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TONIGHT: More information on Starkids and related channels. We will investigate the changes that are going on in our current reality and the global reconnections to 'all that is' through our dreams, rituals, fantasies and current living conditions in 3D. Join us as we explore the multiverse as stated on Daniel Jacob's site http://www.reconnections.net and Gwynne Mayer's site http://www.gwynnemayer.com. We are anticipating hearing from you and the current ups and downs of your reality. It might just be the feedback some of the listeners need. Also join us on our CHAT Sunday evenings during the show. Also notice the call number is 347-215-7338.
Date / Time: 4/25/2009 5:18 PM UTC
Let us take a moment to examine what happens when two halves of a Unified Being interact. The primary purpose of Relationship is to experience a part or parts of the Oneself that cannot be perceived when we are alone (all one). Cursory glances produce general perceptions. To truly achieve a vivid experience of your "Other," a creator needs to get close. This mandates what has been called "intimacy." When a person is in Separation Mindset, a search for intimacy seeks a deeper understanding of the partner with whom you are dancing. When in a Oneness Mindself, the focus shifts to what this person reflects about you.
An "Intimate Interface" is produced through an weaving together of Separation Awareness and Conscious Reconnection. Within it, a person exists, quite literally, between two worlds. You get to *feel* what its like to be two separate people, even though you *know* that you are one. We are not just talking philosophy here. We are describing vivid, experiential bonding that can only be achieved when you have activated and installed some of the powerful perceptual "software" that has already been downloaded into your Consciousness "Database." This state of joy is available to you all, right now.
We have shared many times that, in fragmentation, there is a dividing up of abilities and attributes between two distinct personalities. It is as though you opened your wallet, took out half your money, and gave it to your friend. When it comes time to pay all the bills, some funds must be contributed by each partner, if all the bases are going to be covered. So it is with an Intimate Interface.
When you stand and face your partner (any partner, in physical space), what you *see there* is a reflection of the fragment which is you. It is your mirror image. What that person appears to need, is what you need to give to yourself. When you do that, the mirror changes. The effect or tone of what he or she is wearing, is instantly applicable to you. Anything that appears there has a meaning, if you wish to know it. A little bit of imagination, and a clear exercise of creative metaphor will take you a long way in this regard.
When all the visual assessment is done, you become ready to turn your attention inward, to your feelings. When you are in Intimate Interface with your Other, what you *feel in your body* belongs to them, not you. Understanding this crucial insight will immediately answer lots of problems some of you are having with relationships. We are speaking here about Empathic Connection. Their hurts have become your hurts. Their desires, in that moment, are your desires. In fact, there may even be some clear comprehensions, when in the Interface, that involve desires or feelings your partner never knew were there. Living in physical reality can distract a person. Or, perhaps that individual has developed a kind of sensory "blind spot" regarding a given subject.
An Intimate Interface is a great gift you can give to him or her, if you share what you receive in a compassionate and tactful way. And, as we have emphasized, a gift given to your "other" is a gift given to self. You must remember, when you merge with another being at this depth, you have entered into the "Holy of Holies." Behave that way. Be respectful. Move slowly, sharing only what seems constructive and/or indicated by your own inner guidance. We speak here, half in Separation and half in Oneness. This is the nature of the Intimate Interface.
Should both partners be asleep in Separation, what would be mirrors for them become windows---allowing the awareness to dissipate out into space. However, they still have plenty of reason to interact. Others, not related to the Dance itself, can utilize the mirrors---interpreting what is seen there from a very empowering "third person" position.
Is it any wonder that, when two people are locked in a "conflict" of viewpoints, one of them is frequently overheard to say: "Are you putting me on?" Deep down they both know that the answer is a resounding: "Yes!"
Technically, there can never be a conflict of viewpoints. There is only a single viewpoint, that has failed to integrate and allow for its Other. With the gradual arrival of Reconnection Processing, humankind will obtain a growing understanding of the real reason why you all struggle, the real reason why you don't have harmony in your perceived universe: You have been doing battle with yourself.
The Gift of Relationship is to create a space where a Oneself can "come apart"---vividly experience what his differences are---and then pull himself back together again. This is the Dance of Two As One. It's a thrill a minute, and well-worth the effort. In days to come, our inner connection with you can expand these concepts into a powerful, workable re-framing of your entire world. Your appreciation of your various Separations (your "Others") can be continually grounded and focused by a regular exposure to Oneness Processing. The thrill of the Game of Separation can delight you, but it no longer needs to overwhelm you.
We are always here. Enjoy your Game. Copyright, 2002, by Daniel Jacob. All Rights Reserved.
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