Fearless Generations 12 Steps to Freedom: Step 12 Love: Boundaries

I use to not know what boundaries were. I gave all my time and energy to others. I let others treat me however they felt like. I didn't do much in the way of standing up for myself or meeting my own needs.  I didn't need to, I thought, I was getting my needs met. I was so empty and I didn't like myself very much. I let others to have my power, tell me what to do or not do, and I that doing this would bring me love and I would be needed.  But, how can someone love me if I'm not really there? If they can't see me, they can't love me, and they can't reject me either.  Learning how to set boundaries has changed and saved my life