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Date / Time: 2/8/2009 10:41 PM UTC
lot of people carry around with them a lot of "baggage" or "clutter" in their minds.
When I say this I mean that they are still holding onto things that they say they should do but don’t, the person who they had a row with but both are not speaking to each other – but both want to, the coulds and shoulds in your life that hold you back – you need to let go, but you don’t.These people carry around with them a lot of emotional attention that you could be doing without and focussing on something more productive instead!
Are you like this?
If you are, I bet it had a negative influence on your confidence and self esteem.
The approach Take a look at your life and get rid of this baggage by asking yourself a series of questions and by completing the following exercise.
In effect, what we are doing is making certain tasks "complete", drawing a line under them and moving on.
Another term for this is "psychological completion" or just "completion"
The following set of questions can be taken at one sitting or over a number of hours/days.
By writing the answers down they become more formal.
Get to it and watch your confidence soar!
Putting up with!
Make a list of 10 things that you are putting up with at home
Make a list of 10 things that you are putting up with at work
Make a list of 10 things that you are putting up with in any other area of your life
Make an action plan to get rid of/communicate these things that you have been putting up with
Unfinished matters!
Make a list of things that are unresolved/unfinished in your life
Make an action plan of how to reduce this number!
Do you need to clear the air with anyone? If so, just do it! Life is too short!
Did you ever say that you were going to call someone or keep in touch with someone yet have done nothing about it? If yes, call them or send an email to them today
Let go of as many coulds, woulds, shoulds, maybe, oughts as you can. Write these down.
Your standards!
Write down the standards that you have been saying to yourself that you should have; let go of these and write down a list of the standards that you are going to have in your life from this day forward.
List 5 people who you admire the most. Identify their greatest qualities, behaviour and how they lead their life. What standards so they have? What standards could you raise starting today to be more like them?
Respect that other’s standards will be different from your own. Think of 5 close colleagues or friends – what are their standards and how are they different to yours?
By completing these exercises you will be able to focus more on the here the now and the future.
You will now be able to let go of some of the things that have been taking up your valuable attention units – those things that knock your self esteem.
free2live2
2/27/2009 12:47 AM UTC
Hi Stephanie, Thank you for adding your comment most appreciated. Well yes when we discover more of our inner self and take that time out to reflex, it does suprise us to find how much cluttering we carry, without ever notice it been there. And funny enough medically it does leave you feeling ill and and tired. Then we hear people say 'Why do I feel like this' or why am I feeling so ill' If you take a look at the stress level that is on a record high in Uk, sometimes it not so much the enviroment but what we carry within, not dealing with the issue and they become the greatest blockge to every area of our lifes. Once agin thank you I will give you a call to discuss further with you.
BigYellow
2/25/2009 1:45 PM UTC
Hi There, Very interesting post! It's unbelievable how much decluttering helps you feel better about your home and therefore about yourself. And with our economy being unwell, everybody needs a bit of TLC at the moment! Working at Big Yellow, this is something I often see. People need to feel good about themselves again, and regain control, which often starts with addressing those ever-existing storage problems, by getting a storage unit. If you would like to chat more about this, as I am very interested in hearing your views, feel free to drop me a line and visit us at bigyellow.co.uk Cheers, Stephanie
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