DJ SQWYD  

A Frank Discussion With Women

Allow me to preface the following thoughts with a disclaimer; the views expressed may offend, yet is intended to inspire a straightforwardness among people intimately affected by the substance of my assertions; all situations are generalized, not absolute (so, don't go interjecting the, "See, me myself" line). I'm not delusional; believing I have embarked on any social unknowns. Moreover, I attempt to use objectiveness when addressing and combating all subject matter. In no way am I endorsing the mistreatment of either sex by the other, but let's approach this thing rationally; which is probably going to be difficult.  Now, with that out of the way, ladies, can we communicate, frankly about men?

If you know that you market yourself in a manner that accentuates your physical attributes, why do you to expect him to appreciate you for something else?  When a conscience effort to get attention works, (wearing short-short clothing or tattoos on body parts that bring attention to THAT part of the body- or close proximities) don't treat sexually educed responses with insulted astonishment. In short, stop blaming men for responding to your overt or subliminal desire for attention. Ladies, you know what you're doing.

Another thing, ladies, stop thinking YOU (or more accurately, your sex) can make a man be something he isn't or has no desire to be. Love is not a forcible emotion nor can true love be manipulated. Men are creatures of habit; and that habit is more often than not motivated by his desire for sex, not love. In addition, I must add, sexual satisfaction is selfishly pursued by most men; it's not about you. Thus, don't be so self-indulged that you take leave of the evident. A man wanting to run-up in you makes you about as special as a fish that swims. If you are the independently thinking, affirmatively strong, self-defined, and smarter gender, the preceding should make absolute sense. To be continued.