Gabbie Chase  

Late nite show about the spiritual life. What it means to me.

Our inner most reality has a way of creating whatever it is that we focus on the most. When we hold on to emotional pain, then our reality is just that, the pain of our emotions. In our unconscious mind the memories that often reminds us of what our reality is will bring about the beliefs that we are not good enough for whatever it is that is in our life’s at that moment, due to the pain that we have endured in our past. That unconscious guilt can be released therefore changing our inner reality and giving us a better outlook about ourselves and the world around us. .. .. There are several steps that we can take in order to allow our perception to shift to wisdom, acceptance and forgiveness. Only then we are able to focus on what is most important in our lives and move forward with a healthier outlook for our future. .. .. Here are a few steps that we must follow: · Understanding- Trying to understand that whatever the emotional pain is, it is part of life. No matter how much you want to change the past, you cannot. You must move on from the past and look to the here and now!.... · Acceptance- You must accept the fact that whatever your pain is, it is there and real. You must deal with it head on and accept that it has happened..... · Identify- Identify the pain. Put a “name to the face.”.... · Release- Find a way to release that pain. .... · Let Go Of Blame- This is one of the most important steps. Let go of all blame. It doesn’t matter who or what is the blame of your pain. You must let the blame fall to the side. If you continue to blame yourself or others then you have not accepted, understood, or identified, and cannot move on. .... If you feel like your ready to step up to the plate and release all that pain, so that you have the freedom to be happy once more, then here is a few tips:....

 

The whole process of mental, spiritual, and emotional riches
may be summed up in one word - Love.

 

 

 

 

 

 

In this series I would like to start out talking about something that all of us need, want, and

give:

 

Love…..

 

 

 

 

The defection of love has many i.e.…

 

1) Love-

 

A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

2)Love -

 

A feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance.

 

 

 

But no matter how we define it, it still has the same result…If we get it we’re happy, if we don’t we’re sad.

It amazes me that some people put their happiness in the hands of others and not in them selves…..

 

 

Happiness is not what happens by chance.
Nor is it something you can only wish for.
Happiness is something you create for yourself.

 

 

 

Self Love - The instinct or desire to promote one's own well-being; regard for or love of one's self

 

 

 

 

Three basic things to keep in mind

: Who you are is more important than what you do. You are valuable. Nothing can change that. What you want always matters.

 

 

 

Love is too wonderful for any of us to have a "right" to it!.
Need is not love.

Love is not passion.
Passion is not love.
(But they sure work well together!)

Romantic love is somewhat overvalued.
The love of strangers is greatly undervalued.

Love and hate are not opposites.
They coexist in all relationships.

Never set up tests of someone's love for you.
It's very hard to kill love,
but "testing" it can do the job very quickly!

Getting love is seldom more than a matter of:
1) Finding someone who can love,
2) Asking for their love,
3) Then receiving it without imagining that strings are attached.

For people who have not yet learned to love themselves,
absorbing love is the hardest, and most necessary, thing they can do.

Loving is a little bit scary.
After all, it might get thrown back in your face.
But loving no one is the scariest of all.
It leads to isolation, desperation and other horrors.

There is nothing more wonderful for a loving person
than to see someone absorb their love.

Don't impugn the motives of someone who loves you,
and don't be surprised when you find that they want something from you.
Everyone who loves you is selfish.
So is everyone who doesn't!
So is everyone.

It's not complicated to find out if someone loves you.
Just look into their eyes as they are looking at you
and believe what you see!

Our partners need to love us AND treat us well!

Love does not conquer all! (Damn it!)

Love is not joy,
but it sure brings a lot of it around!

I can't explain why we humans have been given the ability to love
but I intend to spend my whole life taking full advantage of it.
I want to take it when it's there and move on when it's not.
I want to give it when I have it,
and continue to marvel as I watch it multiply.

Love is about inclusion.

Self-love is taking our place in the universe.

Loving others is giving them a place within ourselves.

 

 

 

 

Now I think it would be best if we explored the other side of

 

Love….

 

 

 

 

 

there is no characteristic facial expression for love

 

 

As elusive as it is irrational, love is thought to be our noblest and strongest emotion. Love may show in

breathing rate, dating, the face turning “red“, heart rate, a hug, a kiss, sex, personal distance, pupil size, and the tone in your voice.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Lust, admiration, crush or respect. Love can mean different things to different people. The love you feel for members of your family is very different from the passionate, erotic (from Eros, the Greek god of love) feelings you have for your mate. You can love your friends, but that sort of platonic affection is very different from what you feel for your boyfriend.

Yet some people maintain that there is no difference in types of love and that all forms spring from the same human desire to connect with another being. While this may be true, how can you determine if what you feel is love and not just sexual attraction? And what if you happen to find someone you're in love with, but then you decide to ignore your feelings because the timing is off? Does true love only come around once, or can it happen many times in one's life? Is there really such a thing as love at first sight, or can you only truly fall in love with someone you've known for a long time?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Unreciprocated love is very common and has been around since before Shakespeare's time. And while the 19^th century poets may have made it sound idealistic, the problem with this situation is that it can quickly turn into an obsession if you're not careful. Most people are programmed to want what they can't have (also known as 'the grass is greener on the other side' syndrome). By simply being denied someone's love, they can form feelings of attachment, which can turn into an obsession if left uncontrolled. Another problem with unrequited love is that it can quickly become more of a challenge than a real emotion. Being rejected can rob someone of his ego, and in turn, this person may try to prove that he is worthy of love. On the other hand, if you feel strongly attached to someone because you respect and admire who they are, you may actually be in love.

 

 

 

 

 

So be really careful of who you choose to love and make sure that the love comes back to you….

 

 

 

 

Eyes Wide Open,

Gabbie

With The Eyes Of An Angel is a segment about angels. Stories, background informationa and a couple of prayers to your own angel..be it human or heavenly...

Angels

 

Do angels really exist? Some skeptics say they are just imaginary characters from Bible stories. But many people around the world have reported encounters or sightings of beings that they believe are angels. They appear and vanish mysteriously, and often offer comfort or understand in extraordinary ways. 

What are angels?

Angels symbolize God in a more worldly form. Angels symbolize some of the greatest qualities of God: compassion, love, understanding, non-judgment, happiness and peace.

   My sons Angel story
( this one really is my favorite, due to the fact it was my 4yrs old son)

 

We were in Germany getting ready to leave back to the states. My daughter  had the chicken pox 2 weeks prior to us leaving. I felt sure Gary, my son was fine for the flight.

Low and behold 1hr into the flight he came down with a fever. The trip was long and with a 4yr old sick it wasn’t pleasant. To make a very long story short Gary was really sick, about 3 days after we got home he went into coma and died right there in front of me. They finally brought him back after awhile but he was still in coma for another 2 months

One day after he finally came around he told me that there was a lady in a white dress that told him he needed to go home and she read stories about angels and little baby Jesus, he also talked of a man in black that wanted him to go with him but Gary said the lady in white would not let him leave! All this coming from a child!

What is your storie? call in and let me know...xoxo Gabbie

 

Spiritual awareness is natural and leads to recognition of the wonder of creation and the reality of the Creator. Such vision changes attitudes and creates what can only be described as the 'mission' in life.


Spiritual realization is freedom within; our physical body relaxed and free; our mind calm, balanced, centered. Understanding that our love and life force will never end.


We live in the world body, mind, emotion and soul powered and nurtured from the 'Spirit of Understanding' that is beyond the temporal. Moreover, when we live each new moment here on earth with that understand acting for the good of each moment's event, we align ourselves with our own Soul, our own permanent Self that transcends time, place, space, and condition. Understanding that our spiritual essence will live on.

 

 

When we open our minds to the possibility that life isn’t only in the now and that it expands past what we can see, hear, touch or allow ourselves to understand we then open a whole new world of reality. A reality full of a new kind of understanding about life and death.

An understanding that our psychical bodies and current mind set is only the outer surface to the core of our whole existence. An existence that can, have and will change forms. An example of this type of change can be compared to a drop of seawater. It starts out with as just one small molecule surrounded by other molecules of the same continent. Continually changing form with every ripple of the wind. Evaporating into the clouds and then being rained upon the earth, even thought it’s place within the world has changed it’s assignment will stay the same, for ever being the same molecule only changing form and place.

The one thing that we as humans can count on from the day that we enter this world is change. No matter how much we feel that we need to stay in our provable ‘ comfort zone’ change is inevitable. From childhood to old age and death it is change that brings us to these stages in life. The good, bad and ugly of life begins and ends with change. Understanding this and coming to the realization that one cannot stop nor fight change but direct the changes that are unavoidable in life will directly affect the outcome of where this life on earth will lead. And like a chain reaction can affect your existence after your psychical life is over and your spiritual life begins. Not fearing these changes can help you see the bigger picture and allow for an easier transition from one stage to another.

Fear by definition :

being afraid or feeling anxious or apprehensive about a possible or probable situation or event

an emotion experienced in anticipation of some specific pain or danger (usually accompanied by a desire to flee or fight)

Fear is an unpleasant feeling of perceived risk or danger, real or not.

 

Acceptance by definition:

coming to terms with something: the realization of a fact or truth resulting in somebody’s coming to terms with it.

the tolerating of something without protesting

 

Accepting the changes in life and accepting the responsibility of your action will determine the outcome for the next transition in your life. Even the undesirable events that occur in one’s live can have an effect on every other stage in life. For example Beth goes to the grocery store to purchase a can of orange juice. When she is checking out she notices the cashier looks upset and appears to not be paying attention and charges Beth too much for the juice. Beth then get upset and confronts the cashier in a demeaning way. Unbeknown to Beth the cashier is depressed she lost her child 3 months earlier and is contemplating taking her own life, and does after she gets off work. The next day Beth is reading the paper and comes across the article about the cashier and realizes that it happened only hours after she was rude her.

There are several things Beth can do from this point. She can take responsibility for her action and change the way she handles situations that come up or she can not take responsibility and continue on the same path. Destroying possible lives with hurtful words and reap the consequences one her journey after her psychical life is over.

 

Maybe not every situation in life is this dramatic but the results are all the same. Weather it’s hurtful words and you change someone’s life pushing them to extreme measures or a simple negative phrase you use and again, like a chain reaction that person does it to another due to the negativity that you bestowed upon them. The result is pushing that energy onto someone who is just like you. Who lives day by day and just wants to fit in and be happy. The moral of this story, take responsibility for the things you say and do, embrace the changes that need to occur to correct it and change your life and someone else’s for the better. Your life here on earth will be a much healthier and happier one. Remember, that you will be help liable for your actions weather it’s a direct or indirect action.