The D-SPOT / The Independent Artists Cafe`

Are we in control of our own choices? Or are we influenced or controlled by sources and forces seen and unseen? I think we have "The Power of Limited Choice". Example: Which is your favorite color, red or blue? Your favorite color may be Flourescent Beige as it were but since that isnt an option, your Limited Power of Choice resides over 2 options and you are 'lumped' into either a red or blue person. You may be neither or neutral to both. However... The choice you made was based off a choice that was made for you.... So was it REALLY your choice originally....? Kinda like a chess game. Seems our music has SUCH an influential impact on our lives, one is left to wonder if the choices and influences of said choices are the results of todays society and ARE THE BEING MADE FOR US......................