Men are from Mars? Women are from Venus?

Understanding relationships in terms of men-are-this and women-are-that is a simple way to organize your thinking about relationships.  It is also a simple way of never truly “seeing” your lover as a unique human being.

            Sexuality, gender, desire, orientation, preferred relationship type are mixtures of the experiences, culture, emotions, stories, and biology each one of us brings to the table.  None of us hold the answers to error-free relationships, and no book or theory is going to free you from the responsibility of adapting to changes and to observing yourself and your lover to learn more each day, for more successful tomorrows.  No book or theory will free you from the work involved in living life.