H. Scott Gordon  

Do men and women cheat in relationships for the same reasons?

This is as very touchy topic...cheating and infidelity. Once thought to only be a "man" problem or only done by promiscuous women, the issue of cheating is now prevalent in relationships. Why is that? Why do people cheat and is there a difference between the sexes?

I feel that men and women cheat for different reasons. I feel men cheat because they are not fulfilled in there relationship. The spice is gone and they need to get their freak on. Most times it's sexual. We don't get the passion that we once got from our mate and sex becomes routine so we seek new territories to conquer. And sometimes we are just plain greedy and want all we can get.

I feel that women on the other hand resort to infidelity only after they have exhausted all possibilities in their relationships. When the man has continually ignored their request for love, time, intimacy, s*@t just to listen to how their day was, is when I feel women seek relationships outside their committed one.

What do think? Get at me.