Call in to speak with the host
2 Corinthians 8:10-11; " And here is my advice, about what is best for you in this matter; last year you were the first, not only to give but also to have the desire to do so. Now finish the work, so that your eager willingness to do it may be matched by your completion of it, according to your means. For if the willingness is there, the gift is acceptable according to what one has, not according to what he does not have."
You are committed to what you confess. (Edwin Louis Cole)
It's good to talk.