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Sexually and Otherwise is a place to discuss and find our best erotic selves. It is a show about using reflection to better our erotic lives and lives in general through holistic means

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Staying together is less about the type of relationship you have and more about the rituals and commitments you have that reinforce long-term connecting. Staying together takes individuals who are committed to sharing the sunshine and the... more

Loving someone and sharing our home, finances, and emotions without compromise is a dream for which many individuals strive and want. However, at the heart of creating family, organizations, and societies is compromise.... more

Often we read and look for ways to improve our sex lives; however, if we look into the eroticism, we may find ways to improve our entire lives. The erotic is a cosmic energy that is in us to drive us to follow our desires and to be our most creative.... more

I think we all have stayed in a relationship "too long," particularly if we sexually connect, there are children involved, or options seem limited. Staying too long may mean life or death for some folk, so let's talk about some of the reasons... more

Falling out of love can change how we look at the world for the rest of our lives, so how do we trust again and love again? What things do we have to do for ourselves to have greater succes when we try to love again. Let's get it going... more

The idealized couple (or more) phase of a relationship typically lasts between 6 months and 2 years. It is usually gone by the time you have cohabitated for a year.... We often return to our own needs wants and desire. Moreover, we see... more

Trying something new sexually takes a certain amount of bravery, flexibility, and self-love because there is always a danger of rejection, hurt feelings, and painful situations. However, trying something new is also a recognition of your evolving... more

Eroticism is the meaning we place on sexual acts. We say to ourselves, "I will only do _____ with someone I love." "If he or she does ______ with someone else, he or she cannot love me.... When we come together with others to form... more

It is easy to be hard on ourselves when certain markers like Valentine's Day come and we have not reached a certain stage in our lives: "I will not spend another Valentine's Day alone!" "By the time I am 35, I will be committed relationship."... more