IF IT DIDNT MATTER TO YOU THEN...WHY IS IT IMPORTANT NOW?!?!?!

IN CONCLUSION TO HIS SERIES ABOUT THE IMPORTANCE OF FATHERS IN THE LIVES OF THEIR SONS AND DAUGHTERS, DJ SQWYD WANTS TO KNOW WHY POST CHILDBIRTH, MANY FEMALES ASK QUESTIONS OF THE INVISIBLE MAN(MAN WHO NO LONGER DESIRES TO BE WITH YOU) THAT THEY REFUSED TO ASK PRIOR TO HAVING SEX. QUESTIONS SUCH AS "DO YOU DESIRE TO BE A FATHER TO A CHILD", "ARE YOU WILLING TO EMOTIONALLY & FINANCIALLY SUPPORT A CHILD", ETC. THE FAILURE OR UNWILLINGNESS TO ASK THOSE QUESTIONS WERE NOT IMPORTANT BEFORE HAVING SEX, WHY IS IT IMPORTANT TO ASK THE QUESTIONS NOW?