Leave Everyone Alone

Allow others to have their life experience.  This is a tough one.  We want to protect, help and save our loved ones from all the pitfalls we encountered.  When in fact, it is those very pitfalls that we experienced that makes each of us unique. 

Most of us during the bulk of our day, use this as a distraction.  It keeps us focused on the 'out there' thing.  It keeps us thinking we are somehow controlling our circumstances by controlling the people around us.  Let's face it.  The only real reason we try to control someone else's experience is so that we won't have to experience the effect it has on us.  I want to FEEL good and I can't FEEL good if you are doing THAT.  That's it!!  The bottom line.  You can try to make it look all altruistic all you want, but that is the true motivation behind controlling anyone.  WE don't want to FEEL uncomfortable.

We are doing nothing less than controlling our outside circumstances to make ourselves FEEL better.  That never works.  Each person is an individual, here to have their own experiences.  Think about the results you get when you try to 'help' someone who hasn't asked for it.  They resent it.  You are taking away their power to create and that will never FEEL good to anyone.  Focus on yourself.  Stay within yourself.  

Once you have that walking on water thing down, then I guess you might have a leg to stand on.  But by then you will know that each person is having their own unique experience and all will be well with them just like it IS for you.