Search Engine Optimization (SEO) with BlogTalkRadio

Entrepreneur published a great article today, 5 Easy Ways to Improve Your Site’s Search ...

Enhancing Your BlogTalkRadio Show with Cinch

BlogTalkRadio was launched in September of 2006 as the dream of a man and his father to give ...

Celebrating Ten Years of FLYing!

In today’s speed-of-light culture, it’s not very often we get to celebrate a 10th ...

 

Your show will start playing after this message

Listeners

  • doncalypso
  • GeoGee
  • The Crazy Old Man
  • Scholar2414
  • devilishTRICKZ
  • The Miss Mo Show
  • msegypt99
  • iAscend Programs
  • GuardianX
  • The J Ril Show
  • Shea85
  • Dashanique123
  • RoninSoul75
  • That's Real Talk
  • Gorgeous T
  • 2BENLIGHTENED
  • futuretalkshowchick
  • Keep It Raw Radio
  • Rags
  • JoRiginal

Friends (31)

  • The Miss Mo Show
  • Tunein242
  • Dejaymadhouse
  • J.L. Godfrey
  • playacardzright
  • The Crazy Old Man
  • Dr. Happi Heart
  • THE ZONE WITH DEV
  • The J Ril Show
  • NeXplicableP
  • RoninSoul75
  • That's Real Talk
  • Seriously McMillan
  • ALLAHSNATIONOFISLAM
  • Adelleabw40
  • SistaSistaSister
  • Dynamic Daphne
  • Diamonaire Lifestyle
  • FromBX2FL
  • TheraT

Comments

Esoteric Chick Radio

Esoteric Chick Radio

Hey babes! Thanks for supporting my show, and look forward to listening into your shows.

The GeoGee Show  

A talk radio format with a unique twist of music and callers that cover politics, health, social, financial, sports and religious topics from diverse perspectives. What you will find are the topics that are relative to you and your life. There is something on every show that someone can benefit from. Be sure to check out the show blog for additional information on posted show topics. Most of all, be sure to tune in for one of the most comprehensive radio shows not on radio.

Show Notes

Low Self Worth: codependents tend to come from troubled, dysfunctional families, and will deny this to the very end. They blame themselves for their family's shortcomings. They blame themselves for everything. They pick on themselves constantly: not intelligent enough, not pretty enough, not smart enough, not athletic enough, not good enough. But if another criticizes them, boy do they get defensive and angry, not to mention self-righteous. Don't try to give a codependent a compliment; they reject all compliments and praise, even though they get depressed from lack of compliments and praise. They feel "different" from the rest of the world. They reject themselves, but fear rejection. Everything is taken personally, they love being the victim (though will deny it with their last breath). They have been victims of sexual, physical, or emotional abuse, abandonment, neglect, and/or alcoholism. They feel like victims, carry lots of guilt and shame, and think their lives are not worth living. They should have done this, should have done that. They "should" themselves to death. Codependents say, "Why me?" on the outside, and know "why me" on the inside. While trying to prove to others that they are good enough, to themselves they are worthless and empty. Repression: most codependents repress their own needs, their own desires. They are afraid to let themselves be who they are and often appear rigid and controlled. They repress all thoughts of self worth out of their awareness and they are full of guilt. Codependents cannot have fun. Obsessive Compulsive Disorder: codependents worry. They worry about the slightest and silliest things: they worry that people are talking about them; they worry that people are not talking about them; they lose sleep over little things; they check up on others; they try to catch people in the act; they never find any answers, they focus on other's problems; they spend money compulsively; eat or drink compulsively; and wonder why they have no energy and why they never get anything done. Controlling Behaviors: codependents try to control events and people through helplessness, guilt, coercion, threats, advice-giving, manipulation, or domination. They are afraid to let people be who they are or let events happen naturally. They've lived in so many situations in which they had no control (abuse, alcoholism, etc) that they now try to control everything and get frustrated and angry when they cannot. They end up feeling controlled by events. They feel controlled by others. They resist change as if change were a contagion. Denial: codependents ignore problems or pretend they do not exist. They pretend things are not as bad as they are; they tell themselves it will get better; they stay busy to avoid thinking about things; they get confused, sick, depressed and visit doctors for a prescription. Many are workaholics. They lie to themselves and others. They believe their lies. And most of all, codependents will leave a healthy situation (by lying to themselves that it was an unhealthy situation) and get back into an unhealthy situation; though for the most part, most codependents either never leave an unhealthy situation/relationship, or they go from one unhealthy situation/relationship to another. Dependency: codependents do not feel happy or content with themselves. They look to others to supply them their happiness or their needs. They are threatened by the loss of anything or any person that provides them with their happiness. They do NOT love themselves. They did not feel loved by their parents. They equate love with pain and believe others are never, ever there for them. They need people more than they want them; their lives revolve around someone else's life; they tolerate abuse; feel trapped; leave one bad relationship and jump into another bad relationship. They wonder if they will ever find true love. And if they do find true love, they will leave that and find a loveless relationship becaus
  • Upcoming Episodes

    Date / Time:

    Category: Health

    Call-in Number: (347) 215-7030


    ****DUE TO THE PASSING OF MY BROTHER THIS SHOW HAS BEEN RESCHEDULED FOR SUNDAY DECEMBER 13, 2009 @6:00PM EST******** In its broadest sense, codependency can be defined as an addiction to people, behaviors, or things. Codependency is the fallacy of trying to control interior feelings by controlling people, things, and events on the outside. To the codependent,control or lack of it is central to every aspect of life. In the case of a caustic relationship The codependent may be addicted to another person. In this interpersonal codependency, the codependent has become so elaborately embedded in the other person that the sense of self, and personal identity is severely restricted,devoured by that other person’s identity and problems. Additionally, codependents can be like vacuum cleaners gone wild,drawing to themselves not just another person, but also chemicals (alcohol or drugs, primarily) or things - money, food, sexuality, work. They struggle relentlessly to fill the great emotional vacuum within themselves. This show examines codependent character traits, and the relationships they fuel, as well as the destruction it does to both parties in the relationship.

    Upcoming Episodes

    - Violating Under The Radar- Brothers on The Downlow

  • On Demand Episodes

    Original Air Date:

    TOURS IN THE HOOD

    ****SPECIAL EDITION SHOW**** Some US Cities are gearing up to begin offering franchised tours into their distressed and impoverished neighborhoods. Notably at the top of the list and slated to get going in January 2010 is Los Angeles’ where activists will begin promoting tourism into South Central. According to a recent report in The Los Angeles Times, a non-profit group plans to offer two-hour tours at an initial cost of $65.00 per adult with profits being returned to the toured neighborhoods via jobs and micro loans to inner-city entrepreneurs. We'll discuss Tours in The Hood. My NFL two game highlight dipback of the week. Ladies, we want to know. If you were one of Tiger Wood's past aquaintances, would you come out of obscurity and reveal it? Guys how much would you pay her to keep quiet? That and the hot music, and more on this edition of the GeoGee Show

  • Original Air Date:

    Narcissistic-Condescending Spouses & Mates

    Ed, a city bus driver, wife holds a PHD in Criminal Science consistently talks down to him and excludes him from social discussions because of his high school education. She doesn't feel he has the intellect to contribute anything to the discussions. She even refuses to let him assist their 16 year old son with his homework, because she feels Ed isn’t “educated” enough to understand it -------------------------------------------------- Gladys says her boyfriend openly gawks and flirts with other women when they are out together. He has even gone so far as to admit he's attracted to a friend or two of Gladys’s. Gladys’s has discussed her displeasure with her boyfriend, and his response has been pretty much, "deal with it; I'm not doing anything wrong." -------------------------------------------------- Then there is Ethel. Ethel has a boyfriend that has no qualms about knocking the boots with her on the regular. Along with that he often criticizes Ethel's breast, and leg size telling her they're too small and she needs to look like this or that woman. He also never takes Ethel to social corporate functions, however will take her to cookouts, carnivals, and the like. When in a conversation with others, and Ethel is asked a question, he often answers for her before she has a chance. -------------------------------------------------- That's at the top of the roster on this episode of The GeoGee Show. If you or someone you know, are in a scenario similar or identical to the above, this show is for you. **GeoGee** will be all over this one with the aim to arrive at solutions for resolving the disrespectful and pompous spouse & mate dilemma. Tune in right here on your PC or laptop for a power hour.

  • Original Air Date:

    WHAT DO WOMEN SERIOUSLY WANT FROM MEN?

    Gold diggers, jump offs,cheaters for no valid, cause, second agenda harboring, drama perpetuating baby mamas and drama queens need not apply for this one. GeoGee & fellow blogtalk radio show host futuretalkshowchick are going to the real women that are down with morals, values and really want constructive, sustained relationships and marriages for this one. Women that are pursuing relationships conducive to the health and well being of their emotional, spiritual, physical, sexual and psychological requirements.******** Thus the question.*** WHAT DO WOMEN SERIOUSLY WANT FROM MEN?***** FutureTalkShowChick will be live and in living color along with GeoGee to to get to the bottom of this age old question of What do women seriously want from men. Leave the body language at the door in this segment, and use something that never fails to seemingly get a man's attention. The lips. Talk to the men tonight ladies from an unbiased heart and sincere soul. Tell them what's really up, so we will really know, what you seriously need and want from them. Forget what some jerk of the past has done for 90 minutes and focus on what you want of that man of the future. The intimacy extraordinaire herself, FutureTalkShowChick and GeoGee together on the same show is bound to be a major event.

  • Original Air Date:

    Safeguard Your Marriage or Relationship Against Cheating

    On this edition of The GeoGee Show we look at behavior modification, communication, trust, respect, honesty, and other tools that can be utilized to safeguard relationships and marriages against infidelity in all its forms. In the discussion forum we'll touch on the lacking elements that weakens the bond of solidified marriages and relationships that results in wandering eyes, yearning hearts and ultimately that treacherous step out of bounds. A multitude of books, and therapy are abound addressing post infidelity carnage.***** This shows goal will be to lay some knowledge down that will hopefully keep your union strong vibrant and violation free. So let's see what we can do to detour mistresses, jumpoffs, friends with benefits, and people that just don't have any respect for other's marriages and relationships.

  • Original Air Date:

    What Do Real Men Want From Women?

    This has been a much hashed out topic over the years with a myriad of conclusions. No doubt. I decided with the changing cultural, economic and social climates we've experienced in the past five years, to revisit the question for any changes in conclusions. *****In this episode, I explore what real every day intelligent, hardworking men really want in a woman. My goal is to expose *"What gets a woman beyond the FWB / jump-off status, or the hit and quit scenario?* What catapults casual dating into, Caribbean cruises, flowers at work, long enjoyable days and nights together, fine dinning, home to meet the mom, spontaneous gifts and phone calls?* **What GPS buttons should be pushed that will steer a man toward long term gratifying sincere commitment?**** On this episode of the GeoGee show, we find out. From real men being real.

  • Date / Time:

    Safeguarding Marriages & Relationships Against Infidelity and Cheating

    Safeguarding marriages and relationships against infidelity takes two personal convictions I believe.
    One, an appreciation of the fact that infidelity can be present in other forms other than sexual. Two, to discourage any of them takes behavior modification and a realigned attitude.

    Lets say you've  manipulated a checkbook, or lied about a financial  issue with the intent to mislead your spouse or significant other. You've lied about your whereabouts in the past. Or, you have a flirty internet friendship going on with someone behind your spouses back, haven't slept with them, just flirting and conversing back and fourth. All forms of infidelity and cheating in some aspect. These are the falsely perceived harmless ones that can lead right into the big one that gets all the press.

    Think about it. Anything that you cover up or disguise from your significant other that makes you feel guilty, or bad must be a bad act, or you wouldn't feel that way. And deception, is deception on any level.

    To solidify relationships and marriages against outside forces, we have to first build and maintain emotional strength from the inside.

    We have to take advantage of behavior modification, communication, trust, respect, honesty, and other tools that can be utilized to safeguard relationships and marriages against infidelity in all its forms.

    Before the tools are effective however we have to identify elements that weakens the bond of solidified marriages and relationships resulting in wandering eyes, yearning hearts and ultimately that treacherous step out of bounds. A multitude of books, and therapy are abound addressing post infidelity carnage. No need for me to address that here.

    My aim here is to trigger dialogue that  lay some knowledge down to keep your union strong vibrant and violation free.

    What say you?


    Be sure and listen to the show!!!

  • Date / Time:

    What Do Real Men Want From Women?

    This has been a much hashed out topic over the years with a myriad of conclusions. No doubt. Considering today's casual attitudes toward spiraling divorce rates, wholesale sex, the ever changing cultural, economic and social climates, I feel its time to revisit the question. What Do Real Men Want From Women? Real men, not players, macks, mannequins and misfits.

    Just what is it real every day intelligent, hardworking men really want in a woman? 

    What gets a woman beyond the FWB / jump-off status, or the hit and quit scenario?  What catapults casual dating into, Caribbean cruises, flowers at work, long enjoyable days and nights together, fine dinning, home to meet the mom, spontaneous gifts and phone calls?

    What GPS buttons should be pushed that will steer a man toward long term gratifying sincere commitment? And if one is so inclined on to the altar in a seriously committed manner.

    I'm betting that sex is not going to be at the top of the list, which will spurn another topic within itself. I'm also betting submissive and docile won't be either.

    Guys, let's hear from you. Here and live on the GeoGee show.

Everything Else

Listen

 

Participate

 

Services and Terms

 

Corporate

 

BlogTalkRadio

 

© 2009 BlogTalkRadio.com. All Rights Reserved.