Forgiveness is difficult for those who feel that they have been wronged in some way. To forgive your violator feels like you have granted them freedom from the responsibility of their crime against you. When I say crime I mean both crimes punishable by law and by Karma. The crimes punishable by Karma are the crimes we commit so easily against each other such as gossip, slander, intimidation, rejection, mean treatment, back stabbing, etc...Forgiveness of such offenses usually don't happen over night. It takes time to recover from the injury inflicted upon you and the idea of Forgiveness seem to be the last resolution to the problem. Most people feel that confronting those who have caused them harm will resolve the pain but, many times it only fuels the fury. What if that person denies what they have done, what if they ignore your efforts to make them aware of what they have done to you by avoiding you, what if they admit doing it and refuses to care???? Do you take it upon yourself to TAKE IT TO THEM...IN THE WORST WAY!!....or....Do you travel through the duration of your life carrying the weight of unforgiveness in your head and heart?????.....Help yourself by FORGIVING THOSE WHO HAVE TRESPASSED AGAINST YOU A.S.A.P.!!!.....You may never recieve the closure you want from others....As a matter of fact they have forgotten about the hurt that they have caused you and furthermore....could careless how it has affected you all these years!!!....Forgiveness restores your JOY, PEACE, CREATIVITY, LOVE, HEALTH, HAIR(smile), and HOPE!...You are not doing it for your violator but in fact you are doing it for yourself!...You are taking yourself out of the passenger seat of victimization and placing yourself in the drivers seat of VICTORIOUS!!....Forgivenss is your best friend! Sincerely, Don't give up on U!