accountsFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/02/family-talk-wednesday-in-marriage-separate-or-joint-accounts/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/02/family-talk-wednesday-in-marriage-separate-or-joint-accountsWed, 02 Nov 2016 22:30:00 GMT"Family Talk Wednesday" "In Marriage: Separate or Joint Accounts"Despite the well-meaning advice of family and friends, there is no ideal way to combine a married couple's money that works for everyone, "Separate checking accounts allow two people who were previously financially independent to maintain a sense of autonomy as they adjust to the interdependent life of coupledom," That doesn't mean you shouldn't share spending information, and it's not an excuse for financial secrecy. Instead, separate checking accounts should help prevent arguments about money and give both spouses a feeling of fairness and independence.   01:12:00Help4men RadionoFinancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/01/relationship-tuesday-stages-of-intimacy-part-1-of-3Romancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/01/relationship-tuesday-stages-of-intimacy-part-1-of-3/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/11/01/relationship-tuesday-stages-of-intimacy-part-1-of-3Tue, 01 Nov 2016 22:30:00 GMT"Relationship Tuesday" Stages Of Intimacy Part 1 of 3Believe it or not, grief and intimacy mirror one another—the intensity, the dullness, the gains, and the loss. Although there are no typical couples every relationship goes through intimacy stages. And just like with grief, these stages do not always happen in a certain order.  Infatuation: 2.    "OMG, I just met the love of my life." 3.    "He is perfect. I want to marry him." 4.    "I can't believe we have so much in common." 5.    "He is great in bed." 6.    "I cannot wait to see him again." Oh, the sweet, syrupy stage of infatuation. It's so wonderful and so difficult to resist.  01:39:00Help4men RadionoIntimacyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/10/31/men-talk-monday-one-mans-porno-is-like-another-womans-novel-pt2Familyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/10/31/men-talk-monday-one-mans-porno-is-like-another-womans-novel-pt2/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/10/31/men-talk-monday-one-mans-porno-is-like-another-womans-novel-pt2Mon, 31 Oct 2016 22:30:00 GMT"Men Talk Monday" One Man's Porno, Is Like Another Woman's Novel PT2Concerns over ography addiction and love addiction can also become part of the dialogue about addictive behavior toward romance novels. Not only is there a repeated sense of arousal and escape in graphically portrayed romance novel sex scenes, nearing a ographic effect for many women. There’s also the risk of letting fictional characters feed the craving for one new love relationship after another – a hallmark symptom of love addiction. 01:44:00Help4men RadionoSexhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/10/29/intimate-moments-radio-how-important-is-sex-for-women-over-30Romancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/10/29/intimate-moments-radio-how-important-is-sex-for-women-over-30/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/10/29/intimate-moments-radio-how-important-is-sex-for-women-over-30Sat, 29 Oct 2016 01:00:00 GMT"Intimate Moments Radio" HOW IMPORTANT IS SEX FOR WOMEN OVER 30Imagine the best sex of your life. Now imagine it getting better. According to our exclusive report, sex never has to stop becoming hotter. These women reveal how to make sure it happens. Testosterone begins to slowly decline (it peaked in your 20s),  Yet women in their 30s tend to have heightened orgasms. TIP: If you didn't experiment with self-touch in your 20s, do it now. "This is key for keeping your sex drive going," Try inserting a finger and slowly rubbing at the top of the front wall of your vagina (the "A-spot," which helps you produce lubrication) for about 10 minutes. 01:26:00Help4men RadionoSexhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/10/25/relationship-tuesday-things-all-women-want-in-a-relationshipRomancehttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/10/25/relationship-tuesday-things-all-women-want-in-a-relationship/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/10/25/relationship-tuesday-things-all-women-want-in-a-relationshipTue, 25 Oct 2016 22:30:00 GMT"Relationship Tuesday" Things All Women Want In A RelationshipMen and women are at an emotional stalemate. We feel something’s lacking in our relationships. The majority of men aren’t able to penetrate their women fully, nor are women fully opening to their men. Women aren’t opening because men aren’t giving them what they need. Women feel disappointed and resentful; they are suffering. When women suffer, and they feel like they aren’t being seen, they close off to their men. Fortunately, you can learn the right tools to be able to more fully penetrate your woman. You can give your partner what she needs, allowing her to feel seen so that she will open again. What Do Women Need In A Relationship? Women want partners that care. *Women don’t want perfect partners; they want men who are striving to be their best selves. *She doesn’t necessarily want someone who has every step of his life pre-planned, but she wants someone with drive and with goals. *She doesn’t necessarily want someone who cries every day, but she does want someone who has the courage to cry in front of her when he needs to. *She doesn’t necessarily want someone who stays in therapy for his entire life, but she does want someone who has the courage to face his own emotional demons. 01:37:00Help4men RadionoRelationshiphttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/10/24/men-talk-monday-one-mans-porno-is-like-another-womans-novelFamilyhttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/10/24/men-talk-monday-one-mans-porno-is-like-another-womans-novel/#commentshttp://www.blogtalkradio.com/help4men/2016/10/24/men-talk-monday-one-mans-porno-is-like-another-womans-novelMon, 24 Oct 2016 22:30:00 GMT"Men Talk Monday" One Man's Porno, Is Like Another Woman's NovelConcerns over ography addiction and love addiction can also become part of the dialogue about addictive behavior toward romance novels. Not only is there a repeated sense of arousal and escape in graphically portrayed romance novel sex scenes, nearing a ographic effect for many women. There’s also the risk of letting fictional characters feed the craving for one new love relationship after another – a hallmark symptom of love addiction. 01:44:00Help4men RadionoMen issues