Having a hard time finding your fit in social circles, clicks, clubs, groups, organizations, ministries, etc...It is all your fault!...You need to stop!...Check yourself!...Ask yourself, "what am I doing wrong?"...Here are a few suggestions you must consider when attempting to submerge yourself into a "tribe". Yes, I did call it a "TRIBE"...because that is what all social circles, clicks, clubs, groups, etc..ulitmately become...A tribe, is a social group of humans connected by a shared system of values and organized for mutual care, defense, and survival beyond that which could be attained by a lone individual or family. A 'tribe' is defined in anthropology. When viewed historically or developmentally, a tribe is a mutual care system which, unlike a kingdom or state or other schema, is oriented around kinship and shared beliefs..... Suggestion#1...find out if the tribe has the same belief/agenda as you do. (it makes no sense in getting yourself all excited about being apart of something only to find out you have absolutely NOTHING IN COMMON... you just don't think alike /live alike or look alike...PROBLEM!!) Suggestion#2...find out if the tribe has an open door policy for admissions. (You maybe trying to get in somewhere you have not been invited to in the first place..you walk in the door and knives start jetting from peoples eyes ...PROBLEM!!) Suggestion#3...find out if the tribe is based on socio-economic statis (that is popular these days...I should have made this sug#1)... Bougie or Realistic. (you may be too low class for the Bougies and too fake for the Realistics!) Suggestion#4...if you have had little success in being accepted into a tribe of your choice...the last and final suggestion should suit you perfectly!! Suggestion#5...START YOUR OWN BLEEPIN TRIBE, FOR EARTH'S SAKE!! (stop running around from this to that waisting time...most people who are easily accepted into social circles,clicks, groups, organizations, gangs, ministries, etc...are usually followers and don't have the BACK-BONE to be leaders...and is ok just following..ok! that is for them but, You my friend...are not a follower...you are an independent thinker, a creative force to be reconed with, unique on all levels of intellegence...so therefore, you want be easily accepted into these tribes because there is only room for one CHIEF!! And the chief of any tribe have the ability to recognize competiton when he sees it..YOU!!) GET IN WHERE YOU FIT IN...PERHAPS, IT IS YOUR OWN CREATION..YOUR TRIBE! Sincerely, Don't give up on U!