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How many of you
Have said that I'm only in this relationship because....
or
I Only stay because....
or
They will one day......

Well we all lie to ourselves to make sense of how we if we where thinking clearly would have never let ourselves get into such situations.  Life does have options that we can make for  ourselves, but do many see that there is options, or do we just see what's in our face?  That is a question that can be answered honestly, if we stop living with blinders on, and face the facts that we are not given a 2nd retake or that this is a rehershal!

We must and will be real as to the circumstances, since what we do this minute can reflex back on us for a lifetime.  I was watching Judge Hatchett this morning, and I saw a woman who already had 4 children from 2 men, get hooked up for the weekend with a 22 year old, who did not work, go to school, or had any prospects for anything other than laying on his mommas sofa.  this 22 year old was on a mission to get his sexual needs satisfied, and did not want anything other than that, and didn't wrap-it up, so for the next 18 years, he will have to deal with a woman who he thought of as a quick "you know what", and had no feelings and even a relationship of friendship with this person for a few days of pleasure.  Does that make any sense?

Well we do the same thing without thinking about the what ifs, and how we can be affect for life.  If you are only looking for pleasure of the skin, then protect yourself and be honest with yourself, and be able to say I survinved this improptu relationship other than I can't believe I got what, or you are what, or how much is that going to cost, or how much bail!

If you understand what I'm saying, then hear this, you have a right to be rich versus being poor, happy versus sad, and do you know that is real.  To be anything, it takes work and persistence, that is the only difference of the negative versus the positive.  I will strive every day to make the differences in my life, and not depend upon others to make my life!